Anal Stretching - Lubes

A good enema and then start with a couple ozs, of j lube and start small with toys and progress up to larger

For serious anal stretching:

- Vaseline... Yes Vaseline

- Shortening. Either Vegetable or Lard (I prefer lard)

- J-lube

- Lanacane. Yes it's a numbing ointment but used properly it will help you get past some plateaus.

KY = GARBAGE!!!!

Coconut Butter or Oil

I prefer to use Vaseline too. Very thick and slick.

Stays around for a while though so it can be problematic when you end your play early.

There's no real rhyme or reason to it. You won't know when it happens or how it's happening but Jojoba Oil DOES seem to relax your hole. I saw this recommended by the boys at gayfisters and asspig so i went to my nearest health food store and bought a bottle of the stuff to try a little experiment.

I have a 1 liter bottle of Pepsi here (3 3/8 inches wide, solid and non pliable as opposed to the 4+ inches wide anal toys that I can normally take) that I have been trying to swallow with my ass and for the past YEAR it would not go in due to my hips being too narrow. OR SO I THOUGHT...

A few days ago I bought the Jojoba oil and put a small amount on my hole and then a bit more and then a bit more. I wanted a nice thick layer so that it would penetrate and seep into my skin. I played with several of my warmup toys and then moved onto the challengers, 2 one liter bottles. The narrower 1 liter bottle went in without too much fuss so I turned my attention to the Pepsi bottle which is the widest of the 2. Up until that day, my hips would not open up enough to let that solid monster width through and then with a bit of patience I managed to impale myself onto that wonderfully filling bottle and it STRETCHED ME!!!! There was very little blood and no real tailbone pain so that was a pretty good indicator that all went well.

Now comes last night. I did the same to prep and warm up but this time I added a generous amount of Jojoba oil to my Crisco and applied a generous amount 30 mins before playtime. Well wouldn't you know it, my ass swallowed that wonderful Pepsi bottle almost to the halfway mark in no time at all! I don't exactly know why I am now capable of this otherwise incapable feat so I can only attribute it to the Jojoba Oil.

I could be wrong but it seems far too coincidental to dismiss it as the day I finally succeeded.

Oh,

No one mentioned Albolene? Folks you gotta try it! Extremely slick and LASTS. It is sold in the makeup section of most rite aid and Walgreen stores as a makeup remover. As far as I'm concerned, the best so far for anal stretching.

Cheers. 😃

My preference is for J-Lube and silicone oil.

I have tried others such as Fistilube, crisco, and vaseline.

The trouble with shortening (Crisco) is that once in your gut it tends to generate gas and can make you quite uncomfortable the next day.

Just as important as the lube you use is how you deliver it.

We use large disposable syringes (60 ml) with a lueur tip.

Prior to fisting I usually have three full syringes inside of me.

Recently Owen put me on to Jojoba oil. Although Jojoba oil is not very slippery it does seem to have considerable relaxant properties.

I now use it combined with silicone oil for the daily dildo.

2 finger globs of Crisco, a LARGE pea sized glob of Extra strength Lanacane and some Jojoba oil. Mix it all together and it makes a perfect slippery mix that takes the edge off.

Still though, go slow and listen to your body.

2 finger globs of Crisco, a LARGE pea sized glob of Extra strength Lanacane and some Jojoba oil. Mix it all together and it makes a perfect slippery mix that takes the edge off. Still though, go slow and listen to your body.

NO NO NO.

DO NOT use an anesthetic when stretching the anus. Pain is your warning that you are exceeding your body's limits.

If you're numb, your anus can't communicate with your brain. When that happens you become what you are trying to stretch.

Of course, even when some people aren't numb, they don't listen to their brain.

Be careful people. Anal reconstruction isn't fun and it will end your anal stretching days indefinitely.

Susie is absolutely right!!!!!!

DON'T EVER USE ANY TYPE OF NUMBING PRODUCT WHEN STRETCHING TO NEW WIDTHS. Notice I said "NEW" widths. When pushing your limits pain is your guide. Pain is the best way to gauge if you are stretching properly and without injury.

In my opinion there is a time and place for using numbing creams and if you're like me and do an enema or a good rinse before anal play then it's OK to use a numbing cream on condition that you are VERY comfortable with the sizes you will be playing with. Never use any type of numbing product if you're trying to get past a certain point. A good quality lube and a relaxed mind and body is best for these moments.

I use Crisco my self. I started using it after looking at some of the web site on advice on how to stretch my ass hole. It works very well ?

I stated with just one finger then two and now I'm up to four flings but I can get my hand in as my arm won't bent like that on the films.

So I'm looking for someone to join me.

I stated with just one finger then two and now I'm up to four flings but I can get my hand in as my arm won't bent like that on the films.

That's the problem 99% of the men have.

Monkey length arms are needed to have the hand approach the anus from the correct direction for full entry.

I have no desire to self-FF but I've been curious as to whether this is easier for women than men to accomplish on themselves, especially if they're relatively short-waisted. Ladies?

Women vaginally fisting themselves is much easier than for them or men to anally fist themselves because their vaginal access is from the front and is much easier to reach.

I should have specified: women anally fisting themselves. While I'm not a big consumer of porn, I've seen it out there (you know, by accident...) so guess it's at least possible.

I found coconut oil to be a great anal lube. it comes in a solid but melts easily at body temperature. I will break off a piece and insert it into my anus. I quickly melts and I will add more until my anal cavity is good and slippery. I will then apply melted oil on my hand to coat the toy I am going to insert. A jar of coconut oil works great as a lube and is much cheaper than buying several small containers of anal lube. and will last longer.

I went up to the njoy PurePlug Large (not very large for me, 1.5"), then the Tantus Ryder plug (~1.5-1.75"), and now the njoy PurePlug 2.0 "XL," at 2.0". I slept almost all night last night after after a big beautiful 4 quart enema yesterday with the PurePlug 2.0 plugging me. Fantastic, especially the weight. I have to weigh the plug to see it's true weight, reported here soon.

I've been using Sliquid Sassy which works well for but I'm almost out, now about to switch to a new bottle of Sliquid Sea to see how that works for me.

Eric

I have been told that lubes do help with men that are "large" when inserting themselves to a girl/woman that has not experienced anal sex very often. I have experienced anal sex only two times so far and both times has been very painful during actual penetration.

He did use a slippery lube but it still was very painful to the point I was crying both times. True after several minutes after he is fully inside the pain subsides quite a bit then it is pleasurable. But also both times his size did make me bleed from stretching too much in my opening.

At least that is what he tells me the reason. So my question is do I keep taking anal sex and the pain until I have become more open and permanently stretched or there is a different lube to use? He does use a condom and lube each time. I do like the feeling of anal sex after he is inside for a while but when he is pushing inside and a few minutes after that it is painful.

Anal sex can be extremely pleasurable and without pain. What I would suggest for you is to purchase a nice set of anal dialators. I prefer glass one's but that is just personal preference.

You can also use lube that contains lidocaine or other pain reducer. But that just gives a false sense but the pain is still there.

Lots of lube and lots of stretching and take plenty of time. Pleasure will come in time. Hope this helps and enjoy your anal pleasure.

Inas2016 Since you have had bleeding twice I would recommend going to your physician and having your anal ring examined for a tear. I know it is an embarrassing thought but I think it could save you problems down the road. I speak of experience from using large dilators.

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Anal penetration should NOT be painful.

Either your involuntary sphincter muscle isn't relaxed enough, or your maximum dilatable circumference isn't there yet to accommodate. Both are easily overcome with patience and practice (which I know, are in short supply in the heat of the moment), but take time and deliberation, both on your part and your partner's.

Take time to study the anatomy there until you fully understand what's going on. The pleasure potential is enormous and very real. It's famous (and infamous) for a reason.

Fix what might be injured and don't let this be a set back.

Coconut oil is my new lube of choice. I melts at body temperature is anti bacterial and anti fungal. And it smells good. It is also a lot easier to clean up than Vaseline. I second not using any numbing cream, if it hurts your doing it wrong or going too fast. Many of anal sex lovers have been ruined by having someone move to fast on them. Go slow listen to your body and use lot of lube and patience.

Is coconut oil safe to use with latex rubber items? I recently gotten into fisting but have concerns about what the long term effects might be on my anus. Does the hole get bigger and stay bigger or does it return to its normal size? What about retention ability?

I recently gotten into fisting but have concerns about what the long term effects might be on my anus. Does the hole get bigger and stay bigger or does it return to its normal size? What about retention ability?

Mine returns to normal, as in retention and size are no problem after either fisting or toys of 3.5" diameter. Only alteration I notice is no need to start with smaller toys any more.

I think if you look after it, use cream afterwards etc ( I use Conotrane) you will be fine, it's really only the extremists who seem to suffer damage or permanent modification.

Go to Amazon and order Clean Stream RELAX Anal Lubricant. After a Good Ass Fucking my Buddy gives me a Fisting up to his Forearm. It used to be painful getting past the second sphincter of the rectum now it's Pure Pleasure.

I mostly use E45. Reasonable lube and easy to clean up.

I've always used coconut oil as a lube for all anal activity. it works very well for me.

I recently discovered a lube called "Shaft". One of the slipperiest substances I've ever encountered. Doesn't take a whole lot to do the job, and it cleans up with warm water. Good for use with silicone toys. Damn near makes my 24" colon snake crawl up there by itself ;-) Available from mr-s-leather.com

I use good old KY jelly. It works well for me. but my hole is quite stretched. Would not use a numbing agent, rather go with lots of practise to achieve a sloppy loose hole. Besides, it's more fun.