My wife uses enemas as her main discipline technique since she took the
dominate role in the bedroom which began about five years ago. She
dictated, to me, the following article regarding female domination and
enemas for punishment and discipline. She directed me to post her
article on the internet so other women could gain from her methods.
Also, she instructed me to write an introduction to her article.. She
required this introduction to summarize the change in our relationship
when she first took control of our sex life. So first the introduction
and then the article.
Our life and sex life were very conventional for the first 23 years of
our marriage. Before children, we dabbled in bondage and discipline with
me being the sub. On these occasions, my wife would take the dominating
role and tie me in bed. She would have her way sexually with me for an
hour or two and that would be the end of the session. We played around
this way maybe once or twice a month.
With children in the household, our bondage sessions came to an end. I
must admit, I rather missed them as I enjoyed being dominated by her.
The next stage of our life was very conventional in bed.
As time went by and years passed, my sexual performance waned. The
strength of my erections were too often less than satisfactory, and my
wife did not receive the depth of penetration she desired. I did become,
however, very proficient at servicing her orally and she certainly
enjoyed the orgasms she received when I went under the covers.
One Saturday morning, I heard her stirring in the bathroom as I awoke.
As I was laying there more asleep than awake, she climbed back in bed.
She started fondling my penis to coax me to arousal. She had slipped
into her very sexy red panties and was rubbing her ass and crotch
against my face. I lay there enjoying all of this attention and the
fragrance from her cunt, but I was again failing to get a true erection.
She stopped after a time and crawled up beside me.
"How about a little bondage?" she said. "I bet if I tie you to the bed
you will get a big hard-on."
Wow, the suggestion had an immediate effect, and I could feel an
energized pulsation in my groin. "Sure, I am up for that" I replied.
So she brought in four lengths of rope and four belts. She wrapped the
belts around my wrists and ankles and buckled the tightly. She looped
the rope through the belts and tied them to the bed frame so my arms
were pulled out straight from my sides and my legs were spread.
She mounted my face and rubbed the crotch of her panties over my mouth
and nose. She continued this process and would clamp my face between her
thighs from time to time. "Honey" she said, "I see you are really
enjoying this" as she began to tease my now rock hard penis with her
hands. She was enjoying it too as her panties were now soaking with her
"Now I am going to ride your cock. You must not cum until I give you
permission. Is that understood?"
"Yes Mistress," I responded.
She left my face and took off he panties. She positioned herself over my
penis and began to draw me into her. She was in total control and I
could tell that she was enjoying the penetration from my engorged penis.
She pressed her hands down on my chest and got into a swaying and then
gyrating motion. Her cunt was alive and I could feel the strength of her
growing climax as she contracted and swelled. She came in waves and
That was too much for me and I too came and a shuddering orgasm. I felt
I that I had approached a near death experience. She collapsed on my
chest and held me for several minutes.
As I lay there totally contented, she moved around and grabbed my
flaccid penis. "I instructed you not to cum until I gave you permission,
"Yes, dear you did but do you really think I could hold back while you
were doing that number on me?"
"That is not the issue, I wanted to have a nice long session of fucking
you. You better be able to get hard again. I give you about five
So she positioned her cunt over my face and sat down as she began to
work on my cock. She immersed me in the juices from our lovemaking as
she teased me sensuously. But she was having no success. She finally
gave up and said "you did not do as you were told and now you will be
She climbed from bed and brought back a large wooden spoon. Instead of
spanking me, she coiled the rope tying my left arm around the spoon and
began turning the spoon to wind the rope. In this fashion, she was
stretching my arms by tightening the rope. When I was completely
stretched so I could not move my arms in any way, she stopped and tucked
the spoon between the rope and mattress to hold it from uncoiling.
She then picked up her panties and pulled the crotch over my mouth and
nose. She then encased my head in a pair of her panty hose and wrapped
the stocking legs over my eyes to prevent me from seeing what was to
come. I lay there unable to move and waited for several minutes.
When she returned she announced that my discipline session would make up
the remaining time she had planned for love making.
"The punishment you will receive is in the form of a hot enema. I have
filled my two-quart bag and you will take it all and hold it for as long
as I determine necessary. I expect you to have better luck holding the
enema than you did maintaining your erection. Is that understood?"
"Yes, Mistress" was all I could muster. My arms were beginning to loose
feeling and I could only her the sound of her preparations.
Without warning she penetrated my anus with the pipe of the enema
apparatus, and she began the flow of water that was quite hot. She
positioned herself sitting on my chest and she held the tube in place
with one hand. The velocity of the flow kept changing and she told me
that she was holding the bag at different heights for her amusement. Now
and then she would squeeze the bag to create a powerful injection.
I could feel the enema working its way into the depths of my gut.
Fortunately, I did not experience too much cramping but began to feel
completely full. However, more water continued to flow and I felt the
need to pant. Her weight on my chest caused my panting to be very
shallow. Just as I started hyperventilating, I heard her clamp the tube
and remove the pipe. She got off my chest and positioned herself between
my legs in order to hold my buttocks together.
"You will not loose a drop until I release you from bondage. How does 30
She maintained her hold with one hand, and she thumped or rubbed my
abdomen with the other. By this time, I had no feeling in my arms and my
legs were beginning to loose feeling in the same way. I had to alter my
breathing ever time a cramp or an urge for release was pressing. My body
was covered in a thin layer of perspiration.
Finally, she said "time is up, I hopped you learned a lesson. Did, you?"
"Oh, yes, Mistress. I am truly sorry for disappointing you and not
obeying your commands."
As she untied my legs first and then my arms, she said, "Good. I want
you to know that I realize that I need to change things around here. It
will be much better for both of us for me to be in charge of our sex
life. Do you agree?" she asked as she cupped my balls and pressed my
In my state with the need for the toilet all I could say was "yes,
"Good from today forward you will submit to all my desires and my
discipline. Now get into bathroom and relieve yourself and wait for my
inspection. If I think it necessary, I will have to administer another
enema or maybe a complete enema series. Are my directions understood?'
Enemas for Punishing and Disciplining the Submissive Male
Enemas can be incorporated as an exquisite form of female domination.
Methods and attitudes can range from loving and caring, authoritative,
humiliating, or sadistic. The submissive truly yields his body to his
mistress in the process of having an enema or a series of enemas.
The mistress is in complete charge, and the submissive has no control
whatsoever. He submits to all aspects of the procedure:
-ingredients of the enema,
-temperature of the solution,
-timing or the rate of the release of fluid,
-amount of solution,
-time required to retain the fluid,
-different body sensations, and
-rate and intensity of expulsion.
The mistress controls delivery of the enema. The preparation of the
solution, the method of administering the enema, the position of the
submissive, the directions to the submissive for holding and then
release, and the number of repeat irrigations are all in her charge.
Nature controls the rest as the submissive often loses control over his
bodily reactions. Each enema session tends to provide an unpredictable
level of pleasure, discomfort, or pain. Sometimes, the contents of a two
quart enema bag are easily received, flowing sensuously into the bowels.
The next session may cause intense and painful cramping sensations, and
muscular reactions of the abdomen may inhibit the amount of fluid that
can be taken. All of these conditions will vary with his biological and
psychological state. Thus, individual enema sessions produce an
unpredictable, overpowering, and disarming sensations in the submissive
and ultimate dominant control for the mistress
The ability to hold fluid over even short periods of time may be
partially related to mind over matter and partially related to
involuntary muscular activity. Temperature and ingredients also play a
role in the ability to hold solution. Fluids close to body temperature
with few or no ingredients can be held longer.
The mistress may use other measures to induce rewards and punishments
for maintaining the internal holding period. I use different methods.
Sometimes gentle abdominal and thigh massage; sometimes the distraction
by requiring sexual activities of masturbation or cunnilingus service.
Inserting an anal plug; bondage control; slapping, paddling, or whipping
are very effective discipline techniques. The promise for additional
enemas or prolonged punishment for failure to hold as requested can be
The release of the enema invokes another series of uncontrollable
sensations. The submissive is often incapable of controlling the rate of
expulsion. Sometimes the expulsion may be immediate, continuous, and
complete; other times it may be delayed, sporadic, prolonged. The
expulsion may be gentle or explosive, sensuous or painful, controllable
or completely beyond control. Humiliation is often at its height during
the expulsion period, and a insightful mistress can enhance the
psychological humiliation as desired. Additionally, he may be uncertain
that he has completely finished. In this state, he leaves the bathroom
but remains concerned about the consequences of being too far from the
The mistress can create many different atmospheres such as loving and
caring, disinterested and mechanical, or cruel and sadistic. She should
use other forms of female domination with some enema sessions. Differing
degrees of bondage - such as securing the submissive male’s hands away
from the enema device, his anus and genitals; chaining the victim to the
toilet; securing him away from the toilet; or complete immobilizing him
- provide a wide range of possibilities.
Encasing the submissive male’s head in a hood or inhibiting sight,
smell, and sound is an extremely effective means of enforcing the
mistress’ total control. Forcing the submissive to wear the mistress’
soiled panties over his face and nose keeps his mind on her overpowering
sexuality and adds both humiliation and sexual desire. Use of gags is
Constricting girdles that are tight around the waist and abdomen can be
used to effect the ability to take the enema. Feminine attire is
desirable for some sessions. Finally, rubber sheets and rubber clothing
make excellent peripheral enema equipment. The typical red rubber enema
bag is an essential piece of equipment for incorporating enemas into
female domination sessions.
A multiple enema session can be completely disarming. The mistress can
use this technique to reduce a strong or rebellious submissive into a
malleable and compliant individual. A multiple enema session can be
designed to completely clean out the bowels by requiring continuous
irrigation until the fluid coming out is clear. Multiple enemas can also
be administered over a prolonged period of time such as 24 hours, an
entire weekend or more. The submissive should be reduced to having no
control over his biological cycles. In this manner, he experiences the
ultimate form of complete submission to his mistress.
Finally, multiple enemas can be used in conjunction with very effective
interrogation sessions. The slave looses the control of the most
intimate part of his body and is completely vulnerable. Very little time
is required before the slave understands the benefits of being
compliant, honest, and completely truthful. Confession sessions can be
structured so that the slave truly spill his guts verbally,
psychologically, and physically. A strict mistress can uncover his
desires, needs, feelings, misdeeds, fantasies, plans, and level of
honest commitment to his dominate female.
Enemas are probably the most powerful, safe method of reducing any man
to the desired level of submission, servitude, or complete slavery.
Please send in your experiences with enemas and successful examples of
how you use this technique to control and dominate the man in your life.