A young woman I know went for her first ever exam at the age of 18. She told her (male) doctor she was experiencing abdominal pain, so he suggested a full examination. During the external pelvic exam he diliberately touched her clitoris, somewhat startling her, but at least it proved her clitoris is sensitive :-*
He also gave her, without warning, a briefrectal exam, which she did not like at all.
Overall, she enjoyed the experience and now looks foreward to medical exams.