I have never been able to convince a man to spank me the way I really want it. My husband is a wonderful man. He is great in bed, and treats me like a princess. I have tried to get him to spank me before sex, but he's just too nice to do it. I think it freaks him out. I've only had one other boy friend, years ago, who spanked me firmly, but he wouldn't do it HARD, you know what I mean?
Anyway, I have a few positions/scenarios I dream about, but one that gets me the hottest is where I am totally naked, except shoes and panties. He is fully dressed. As I am standing there, my legs shaking out of nervousness, he ties my hands together with some cloth strips, and then bends me over the back of the couch. Now, my ass is way up in the air, and I have to try to hold myself up with hands tied together on the seat of the couch. I hope this is making sense. Oh, and I think I'd like him to tie cloth around my mouth, to keep me from complaining to loudly, and to have something to bite down on.
He then ties my ankles together, forcing me to keep my legs closed for the beginning of my spanking. he then tells me what I have done wrong, and that I need the discipline, and he tells me how hard and how long he is going to spank me. He does it with his hand, and when his hand, and it hurts and is loud! When his hand is sore, or when he is worried about me getting wet, he takes a break to VERY lightly stroke my p**** with his middle finger. If I buck, or if I am wet, he gives me some time to stand in the corner and think about why I am being punished, then he will come for me, and start the whole spanking over again.