Make enema sexual

I wanted my boyfriend to give me an enema for a long time, but I couldn't get enough courage to ask him to do it. He doesn't know that I'm into it. Finally when I was really drunk I told him that I am very constipated and I really need to do something about it and he agreed to help me. It felt really good, now I want more, but I still don't know how to explain him that I enjoy enemas in a sexual way. Help!

Honesty is the best policy, maybe you should sit down with him and tell him that the enema he gave turned you on. Another is to get each of you to write down 4 of your deepest fantasies, then pull it out of a hat, make a rule that no laughing or if its an absolute no from your partner then u respect that

I have found one of the best places to approach such things is pillow talk in the afterglow of great sex, your partner will be much more open to suggestion then. Good luck and keep us posted!

Building a little on Rogue's reply: Something my wife and I have used for years to discuss sensitive subjects (including, but not limited to, sexual ones), without fighting or ridicule - we write each other notes. Sounds kind of silly, but the writer gets his or her thoughts down in an orderly, well thought out and complet way, and the other person has to read the note completely before responding. Eliminates things like getting cut off in the middle of a thought. Try it!

Warren

I can't imagine him being turned off by you telling him that you like enemas.

even if he is not into anal play of any sort, it means he see you naked. we all like that. most of us have a hard time bringing up that we want to give someone an enema. but to say you want one? i can only see that being welcomed.

i do have to say that you should offer to let him leave while you expel. for some it will be a real turn off. but for others they will want to stay, so don't make it an order, just an offer so he feels free to do either.

i wish you the best and wish my wife had the same problem

If you want serious relationships with your BF, just tell the true. Because, sooner or later, he’ll learns all about it.

I think, better to begin this talk from far away. Drink a little with him (Alcohol will do your talk easier), and begin from what you and he prefer in sex. During this talk, accurately, as though accidentally, tell him, that you enjoy enemas in a sexual way. Or tell him, for example, that the last enema, you’d received from him, has left very pleasant feelings, and you would like to try it again. It is possible to add thus, that these feelings are connected with him (with his hands, for example). I am assured, that he will be pleasant to hear a similar compliment.

Good luck! 😉

I tend to disagree with sable. Men lose interest right after having sex, at least I do. I would prefer to discuss it before having sex, even hours before and not neccessarely in bed. This will intrigue the partner and make the anticipation more exciting.

Just have romantic dinner and make sure you both have fair amount to drink. Afterword snuggle on the couch or in bed and fondle each other.If sex follows that is fine, while the passion is high just explain to him that it turns you on and you want to try it. If he is a good lover he should respond in a positive way. Don't get to drunk though.

I suspect that the "direct" approach may be fatal.

Perhaps it is a better way to maneuvre him/her giving

the other party an enema due to health reasons and to "discover" how arrousing it has been and perhaps suggest an encore. As some men are into it but very few women are the subject need to be introduced with extreem care.

Avi

This is a tough one. It might depend on how he acted/reacted to giving you the first enema. I tend to be reserved about telling people that enemas are a sexual turn-on, so my advice would be to get him to give you another one, but as someone else mentioned, during this, "discover" the sensual nature of it.

Arianna

Stasya...this is a great opportunity to - just maybe - get what you desire. Since he assisted you in your time of need, you can now blame him for your revelation of enema fondness. Just tell him or remind him of that moment and say..."I had no idea how much pleasure you would provide me by giving me that enema. See what you started. Now I might ask you to do it again." Never let on that you were always fond of enemas. Make it sound like he started something that now you desire to continue. It's worth a try. I always say, "if you never ask, you'll never know".

Honesty definitely best policy!

Girl, you already broke down the biggest barrier, you got him to actually give you the enema you longed for. Be honest and at the same time appeal to the Male Ego, tell him how much you appreciated what he did, that besides relieving your constipation he has the remarkable ability to turn you on when he did it, tell him the memory of that enema has stayed in your thoughts constantly and you would Love to do it again and again. No red blooded man is going to pass on a "Sure Thing", to actually have his woman tell him how great he is and express a desire for him to do it again is a dream come true. If I were you I'd be telling him right now, call him on his cell at work, and wiggle that bottom in anticipation when he hits the door tonight.

I'd LOVE for a female to even hint that she wanted an enema, let alone one who loved it and wants more.......if my phone rang at work and it was a girlfriend telling me she wanted a repeat, I'd either book out immediately or quit my job, one way or another that Lady would be granted her wish.

First you need to get him interested by showing him how it affects you. If you show him that you enjoy them and that they are used for more than medical reasons, it might just peak his interest. You could also leave the bag hanging in the shower after you use it and encourage him to use it by himself when you leave. He might then get addicted to it as most of us have. Always be positive and show him how they really affect you after you cleanse.

I would agree just be honest with your partner and begin to share each other's fantasies and you may be surprised where it takes you.

Does your husband know how lucky he is to have you? I hope he displays his gratitude by meeting your needs

You can tell him that when he gave you the enema, that you felt close and intimate with him.

Remember the old commercial that went "Try it, you'll like it."

Well, I had never taken an enema for pleasure ... only when I needed one and then it was a Fleet ... until I learned my husband like them and he convinced me to at least give it a try. I found them very pleasurable and very sexually enhancing. We had some absolutely great love-making sessions after an enema session.

So just tell you BF how you feel and make the event very sensual ... I know ours are always a lot of fun. Good luck.

Stasya:

I hope that by now you've had success in interesting you husband to join you in your love of enemas.

I agree with the approach siggested by Gentlewaters, with one additional proviso: tell him what a good job he did when he first gave you an enema. In addition to telling him how great the enema made you feel, add -- as many have suggested -- that he made you feel so good.

All men like to hear that they did a good job. It encourages us to participate more, feeds our imagination, for we all ask ourselves what we have done that makes you feel so good when we're thinking of how to talk you back into bed with us.

And if he ever asks you if you have had this desire to have enemas for very long, tell him the truth. He may surprise you.

Just be honest with him after you have both had a loving evening.

Go to dinner together, get romantic after a few drinks.

Then as you are getting into the action, ask him if he can help you

with this again in a sexy way. He might get very turned on doing it.

Honesty is good but there are different ways of presenting your honesty. You might think about telling himm, how much it meant to you that he did it before, then try telling how it turned you on being so exposed to him like that. My angel loves that part when I do her. The naughty feeling the being exposed, my seeing things that others people shouldn't be allowed to see. Good luck Sir Gerald

You could ask him to play doctor and make the enema part of your treatment. I don't think he would really mind to much. I know i wouldn't.

Tell him you enjoyed it and that you would like to do it again. Also, tell him that you would consider giving him one, to find out if he is receptive to receiving.

If he feels that enemas are dirty and doesn't want to give her one because of that feeling, asking him to take one is only going to back him up farther into that belief of his. Too many people think that forcing him or her to submit to an enema is going to work. It won't -- and if you ignore a demand to stop, you're being abusive or even guilty of a sex offense. Arguing with someone about why they don't like enemas is like arguing with someone about their political preferences: arguing only entrenches them deeper and deeper into their beliefs. And, it never works. Especially if you raise your voice or act upset.

May I suggest that if he feels that they are too gross or dirty, maybe the thing to do is to turn him on to how he might feel if he were to try them -- that's not going to happen in one giant leap, but rather by introducing him to one little step at a time.

The indirect approach is what is called for here.

Start with little steps individually and work your way toward the final goal.

See if he will allow you to run a finger around his anus while he is soaped up in the shower with you. If he doesn't push you away, try it again in the shower later that day or at a later date. The time after that, try doing the same with a little lubricant while you're giving him a bj, or during 69. If he still doesn't push you away, put on a latex glove (or finger-cot), lube your finger and after running it around the rim of his anus, push it in very slowly after using just a little bit of pressure on the anus itself. When you can get to massaging his prostate during a bj or 69 (this, still a part of introducing him to the smaller parts of what you like about being given enemas, but in this case, you introduce it indirectly as a part of foreplay) until you can so it by itself -- directly -- as a part of foreplay. (Remember foreplay? It's a team sport!) When you can insert a finger into his rectum and massage his prostate gland while playing with his erect penis, you can approach him about enemas -- either him giving you one, or you giving him one. But you're not going to introduce enemas to him by dragging out a one-gallon bag with 6 attachments and a double balloon rectal catheter. You have to get him to respond positively to the tip of the nozzle by inserting it after you've played with him and the well-lubricated nozzle a bit -- the slow, slight pressure on his well-lubricated anus; in time, you learn how he likes to have his prostate massaged by the nozzle, and later, by the inflated balloon. No doubt you've figured out that he's going to respond more positively by being given 1 pint enema rather than five quarts: see what I'm getting at? Don't be overcome by your exuberance and personal desire...

Don't push too far, too fast. Just see what he will like about what little things turn you on.

Some people on this web site get too rambunctious and want to do everything to everyone instantly! (Actually, I've only read the posts of a few impatient ones... ) The important thing is for you not to try too much, too quickly -- don't give in to your enthusiasm for enemas with the little progress you've made; expect there to be setbacks, as at some time, you can expect his ego to be impacted by fears that liking what you're doing might mean that he's gay. Don't be afraid of the setbacks and deal with them and him patiently: don't forget that women aren't the only ones that appreciate problems being dealt with, with patience, understanding and love -- and don't forget to keep talking with him, especially when he seems to back away. If you're gentle, forgiving and understanding with him (See? Women aren't the only ones who like to be treated this way... ), you're not going to lose him: you're going to succeed in time by breaking your enemas into small steps that he will physically and mentally enjoy if only you have the patience and imagination to attract him.

My wife told me she was a little bloated and she didn't feel like doing anything. I knew she wanted to do some things on the weekend, and suggested she might want to take a enema. I asked when I knew she was getting desperate, and she said ok. I preparred a nice warm, soothing enema and administered it slowly to her. She rather liked it and said she felt better. The weekend was saved, and anytime I notice her a little sluggish, I ask her if she would like another. Seems to be working. I rub her stomach and hekp everything along. I think she is really getting into it more and more. Don't be pushy and things seem to work out. She still won't ask me directly to give her one but I kinda know. Besides, afterwards, when we have sex it's great!

If you had sex with him right after the enema , simply tell him that the enema made you really sensitive and that

was the best sex you ever had. The tell him you would like to try it again. You may want to take an enema before he arrives just to clean yourself out,just in case he is not into scat. The reason I said this is because i dated a woman for quite some time and enemas were a part of our love making, however she would retain some of the water or milk and expell while we made love or after she came which made me come a lot faster . good luck

My wife had bowwel trouble all her life and developed anal fissures making bowel movements agony for her. I offered to give her an enema and she said she would try one to see if it helped

She lay on her left side on the bed with plenty of towels to reassure her if she leaked. I made up a pint of warm susdy water and used a Higginson syringe on heer, inserting its rather slender nozzle very slowly and gently. she took the enema OK and clutched the towel to her anus then made a bee line for the toilet and emptied out with much less pain than usual. She must have liked the experience because she asked me to get her her own equipment and uses it every day, taking it on holidays and simply cant manage without it now!

Just ask to have sex during another enema

Once it works between you its truly beautiful.