I have been wondering if there are negative effects of such things as fisting or using butt plugs. I have used butt pluggs but not very large ones, I want to use larger but I don't want to do perm. damage. Any info would be appreicated.
I have fisted my husband and I have been fisted anally and vaginally (not simultaneously) by women with small hands, but never by my husband because his hands are too large.
In general I would say that with "normal" sexual practices (I use that term VERY loosely here because fisting isn't normal), you won't overstretch the anus and with practice, it will be easier to do large insertions, and it will return to its normal condition after a rest period.
You will damage the anal ring if you overdo it, and I think if you stretch it like this:
It will most likely lose its ability to perform its usual functions of maintaining fecal continence and you will end up needing anal/rectal reconstructive surgery.
Practice, practice, practice, but listen to the little voice in your head, and don't go overboard.
My biggest dildo is the Jeff Stryker (of gay porn fame) "replica" cock. It measures 6 7/8" circumference at it's largest point using a cloth measuring tape. That's about 2 3/16" diameter. That's the largest I ever took and I can't always do it. My wife has tried to fist me and never quite got there. It didn't really hurt, it just seemed like she hit a wall and couldn't get the knuckles past. She has fairly small hands and I think she just wasn't as in to it as I was. I think some one with the same size hand but with more experience and a more "can do" attitude probably would have succeeded. All this took place several years ago. Ever since my bout with prostate cancer I still enjoy anal play but I'm a lot less aggressive with what goes up my butt. I stick to "normal" cock sized stuff today and forget the heroics of pretending I'm going for a Guinness record.
So far I haven;t had any side effects such as leakeage or tears,the only difference imo is that your stool is larger i guess due to the size of the "holding" cavity.There is a website that sells butt plugs in increments of a 1/4 inch starting at 3 1/2 inches all the way up to 5" which has a circumference of 15.5 inches thats about like taking a full roll of toilet paper and shoving in your ass sideways,roughly speaking..It does take years of practice but the sensations are indescribable. I am usung the 5" btw..I can't leave it in for more than a couple min. but the stretch sensation is great.
The video posted earlier is from the infamous KirkJ, aka Goatse Man. He obviously overstretched and I suppose he must be having leakage issues, but he is in the very very rare & extreme case.
The largest I can take is a good size fist and that's about how large I will get.
Yes, it goes back to semi-normal, but the more you do it, the bigger you can take.
After a while, say a month, it tightens up a bit. I was in the military for 2 years and of course no anal play there, only when I was on R&R or sent home for a week. Well it tightened up quite a bit, but not to the point where it was virginal again :)
I never experienced anal leakage but after play I sit with a towel between my butt cheeks just the time for it to get back to normal.
I don't think you can overstretch your anus unless you tear it -- providing that you start within your ability and work your way up gradually to the larger objects.
If you're playing with a partner, make sure it's someone you trust. A bit of alcohol as a relaxant doesn't hurt either. However, don't get trashed and lose control. You might forget to tell your playmate to stop when you really should.
I've been fisted in the past and have never had a problem with incontinence. I also find now that, in spite of the fisting in the past, I have to work up to any toy over about 1.5" in diameter.
Have fun, but play safely.
This question comes up a lot to Tristan Taoramino, aka "Butt Girl", who advises, demonstrates, writes for the Village Voice, makes movies, etc. And as I've heard other places, no you won't overstretch yourself and be incontinent in the future.
Just don't be super aggressive and risk tearing yourself - I don't know the ramifications (healing time, etc) after that.
I've used plugs for years, and can go up to a bit over 2.5". Never an issue of looseness or incontinence. What I have noticed is that when I'm in the mood, I used to have to warm-up with something finger-sized, but now I can immediately insert a standard ~1.25" plug w/o discomfort.
I would like to strech my anus any good tips on how to do it
I hate to oversimplify it, but use lots of slippery lube. Start with one finger, when it goes in easily and without resistance do two, then three, four, . . . . You can also use dildos of increasing size. it will take a while (weeks to months) and you'll get a fist in. Although probably not yours. Women can vaginally fist themselves (because they can do it from the front) much more easily than a man or woman can anally fist him or herself because the anus is entered from behind. It basically boils down to the length of your arm and the flexibility of your wrist to determine if you can actually get your fist up your ass to the wrist, rather than just all your fingers.
Warning: do not force your hand in. You can tear the anal ring (the muscle of the anus) which aside from being excruciatingly painful and require surgery to repair, everyone in the OR will know exactly what you did to yourself. Be careful.
After a period of not playing, your hole will go back to normal. The feeling is great though.
Start off small and work your way up on the same session. If you stop, it will tighten back up and you'll want to quit. After starting, about 20 min later and you'll be working your hole to a bigger size.
I have stretched my anus using larger nozzles. In a drunken state I took a rather large dildo without much pain and everything returned to normal. In another drunken state I used the dildo again and found that it was easier to insert. Seems that your muscles just learn to adapt after a while.
I remember older ladies talking about using alum to douche with . It would make them tighten up. does any one know could you do this with your anus and does it really work.
I have been with two women that enjoyed fisting in the years I have been sexually active The first enjoys both anal and vaginal fisting the second just vagional and likes to have her rettum pushed to t the limit but hasnt taken a full fist yet. Its important to take your time never push to far past your limit and always work when you are excited and relaxed and always use a good lube I dont like baby oil and i feel its to abrasive. The first lady i talked about had me use crisco shortning At first i slide my thumb down into my palm to reduce the size then once she was scremaming for me to do it harder she actually wanted to make a full fist and slide it in and out still one of the most erotic experances see her rectum so expanded then slowlt close well it is somthing i can still see
Disgusting and actually pathetic (imo). I have heard stories about excessive anal stretching and anal leakage. The best precaution is common sense. Obviously this individual will or has become a life-long member of the Depends club for men.
I think that if you are careful and are vigilant about doing anal exercise (Kegels, yes men can do Kegel exercise too ;) that you can keep your anus toned. If you do too much play and not enough exercise, you can end up like this guy:
I think this is a very extreme case of anal play, and he'll probably need to invest in Depends, if he hasn't already :P. Have fun experimenting, but again, be careful and take care of your anus. Good Luck
I too use the 20 oz Aquafina plastic bottle. I fill it completely up with warm water and put the lid on tight so the bottle won't collapse and then usually use a Magnum condom to put over it for comfort and cleanliness. Use lots of KY and standing with the bottle against the bathroom cabinet I bend slightly and back onto it nice and slow. After i have inserted the top of the bottle a couple of times to the full diameter i like to turn the bottle over and insert the bottom of it first. That way i get the full diameter of the bottle much deeper into my ass. The feeling is amazing and so damn full!!! Over 9" around!!!
I found stretching my anus very erotic specially after a enema, I like to use dildos of different thickness so that the sensations are delightful, I have not try fisting yet but I am curios about it. I found a forum with very interesting info on the subject.
Hope you enjoy.
I also love the the 20 oz. beverage bottles. you need to fill them up with warm water to keep them rigid and lots of KY. Its amazing how nice and full it makes you and MMMMMMMMMM!@!!!!
Yes I think you can, a I believe everyone has a point of damage so to speak. I made an appointment with a mistress about 3 years ago who was into enemas and prostate massage and mentioned in her ad fisting. I have always been intreaged by the idea of a womans hand in my ass, so when I got there told her so. She gave me a nice massage and then went to work on my ass. This went on for an hour or more and she finally worked four fingers into me and got me to cum manually. I give her a lot of credit, she did what she could do without harming me, I could not take her fist and she knew it.
So if the anus is streched on a regular basis (but never overstreched), can there be any negative effects? Like that it won't return to it's natural size anymore?
In my opinion fisting is dangerous only dfingers. ;)
I will have to try clenching of the cheeks to be able to hold more volume enemas in the end.
When playing anally over a period of time I found mine stretches but returns to normal after a period of not playing.
As already posted- the big problem is tearing. This can lead to infection and scarring. Go easy!
I have never had anyone fist me but have often thought I would like to experience it. I have used large custom enema nozzles and anal dialators which took some getting used to but have always found that my anus returned to normal after stopping the use of same for a while. I would say to take it real slow and easy and don't get carried away and injure yourself by trying to go big to fast.
This is a sincere serious question. Seeing alot of talk on "fisting" both anally and vaginally." Please explain benefits if any? The risk on permanent injury so real! :o
During 30 years I use big nozzles, very big plug, very big dildo and My Mistrss gives me "fist f..." weekly.My "sissy hole" is very strech and I have no problem.
I have used large nozzles many times and found when using them you should continue with the large nozzles .The reason,once the anus muscles get streched the easier to insert,however,if you stopped using the big nozzles for awhile you will have a more difficult time inserting because the muscles shrink back to normal.That was the case with me,but I'm 72yrs young so you younger guys may not have the same problems.One more thing worth mentioning is,after using large nozzles for awhile,my anus muscles had difficulties holding enema solution with a colon tube without leaking.Let the good times flow. w/m72yrs/W.MA
I to enjoy large objects in the anus. I am up to 2 3/4" dia. plug and other toys including 20 oz plastic water or soda bottles. I use the jumbo condoms to keep things sanitary and lots of lube as you mentioned. I also try to exercise the butt muscle in hopes of avoiding over stretching it but it feels SOOOO GOOD!!!
The anus is a muscle. It can be stretched but still kept in "tone" with exercise. The exercises one might do to try to hold in a larger enema... clenching... are the same one could do to keep that muscle in tone. After awhile you will be able to relax it and take even larger butt plugs but be able to get it to respond to exercise quickly regaining its tone.
I understand that the body is an amazing thing & will bounce back. I guess unless of course something extreme of brutal has occurred.
Which I dont think includes butt plugs, dildoes, fisting or enemas.
Providing time is taken to achieve the appropriate stretch & of course suitable lube.
I do a male form of Pelvic Floor Exercise. Is easy to do while driving, when stopped at the lights - clench your butt & hold.
You'll remain tight, even after a watermelon has been in you LOL ;D
Hi I can only speek for my self . IT started when I was around 6yrs old trying to insert a bulbus douche tip about 1'' dia kept getting large from there now able to use 2 1/4 inch it just takes time iam 60yrs now good luck
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