Just had my first pelvic exam

I went for my first pelvic exam this morning with my GP, had a visual and speculum exam and a bimanual exam (not a pap smear but I'm being referred to the gyno for that). It was my first exam so I was very nervous but it went very well and now thinking about it I'm getting slightly horny 😉

The doctor pulled the curtain around the exam table, and I nervously lowered my trousers and sat up on the exam table. It felt softer than I was expecting, there was a thin paper covering that felt cold against my bare behind but soon warmed up. The doctor removed the plastic speculum from the packet and showed it to me, explaining how it worked and how he would use it to open me up and look inside. He asked me to lie back and open my legs, there were no stirrups on the table so I was told to pull my knees up and press my heels together, and keep my bottom down on the table. I heard the snap of the rubber gloves, watched the doctor lubricate the speculum, and then lay back on the table. I felt so exposed, and slightly apprehensive knowing the speculum would soon be inside me, wondering if it would feel cold and how fast it would open, whether my vagina would be stretched wide, whether I would be able to keep still, whether it would pinch or hurt or ache. All these thoughts raced through my mind in just a few seconds as the doctor gently spread my folds open, told me to relax and slowly began pushing the speculum in.

He was so gentle I barely felt it entering. I was expecting it to feel cold and hard, but it warmed quickly and almost felt soft. I felt the blades turning inside me as he adjusted it to the correct position - an odd feeling, not painful but just slightly uncomfortable, whilst at the same time oddly stimulating as I could feel the blades reaching deep inside me. As he opened the speculum I took a deep breath and looked up at the ceiling, concentrating on relaxing myself completely so as not to tense my vaginal muscles and make the experience more difficult. I felt a slight stretch as he opened the speculum but it was almost pleasant, it felt more like being eased open rather than stretched. I felt my vaginal muscles contracting, not from pain but from a strange unexpected pleasure, which was embarassing as I hoped he couldn't tell I was getting turned on by the exam. When the speculum was fully open he adjusted the light and spent what felt like a very long time looking into me, although in reality it was probably only a minute or two. I could just feel the heat of the lamp on my private parts, in a pleasantly warming way. I focused on the ceiling, feeling so undignified and yet almost enjoying the sensation, knowing how wide my legs were spread and how open I was, feeling full from the speculum but not unpleasantly so. The blades created just enough force to feel controlling, and feeling the doctor's hands touching me almost made me blush, at the idea that I was really submitting myself to this and the realisation that I could possibly even enjoy a real medical exam!

After he finished looking inside me I heard the screw being loosened and the speculum slid out. My vagina felt suddenly empty, but this was soon replaced by the doctor's finger. Again he slid it in so gently I could not even feel it, which added to the humiliation of the exposure as I could feel his knuckles against the entrance to my vagina as his fingers slowly palpated my cervix, and then it was over as quickly as it had started. I got dressed and was out a couple of minutes later, still feeling the wetness of the lubricant between my labia and just touching against my inner thighs.

I'm being referred to a gynocologist for a more thorough exam and a full Pap smear as I have not had one before, I'm almost looking forward to it after that experience. As I relaxed into the exam I was able to - well, not quite enjoy it at the time, but certainly preserve the memories for future fantasies. I may write a story based on this experience in the future, and also about my forthcoming exam which will involve more investigations.

Thanks for sharing this, and I hope you do write a story based upon your exams!

Fabulous description - and very exciting to read. wait till you get to be in stirrups - now that will be a treat!

Shadow, you wrote "When the speculum was fully open he adjusted the light and spent what felt like a very long time looking into me, although in reality it was probably only a minute or two. I could just feel the heat of the lamp on my private parts, in a pleasantly warming way."

My wife is my medsex partner, always the patient. I have been to almost all of her real exams as well. She tells me that the warm light is always her favorite part of the real exam.

What a beautiful spontaneous description, thank you very much for sharing your feelings

Thanks for sharring that was a great discription

A very well written account of your first gynecological examination shadowavenger. I know exactly how you feel, and several other women in here feel the same way. Good luck with your medical fetish, and I hope you enjoy it fully. Thank you for posting your experience.

Yes, a well written and comprehensive report. Please continue to share your further experiences

Great story. i am yet to have my first gyn exam and hpoe it is simular to yours. good luck at the gynocologist and please let us know how it goes.

Thanks for sharing your experience and we look forward to hearing more.

Alicia, don't forget to tell us about your experince whne you go to the gyno.

I am glad your first exam went so well. It sounds as though you found a wonderful Doctor.

Thanks for the vivid description you gave of your first exam.

"skilu", you have no idea just how lucky you are to be able to go in the exam room with your wife during her pelvic exams. When I asked once earlier this year my wife said "NO! I don't think they even allow men back there!" Of course there were a few other men in the waiting room and when their wife/girlfriend went back, the men went with them. Mine won't even tell me what goes on during an exam and when I asked, she got angry at me. "It's too embarrassing to talk about," she told me as her voice level kept getting louder.

I am so glad I found this site. Maybe I can get an idea of what goes on during a pelvic exam and what a woman feels. I would really like to know what her feelings are, both about and during the exam, when her first exam was and what went on in her exams for the last 40+ years she has been going, but I strongly suspect that will never happen.

highndry

Wonderful account! I loved reading, and am so glad you had a pleasant experience!! Hopefully the gyn exam will translate to another great story!

Thanks for posting, great detail especially the sensations you had while the procedure was being carried out..

Jackie, you said....."When my doctor retired I started going to an FP who addressed the issue immediately after she did her first pelvic exam. Since then I have found I am much less ashamed of my condition and more relaxed during the procedure."

If you don't mind, can you possibly explain what you mean when you said that you discussed it with your new FP? I mean.... I'm assuming it's still a huge turn on for you, so do you reach orgasm during your exams right away so you can proceed more relaxed? Or how is it dealt with each time?

In answer to shycurious:

I will always get sexually aroused in medical situations. I have explained that I don’t know what started it but it is now as good as hard wired.

What I meant by more comfortable is this (and I hope that I can explain it clearly):

For all of the years that I went to an ob/gyn I was excited for a week before [if not longer] and a week or more after.

Intellectually I know that it’s impossible for him to have not been aware that I was aroused but some faint hope still existed, since nothing was ever said. I believe it was that faint hope which increased and magnified the stress 😳 .

Going back to the seventies there weren’t any personal computers, much less an internet. I wondered if anyone else got excited by these procedures and could never find any information. So it is, that up until I met my current FP that, as far as I could tell, I was alone [a freak :'( ]

Only when my doctor called me back to her office after that first exam six years ago or so, did I have the tiny comfort that I wasn’t the only woman in the world with this problem.

I still have no idea what percentage of the population reacts this way but reading accounts here in EC has been very comforting.

My doctor and I have developed a couple of little tricks that make me more comfortable [too complicated to really describe here] but otherwise I am still highly aroused for a considerable period of time before—certainly during—and for a week afterward.

What has made it better is that I am less [much less] embarrassed about it with the cards on the table (so to speak).

Jackie

Hi again Jackie,

Thanks for the further explanation.

Thanks for sharing ... very detailed description. Just feel it is little bit weird that he didn't complete the pap and referred you to have the same exam again.

Great descriptive account of your first experience. Hopefully you will share your next experience with the pap in a similar way.

Thanks for sharing this. was a story ever written?

Thanks for sharing your experience with us