I wonder if expelling an enema is an important part of an enema „scene“ for you as well.
I once had a girl-friend that sometimes enjoyed being dominant while usually she was more into vanilla sex (which I love as well :-)
Anyways, she liked to administer enemas to me playing the “caught masturbating” game and spanked me while I was on the floor, bottom in the air. She used a bulb to squeeze the solution into me but allowed me to masturbate all along (yes, yes, I know. Proper logic is missing here...). However, if I did, this meant a better smacking to my bum and/or more water. She didn’t mind me to come as long as I licked her afterwards. And I always found it a big turn-on to be made to expel in front of her. But that she usually didn’t like too much (which, of course, I can understand for obvious reasons).
I’d appreciate any thoughts on whether expelling / being made to expel in front of others / positions to expel and possible differences in preference between women and men!