Anal Dilation

Butt plugs work better for me

Thai beads are the best for me, you can get them in different sizes, I just love the feeling!

I don't do glass. I will have to try some cucumbers and other vegies that are about the same size. I need more than 2 inches now. I want to get up to 3 inches and it is a slow process, but very enjoyable.

I have a plug and beads like both but the plug is a more enjoyable time

I enjoy a series of plugs of increasing diameter, starting with about 7/8 inch and reaching my limit at 1 1/2 inches. Actually it only takes a few minutes to be able to accept the next size. I find it increases the sensation to walk around and/or exercise while wearing the plug. Walking up and down stairs or to the mail box while retaining a plug is a real turn on especially if it starts to slip out and requires squeezing the sphincter muscles to keep it in. have fun.

If you use an anal but plug over time would you have to have in place all the time because your poo would just fall out

I have used several types of plug, dildos and beads. Some time I like to realy stretch my ass, the other time I want to go realy deep and feel full. I'm thinking of making a new string of beads using golfballs. Dril a hole, pull a srting throug them and fill-up.

I like to know how many I can take. Anybody tryed this???

Gringo - I never tried golf balls but I have put four apples up my bum. They weren't on any string, either. The first came out in half an hour, and the rest over the next two days. They were nice big ones and I felt good and full!

You never need to worry about fruit or veggies 'getting lost' up there. They just don't. If you put something really humungous in and push it far up, it might get stuck; but if it's a fruit or a veggie, still no hassle. It will rot long before you are in trouble. This HAS happened to me, and the constipation (obstruction?) lasted once for 8 days and once for 17. I'm still here to tell about it, and still doing this!

Johnny

There's the dilatan... a kind of butt plug which you can buy to the grocery store... you keep it in your butt for 10 minutes a day and in a few days our anus will open up real easy ;-) XD

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if you use an anal but plug over time would you have to have in place all the time because your poo would just fall out

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NO. The sphincter always returns to a closed position.

More for charlie52's benefit, I've been enjoying enemas for 60 years now with occaisional stretching too and I'm still watertight and "no skidmarks" in my underpants either. Susie is right.

Susie, the hole in the tip of the dialator is to prevent a dangerous vacumn from forming when the dialator is removed. we pack the dialator snugly (but not too tightly) with toilet paper and it controls any messiness.

My favorit dildo today is a very big glasdildo with variable diameter from 1`` to 2,5``( or 2,5 cm to 6cm)I do not need any vaselin for using this, the weathnes in my ass comes naturely.

The cold glasfeeling is marveles. and you can move it in and out, the total length is 30 cm. After a time of use I use to turn it around and use it the other way, with the wide of 6 cm first, in and quite out, again and again. It gives me a fantastic feeling.

In Spain, a year ago, I bought a speciel enema-bulb with a container for 1,5 liter water. The tip are removable and it is posible to use different size of nozzles. If you place it in your ass with container first, you can fill up the container inside you with the showerhose on the tip. Fantastic feeling when the container growes up inside you.

I have done analgames in more than 50 years and have a lot of differnt ways to stimulate my great anal feelings. It is only your thoughts who are able to limit your possibilities. 😮

Something very good is to take a hole pice of soap (big one) new and dry up in your colon. Have it there for some hours before taking it out again. It is marveles. Try it !

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susie, the hole in the tip of the dialator is to prevent a dangerous vacumn from forming when the dialator is removed. we pack the dialator snugly (but not too tightly) with toilet paper and it controls any messiness.

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DANGEROUS VACUUM? What are you talking about.

Susie, if a large, smooth object is inserted into the rectum and it tightly seals the walls of the rectum there may be no way to equalize the air pressure (vacumn)in the colon, it MAY be almost impossible to remove the object without pulling some of the colon out thru the anus. not good! bottles are the most common culprit. it would be a rare emergency room that hasn't seen this problem. but the small air hole in the dialator prevents this problem, although it does pose the less serious problems you described.

I found that inflatible butt plugs, the ballon type was great as there was no pain involved.

No pain. no fun!

With a little ingenuity dildos can be made from a ball from an anti-perspirant roll-on applicator. One carefully makes a hole that fits tightly on the end of a short length of 19mm plastic pipe, such as a plumber would use for water pipes.

I have used a soft rubber dildo that hurts until I can gradually get it in. It has a bulbous part just prior to the base.

Bill

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susie, the hole in the tip of the dialator is to prevent a dangerous vacumn from forming when the dialator is removed. we pack the dialator snugly (but not too tightly) with toilet paper and it controls any messiness.

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DANGEROUS VACUUM? What are you talking about?

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susie, if a large, smooth object is inserted into the rectum and it tightly seals the walls of the rectum there may be no way to equalize the air pressure (vacumn)in the colon, it MAY be almost impossible to remove the object without pulling some of the colon out thru the anus. not good! bottles are the most common culprit. it would be a rare emergency room that hasn't seen this problem. but the small air hole in the dialator prevents this problem, although it does pose the less serious problems you described.

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Does that mean that when I fist my husband, or when we have anal sex or he uses a king sized dildo on my ass that I am in danger of having my colon sucked out of myself??

Am I likely to have the same thing happen when my husband and I have vaginal intercourse, too??

I don't think so !!!!! I don't think anybody else has ever had a problem with this either.

I think you need more experience in this topic.

Rectal dilators used to be a common item in the drug stores. They came in a set of four and were made of black Bakelite. You can still find them once in a while on

eBay.

Look on the internet for a company called Klystra, they sell brand new ones.

I just got a set of anal dilators by Klystra. I picked them up on Ebay. The diameters range up to 2" and you start with a smaller one first. I tried to use them alone but could not get the biggest one in. Finally I had a friend help and got the darn thing in. I can honsestly tell you that it was very uncomfortable until it was actually in place but then felt quite good.

You guys are going to wish that you did not play this game if an Anal fissure results.

Cheap anal dilators are to be found in most supermarkets, and they come in all sizes: carrots from baby ones of 1/2" to granddaddies 1 1/4". Above that we have cucumbers that probably go up to 1 3/4" and then butternut squash to diameters that would reduce most of us to tears! The nice thing about butternuts is that they are tapered. You put the thin end in and then work towards the bulb!

Quite a lot of fruit and veggies are suitable for total insertion as well: grapes get quite a good press on this site, as do bananas and tomatoes...

Johnny

The best "anal dilators" are, ... "anal dilators!"

I found candles were pretty good to start with

Then I made my own by melting them and pouring the

wax into suitable moulds eg:- plastic bottles.

Hence I could make them any size I wanted

Many in the BDSM world have come up with numerous devices and instruments. One of the more popular is that inflatable butt plug. However I had found as with many butt plugs on the market, that they just aren't anatomically correct, which makes many of them hard to hold in.

The rectal sphincter is about 2 to 3 inches long, and most of the butt plugs only have about a 1 inch narrow part at the base below the taper. The natural reaction is for the muscles to push that out, since part of the widest area had not gone beyond the end of the sphincter muscle.

This had created a market for the butt plug holder/retainer, which can be found through numerous larger dealers of BDSM equipment and supplies. Even vaginal speculums are sold as rectal dilators, something I would personally be a bit hesitant about using as the rectum walls are much more delicate that vaginal walls.

And really, how many men, (since there seems to be more men here than ladies), would actually know which direction these should be inserted? Surely something 'if' used, should probably be used by a partner, as opposed to self-used. Besides, unless someone is double jointed, or is at least very flexible, would be somewhat hard to adjust.

A browse around ebay, and you will find 'real' rectal dilator instruments, those actually made for rectal use. And they are not that expensive, being all imports these days.

A Google search for 'ass spreaders' and/or 'fisting trainers', will take you to very elaborate medical instruments 'advertised' as dilators. Very expensive, and actual, real medical instruments, however really designed for other medical uses, such as retractors.

But people will still use these for rectal dilators. In looking at pictures of some of these, I certainly would not take the chance of using some of these! Some look as though they could be dangerous, others you tend to wonder if they would even work.

I had seen several with blades only 3 inches long, which after adding lubrication, would certainly not stay in place by themselves or without someone holding them there. One such instrument opens up to 5 inches!

Strong and solid, (overseas stainless steel), however with those 3 inch blades, something that would surely go shooting across the room because there's just nothing to hold them in place.

Considering the blades only being 3 inches long, and the sphincter muscles being 2 to 3 inches long, adding in ass cheeks, and you're really not going to get much inside.

Others have scissor type handles, with 'click' locks on them, so you can adjust and lock it into that width. Others have larger, longer blades on them with a curve, which will reach beyond the sphincter muscle. Something that would surely stay inside because of the long curved blades, however you would already have to be dilated to about 3 inches just to insert it!

Again, a retractor, 'not' a dilator!

As mentioned, fingers and dildos work great, however if maintaining common sense, medical instruments made for rectal use can also be found. I had found ebay the best source for these...

I've used dildos, butt plugs, inflatable butt plugs, fingers, fists, enema nozzles and the occasional vegetable. One of my current favorites is a 2" cast acrylic ball on a 6" x 3/8" bolt. It's in me as I type this, following a good enema session of two 2-quart enemas.

The sensation of the ball going in is very intense, since it's not really tapered much. But, I take it slow, never stretching myself to the point of pain, and let my anus relax and take it in. I also take it slow when removing it. A little discomfort is fine, but no real pain. By taking it slowly, it's possible to use the ball without even any discomfort. As I maintain the pressure of the ball against my anus, it eventually relaxes and the ball just slips in easily.

I have a 3" butt plug, but I have to really be in the mood for it when I'm solo, because it's a hell of a stretch for me at this time. When I was married, my (now) ex-wife would fist me fairly often and I was able to relax easier and therefore used the big plug easily and more frequently.

For the record and to reassure the nay-sayers, I'll be 60 in July and have been doing enemas and anal play since childhood. I've been fisted many times and have used large anal toys extensively. I have no hemorrhoids, no fissures and my anus still slams shut as advertised. No skidmarks. Ever. It's truly a wonderful anatomical feature.

ldb