I have found that,if you have a balance with your fetish,(diapers arent the only thing in life)finding a female partner to accept your fetish isn't that daunting of a task we make it out to be in these forums.None of the 10-15 females ive shared my fetish with , had ever heard of it, but were more than happy to discover, and try to understand it. The way I explain the fetish(or whatever label ya wanna put on it) to a WORTHY lady, is this. After dating a while and getting to know one another in most OTHER aspects of life, if I want to be in a committed relationship with 1 lady, I tell her that I have a sorta unusual fetish, I'd like to share with her. Now you have her imagination running wild with "what kinda stuff is he into"..... I go thru all the repulsive things IM NOT INTO....(list many).......by the time you get to " i really like to wear diapers..... they are usually so releived thats all it is, you should be in a pamper within hours. ;) Works for me everytime, (1 freak out in about 15) id say thats worth the risk. Then again, diapers arent my whole being, (what lady wants a 1 dimensional mate? thats life revolves around a diaper? not many i bet. Also, im not a #2 type,.......think what you want, but every lady ive shared this with said,...."OMG you dont do THAT, in your diaper do you"? Thank god thats never been in my wish list. my record would be more like 0-15 if the #2 thing was something i liked. (not me) Something to think about.