I have received enemas from another man a few times. These were the best enemas that I have ever had. I got enemas one time from a female (whom I was not related to) and I've had colonics from a few different women. All were okay and very enjoyable, but the enemas that I got from my male friend down in Springfield Il. truly were the best.
The atmosphere was very relaxed and it was totally discrete - I did not have to worry if I did or did not get a hard on. I got to be naked, and yes I had a boner pretty much the whole time. I got to use the toilet while my giver was still present. It was kinda embarrassing (which I dug on), but not humiliating.
My e-friend is gay but he has never even suggested that we do anything "other" than enema related stuff down there in his basement. He has had his finger up my butt and has given me some awesome prostate massages - stuff that I had agreed to and that I like. I have never had a "decent" prostate massage from a woman. The one woman that had given me actual enemas that one time gave an attempt at a prostate massage - but it was more like a finger wiggle up my ass for just a couple minutes, then she said her wrist was tired. (BTW, I am sure that there are MANY women that know how to massage a prostate and actually ENJOY doing it. Unfortunately I just haven't met one yet!)
There has been some contact made with my genitals... Again though, only after I had suggested it. I am getting more comfortable with that sort of thing too. Hey, it all feels good why deny it. I truly hope too that my host gets something out of it also - to think or expect otherwise would be truly selfish. If my friend enjoys pampering and pleasuring my rear in a way that I of course enjoy also, it's certainly all the better!
Most of all if I am getting enemas or a prostate probing from someone it has to be with someone that I feel I can trust. And let's face it guys, it seems that most girlfriends (that I have had, anyway) and even wives often like to talk - to their friends, sisters even, etc. It would be something that they know they could embarrass the hell out of you with too just because you had suggested or asked for such a thing, lol.
I'd love to get down to Springfield again sometime soon. I think I'm overdue 😃.