My wife knows but will only rarely participate and when she does it is without feeling. At one time she liked to bring me a bottle and some baby food in the morning but she doesn't anymore
my girlfriend participates to some extent. she prefers to be the little, and loves being kept in diapers (no messing, though). she'll let me wear around her and sometimes she requests it if she's feeling dominant, but she's against me using it at all. she's okay with me using it when we're apart, but something about other people's urine still makes her uncomfortable.
My wife does not approve, she will not let me wear a diaper to bed, but I get up around 3:00 and put a diaper on.
She knows when I wear loose pants, it so she can not tell if I am wearing a diaper or not.
I guess I am lucky... I met up with paperpotter on here, and so he knew all about it before... so we met up to play, and took it from there... Now we are together, and we play often, so he knows about it all and loves it ;) :)
My husband does not approve and I must wear when ever he is not around. I am lucky in the sense that i do travel some for business, thus get to wear when away from home
I think it is selfish not to think of the needs of others. Good on your wife for accepting your fetish & you for accommodating so thoughtfully - sounds like a good compromise position has been reached. Still working on mine :-}
My wife knows that I'm an infantalist an is now finally happy for me to wear diapers and plastic babypants to bed but I must wear pyjama bottoms over the top because she said she knows in her mind I wearing but doesn't want to see but I don't mind so long as I can wear to bed
My fiance and I are both in college, and in the same dorm. I spend most night with her, and she for the most part is not comfortable with me wearing. We came to an agreement however that since she doesn't like the idea of me using my diapers, that if I wore cloth, it would not only cut down on expenditures, and since I can't wet it(public laundry) that if I only wore once a week around her, she would be ok with it. I do however occasionally spend a few nights in my room a month and wear there.
I told my wife about my diaper wearing before we were married. She did participate various times before we got married. It kind of slowed down after we were married. She rarely wears now and kind of just puts up with my diaper wearing and stuff.
My wife and I were in huge fight yesterday. Of course she brought up that she wants to be with a man and not a sissy that wears diapers and maxis. I know she wants me to stop but I know that I can not. She let me know that my choice to wear diapers and panties means I love them morn than her.
My wife knew about my diaper wearing before we were married. After we were married she would diaper me and role play that she was my baby sitter. After the birth of our daughters the diaper play stopped.Even though the kids are long gone the diaper play never came back. I can wear diapers when ever I want she just does not get involved.
My wife and I have had much intimate and sexy fun with diapers. I suppose its like most things in relationships and life, be open and understanding, let your partner know what you want, understand and be patient while they hopefully read some resource about DL's or AB's you have for them.
I think its most important to just not overdo it.
My wife accepts me for who I have become. She has committed herself to our marriage and will not leave me because I wear diapers and panties.
Her acceptance however does not mean she understands or participates in any way now. She used to fully entertain humilating and babying me but after the birth of our child she has nothing to do with my lifestyle.
She does have limitations. I can not wear a diaper around the kids and I am not permitted to sleep with her if I choose to wear a diaper to sleep. In our basement I have a bed with a plastic matress protector and a dresser that is filled with my diapers. Sometimes she comes down and I will be watching TV in only a diaper and a T-shirt. She does not get upset with me and sometimes asks me to come upstairs and hang out with her knowing that I will be doing so wearing a diaper.
The compromise for us is she is fine with me wearing panties and maxipads. I wear them all the time, even to bed with her. I sleep naked except for my panties. She is turned off being intimate with me while wearing a maxipad so if things start to heat up between us I quickly remove my panties out of respect for her.
She's OK with the plastic pants, but I don't want to press my luck with a diaper. I may try the "Baby New Year" or Halloween costume introduction some day but so far I'm just happy she likes the plastic pants!!
My wife says she wants to "play" when we text about it during the day but by the time she gets home and notices that i have my diaper on, if i mention being wet, or anything about needing something she just shrugs and says shes not in the mood to play now. One night she was playing little girl in her pig tails and such, so i took her into the bathroom, ran a bath for her and bathed her( she kept giggleing and sqirting me with water out of the bottom of my grand kids bath toys) but when i walked her back into the bedroom and had a diaper laid out on her side of the bed, she just said "um...NO". And that was that. sigh...
I have really become seriously incontinent of urine over the last few months and my wife has been very supportive; buying pullups and helping me obtain supplies over the internet; buying nappy rash cream; even helping me get some vest style onsies. She doesnt mind initiating sex with me even in a wet pull up in bed she'll just thrust her hand in and start playing with my cock and then pull them half off so we can go at it. She knows I am also kinky about it but sees it as a bonus because she only has to tell me she has washed my vests and nappies and she'll have an instant hard-on to play with.
my wife won't let me sleep unless i'm diapered. usually, she putting it on me while i'm drifting off to sleep. it's basically heaven.
There seems to be a wide variation of my S.O. hates 'em to my wife'll totally baby me, diapers and all.
I read them and wondered; what exactly is a non-initiated to the ABDL lifestyle attitude to the main apparel item, the diaper?
What I mean is that the diaper is designed to contain waste liquids and solids and when they've done that job, sometime in the near future they've got to be removed and, for the most part, replaced for the next cycle.
Now conventional culture sees the diaper as a normal apparel of the under 2 year old child and aged infirm. The in between is expected to dispose of their wastes in toilet facilities without assistance or fanfare.
Ok, let's look at the act of removing a soiled or wet diaper. First of all, I do not know of any man or women who, upon discovering a child in need of a change, saying, "Oh, gooody, goody, junior has taken a big dump or flooded his shorts 'nd I can't wait to take in the fragrance or wipe up that gooey gookies." Let's face it, I've had root canals that were a better experience than untaping my kids pampers! My wife once exclaimed, "My God Kid, you could knock a buzzard off a s**t wagon!"
Alright, with the above in mind, I have to ask: Is it reasonable to expect acceptance from their partner and allow the wearing of apparel that is viewed as age inappropriate and when used as designed well..... a thing to be avoided if possible?
this is my story on how i got my gf to diaper me
I remember it like it was yesterday! I was in 5th grade and I was
trying to figure out what I wanted to be for Halloween when it hit me!
I always wanted to be a "baby" so I thought it would be a great time to
do it since it would just be a "costume". I talked to my mom about it
that night and made her think that it would just be a costume, too, and
she thought it would be cute if I did it so she said we would go
shopping the next day for stuff. I was so excited I could barely sleep
The next morning I woke up and wanted to go right away but I didn't
want to seem too excited so I made sure to pretend like it wasn't that
big of a deal even though it was! My mom then said ok lets go get some
stuff. So we left and then went to Babies R Us in the next town over.
We were looking around and she asked me how far I wanted to take it and
I said "I think it would be fun if we went all the way!" she just
smiled and said ok. We picked up a couple things like a pacifier and a
couple onesies with different designs on them and a couple footed
We then got to the best part! The Diaper section! We looked at all of
them when she finally picked out some pack of diapers that had Sesame
Street on them. I was so excited as we walked up to the counter to pay
for everything! When we got home that night she asked if I wanted to
try everything on and I said why not. I really wanted to but didn’t
want her to know that so I stripped down to my Superman briefs and lay
down so my mom could put the diaper on me and it fit perfectly! Then
she asked what I wanted to wear and I said a onesie so she grabbed the
one with bears on it and slipped it over my shoulders and then snapped
it between my legs. She thought I looked so cute and asked if I wanted
to stay like that for the rest of the night and I said sure!
Later that night after dinner I felt my tummy ache and knew I had to
poop soon. So I told my mom that I needed to poop and she just smiled
and said, “Just go in your diaper; it would be a shame to waste it.”
And I said ok and went! It was an awesome experience and I wish it
would happen again!
my exwife was into it at first then she got to were she hated the fact that i was into them
My wife has known I like diapers from the very beginning (30+ years).
About a year ago I started having nighttime accidents. At first I tried to cover them up and I started wearing diapers without her knowing. If she did know, she never said anything to me.
Late last spring, after a night out with the boys, I came home, did not put on a diaper, and fell asleep on the family room couch. I awoke later on to realize I had a major wetting accident. After I cleaned myself up and came to bed, she discovered what had happened. She did not wake me, or yell at me in the morning, instead she set up the cushions in front of a fan to dry them.
When I got up, of course I saw what she had done and knew I was in trouble. She never said a word, she knew how embarrassed I was but still said nothing.
Long story short, I told her I was wearing diapers to bed and she has accepted it. She asked me to tell our doctor, which I did, and he sent me to a urologist to make sure nothing was majorly wrong.
I now wear diapers every night and she is OK with it. She doesn't participate very often but that's OK too.
Diapers have become a necessity and I'm alright with that. If there are other people around I take precautions so they are not obvious. But I'm in my mid 50s so my age is not unusual to start having concerns.
I'm just glad that there is nothing wrong internally, there could be a lot worse things than having to wear diapers and plastic pants.
My wife accepts it as a part of my development and who I am, and participates fully with me... though she doesn't personally get any sexual satisfaction out of the experience, she loves the closeness that comes with diapering and changing me.
my soon to be wife knows all about this side of me. I told her a few months ago and she wears a Depend pullup for me when we have our intimate time.
She doesn't want to admit she likes them, but often gets to playful teasing when I wear them. She calls them my Friday night specials.
She tried them once for the fun of it and only wore them a short while. I told her she looked really cute in them but no more. That is until recently, she asked for one because her body was rebelling against her and she was having some major bleeding issues, losing two pounds in a single night due to bleeding. She is alright now but she said they were not too bad to sleep in. who knows what the future may hold? I am not getting my hopes up much , but just maybe ...
Ive been living with my new gf for about two weeks now. She owns her own house as she seems to be loaded with money. We have been dating for about 1 month before i moved in with her, Now she supports herself and me who is at school. I'm 19 and she is 20. She has a pretty dam good high paying job for a 20 year old. I was surprised when she first told me she owns her own place. Anyway. I wasn't planning on telling her about my fetish as far as my fetishes go they arnt a really big desire and i didn't want to jeopardize the relationship by telling her, even though she is a really understanding person. Anyway i wasn't planning on telling her until 3 nights ago when laying in bed after doing certain activities. (this is our serious talking and emotional bonding time where we are focused on each other and have personal conversations). She started asking me about any fetishes. (since we have both had a fairly standard sex life) and wanted to know if i wanted to try anything. I told her about a few and she told me a few of her's and eventually we got the courage to tell of the slightly weirder fetishes. Turns out we are both into diapers and certain aspects of BDSM. Some of the fetishes that one of us likes but the other doesnt think they would be into we will both try anyway cos we love each other that much. I now feel like i can tell her anything. 2 days ago we went onto ebay to buy some diapers and then my girlfried went crazy and brought like almost everything lol. Whips, restraints, clothing, all sorts of stuff. I cant wait till it getts here in the mail. The things that i am really exited to be getting is a spreader diaper thing for me and a pvc onsie type thing for her which is seethrough pink. =D
i am alone but i want bieinng treated like a baby/todler 24/7
whell I am A woman I wear diapers too mt bf is A bedwetter he has allways been in night diapers and it just never bother me I started to wear becuse I wanted to know what he was felling and now i like it and I like as a bedwetter too
I'm not married, but I am engaged. I haven't told her about my diaper fetish yet, but I'm going to sometime pretty soon. She wears pads during that time of the month, but calls them diapers. I'm not sure if that's some kind of a joke, or if she likes the idea of wearing a diaper, but I guess I'll find out soon enough.
my wife enjoys changing my diapers ;D
Wouldn't it be nice? However my wife has no interest in diapers, and it actually has bothered her that I showed some interest years ago at the time I began to discuss it. I didn't really understand how strong the attraction was to diapers till after we were married, and sometimes wore them to bed, and for the first year or two it was actually a turn-on for her. That seem to change after the kids were born. So now I just have to respect her and wear the diapers discreetly. Our relationship has been a good one, and there's no arguing with nearly 50 years of our marriage!
my wife loves me in diapers...cloth and plastic pants. she also loves to change me and feeds me a bottle before bed. She has always known about my diaper love.
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