Anal stretching

I want to know how to make my anus stretch a lot bigger. i will get an object in there and go up and down, but when i want the next size up, the hole itself hurts when i try... how do i make it stretch more? it barely goes in if i try for a long time, but then i go back to the smaller one... any advice?

Why do you want to go bigger when it hurts?

Do what feels comfortable. The idea is to feel a bit of a stretch like when your fucking your girlfriend, not to tear yourself apart.

Start smaller and slowly--over days/weeks/months/even years to slowly open yourself to larger and wider diameter objects. Those porno/fetish flicks where you see people getting fisted didn't get there overnight. There are NO secrets to stretching. It takes time. LOTS of time.

Just remember, go too fast too far, and you could be in for surgical anal reconstruction and your anal stretching and most anal play days will be gone forever. Know your limits. Everybody's is different.

Can I ask how old you are? If you are say 25 or 30, just low long do you think it will take you to be able to do leg splits--side to side splits and front to back splits where your legs are 180 degrees apart and your butt rests comfortably on the ground???? You anus is no different. It's just another muscle and muscles have to learn to stretch S-L-O-W-L-Y or else they will tear.

Thanks guys, thats all i wanted to know, appreciate it

All of my anal games begin with an enema. I'm not into messing up expensive sheets & blankets!

I do that while holding. It is increditable. I fill with 4qts and then use a large dildo.

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I'm addicted (literally) to the sensation of my arse being stretched and filled, and I have a favourite butt plug that I like to wear throughout the day (3" diam. MEO stretching ring) when I can. The trouble is, my arse is not very tight, shall we say, and this limits when I can use the plug. It's ok if I'm sitting most of the time, but if I have to move around a lot, then it is very difficult to keep it in without holding it in! Not a good look. I don't really want to use a harness, but does anybody else have a better idea?

Sure,

use a plug that is easier to hold in! I know from first hand experience that just tiny differences in neck length, bulb/stem ratio and bulb shape can make a plug comfortable, easy to keep in, suitable for long term wear or a plug that gets pushed out at first inappropriate opportunity. I'd recommend to try tantus Tex. It's 3 inch diameter and the right shape for easy wearing.

Happy plugging!

The first thing that I do for any anal play is a good cleansing enema. I think a clean bum hole that is relaxed from an enema is best. Secondly a good lube job. I prefer coconut oil myself for all anal lube. Thirdly comes the enjoyment of the insertion of the object that you are playing with. Enjoy!

I use a few inflating plugs one for enemas and one for normal wear. They take the expirience to new places. I love tunnel plugs but there is something about having the pump controlled by someone else that makes the inflatable my favorite

Yes. About 24 hours before my Dom is ready to use my hole I'll administer a 2 qt enema with 3 oz. of castile soap to clean out as much of my rectum and colon as I can. I follow with a large fresh water rinse. Doing so in advance allows my colon and rectum to absorb any excess water for cleaner play.

My Dom's interest is to train my anus to take anything he wants from his fist to a wine bottle with ease. For about the past year he's been fucking my anus with his cock in his fist. It's getting easier to take over time as I get used to the stretching.

~little yam

Im a male I luv to fill my ass up with lots of water in the shower I made a little stand for the shower to hold my dildos.but anyway I take the shower head off and use the hose for the shower head and fill my ass up with water.then I luv to sit on a nice big dildo and try to take it all with all the water in me it feels great then start riding the dildo feels fantastic with the water in you.if the water all cums out just use the hose to fill back up

I won't put anything in my ass without a enema prior, enemas just make everything cleaner and more enjoyable.

What are some of you all's favorite 3"+ plugs for stretching? I've have a xl colt, and hitch plug that are just shy of 3". What I've been doing to get past that 3" mark is slipping socks over the hitch and covering with a condom. I have myself around 3.125/3.25"ish but I would like a plug that doesn't need to be altered. What are some of your recommendations here?

Take a look here.

https://www.squarepegtoys.com/shop/slink/

They have all sizes and sorts of plugs.

Squarepeg had some cool looking things, but boy, a bit pricey

I like using various sizes of speculums to hold open and stretch my hole.

Just like how i stretch my back most mornings in the shower, i typically will stretch my anus with a few fingers by gently "pulling it open". I'm always gentile and slow, and its more like a daily exercise. That way when i have that rare opportunity for alone time I am good and ready. 😉

Now this is a post that has taken a little time to begin to develop a following weathering 11 years from inception date till today-

who could imagine back in that primordial mist the idea of an enema followed by- complete surprise a DILDO

-can you imagine one day someone is going to think of playing with it while having an enema- the possibilities are virtually endless. So although they have long left the space their memory lives on. It's a beautiful thing. Oh -stretching is fun don't you think.

I am starting to love the feeling of progressively stretching out my anus. My problem is that I always seem to get to a point where I can work up to easily taking one toy while the next largest is impossible. What seems like a small change in toy diameter , say +4mm represents a large change in circumference, 12.5mm or the distance the anus must stretch to accommodate the larger toy.

I suppose I should reconsider an inflatable dildo, but the ones I have experience with were of such poor quality they lasted only a few sessions.

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I suppose I should reconsider an inflatable dildo, but the ones I have experience with were of such poor quality they lasted only a few sessions.

I've had a couple inflatable too and they did next to nothing. I was actually afraid of them exploding because I was not feeling much and kept on pumping. I really believe that proper stretching is done slow and methodically using your hands and/or decent quality tapered toys. I've also wasted time getting excited at the toy store staring at some of those big dildos only to come home and realize I'm way not ready for something that size.

... but knowing that i have that big boy stashed away for "someday" gives me motivation....

But knowing that i have that big boy stashed away for "someday" gives me motivation....

@tug - it is always good in life to set goals!

Stretching is a matter of starting small and getting used to that then slowly increasing the size over weeks or even months. The trick is to do it every day and set time limits. 30 minutes to start and go up as you can.

In our younger days, Carla and I tried stretching her anus a few times, using progressively larger toys and progressively more fingers. We got up to my dick plus four of her fingers at the same. Then for a few years, we engaged in extended anal foreplay using a 2-inch thick vibrator. The looser she got, the better we both enjoyed our anal-only sex life, but about 10 years ago the big toy started making her anus so tender that she needed a week or more to recover. We adjusted and now, every Sunday, I sodomize her with three low-volume, thick-nozzle enemas and intercourse in her comfortably accessible rectum.

Our advice: Don't overdo it with the stretching. Respect her limits, and be sensitively alert when you're getting close to them.

I always start with a deep enema cleaning whenever I am playing in the back yard. it can take me 3 or 4 deep enemas to get cleaned out deep enough to my liking to play the way I desire, and since I use the shower enema attachment that is saying something. but on the bright side I am almost always cleaned out enough to play for at least 2 days and sometimes a third day as a bonus. I have cleaned out on a Friday early evening and been able to play up until I go to bed on sunday night.

I achieved a 19" depth in December of last year. since then I have been widening the depth slowly. but occasionally I sink about 17" of a 19"anal snake up my hole and then slowly work in one of my 18" double enders along side the snake pushing the snake in deeper as I go deeper with the double ender. sometimes I can get all but the head of the double ender inside but mostly I get about 15" sank in, and sometimes I can only get just past the sigmoid before I clench up and shove both out. I was able to get them in together only after I first opened myself up with the anal snake then I used an exxtreme dildo (about 16" x 2.25") to work my girth deep. I am currently working with the medium goose to take something with girth deep.

as stated earlier and I am sure you have heard this a few times, use lube more lube and even more lube. I mix up about 2 cups of jlube or klube and I can use all of that in a day sometimes, plus I keep a large bottle of lynk lube handy when I am playing as back up. I have deep fisted a few guys that have used a thinned out mix of one of those as the last enema that they do before the fun begins to get a lube coating started in their hole.

Radio, so exciting to hear about your stretching adventures!

I am bursting with enthusiasm on this topic. I am a complete slut, an anal enthusiast, desperately addicted to the sensations of filling and stretching my ass.

I am a late arriver to the assplay scene. Curiously tittilated by the thought of enemas was gateway (a friend's comment about how getting air with an enema can cause deep, long lasting cramps did it for me 😃 The discovery that I can get deep pleasure from stretching, penetrating, and touching the delicate inside of my own ass has been a another revelation.

I mean, that was one of the special things about girls I heard around age 12 when I was starting to learn about these things: they've got this sort of sack that's slippery and they get off putting dicks and even their own fingers inside.

Well and good and hot, but can you tell what was *missing* from this picture? Yes, my very own male ass has many of the properties that makes women's pussies so appealing for the owner as well as the visitor.

I was sold (or rather bought) that I needed a woman to be sexually fulfilled, and passed some decades in anal innocence, ignorance and sexual dependence.

Later my eyes opened along with my ass 😃

I appreciate my lovers, but as none shares this so-called "kink" (I consider it normal 😃 these playtimes are solo. Usually there is some conversation between the conflicting personalities one suggesting some submissive behavior, the other anxious and vacillating until she realizes it *is* what she wants.

Being in a tropical place, I use a lot of fruit, which is helpful in graduating from one size to the next.

I've just got a toy from Squarepeg called 'Kevin'. I'm confused and challenged because I've never taken anything really long before, and can't tell if I'm being limited by the bend in my ass or the size of the knot.

I can take around 3" max, so squeezing onto the knot (which I measure at 2 7/8 by 3 1/2") will be a challenge. So will getting the tip of the toy around the bend. I wonder if I will need some narrower toy to round the bend first. (Where is the friendly neighborhood anal insertion expert when you need him?)

I'll just add that when I have some round fruity item(s) or plug inside, I find it very erotic to snap the bottoms of my white teddy to hold the toy in. The need to fumble at the snaps and concentrate when overwhelmed by sensation is always a winner. The ritual of initially snapping in, realizing I'm going to be with this a while. And when the desperation to expel the toy becomes unbearable, I have to stop my squirming and grapple with the buttons to get relief.

For extra fun, I might supplement this play with cock rings or if I'm in the mood a plastic bag with a rubber band. Getting off with something in my ass while struggling for air brings a great orgasm. (But that is another kink, I wonder if it is officially sanctioned here. Such practicies and discussion of safety considerations can be found on sites as breathplayfetish.com.)

Blessing to all fellow ass players, may your asses ache with pleasure and hunger, and may what goes in always come out.

and may what goes in always come out.

This might be the best “well wish” I’ve ever heard, Plenum! ? Thanks for sharing that gem... I will be sure to remember to use that one in the future!