How should subbies be allowed to expell their enemas?
I either escort them to the toilet or have them squat over a bowl infront of me. I have also held the bowl and made my subbie squat over it to give me the best view...but be careful?
I think the dom should watch it if it turns them on as that is what matters that their sub pleases them. I think over a toilet is fine. I especially like the idea that the master gets to cum before the sub can release. Diapers are also a fantasy of mine so expelling in a diaper is a turn on. But the sub should have to clean themselves up as an extra layer to the punishment. I also think in a large bucket is especially degrading and embarrassing. I believe it should be whatever the master finds most exciting and that is within the sub's limits.
Bent over in the bathtub gives a nice view and a butt screw in the midst of it all!
in a diaper!!!
Important thing from a humiliation aspect is that the sub always be obliged to expel in front of the Dom/me or other participants
Would love to get my wife into enemas, and to watch her expel. Our shower would provide an excellent place to watch her bend over and let it go, then wash down the drain.
I really hope my Dom does not use any of your ideas on me! lol
Usually I leave them to it, but I will watch for the humiliation factor.
As embarrassing an enema can be for the receiver, even more humiliating would be a non-private expelling. No doubt, the worst scenario for a bottom is be be given a bondage enema, in role play scene, and then 'forced' to expel in an explicit manner seen fully by the enema giver. There is perhaps no greater humiliation than the above combo.
My Dom administered daily coffee and honey enemas and on one occasion filled me with a one-gallon enema and after making me hold it for 30 minutes, put an inflatable butt plug in me and had me get dressed. Wearing just loose sweat pants over my swollen belly, he drove me to a nearby state park, where he then walked me to an isolated clearing along a fairly well-used trail and. He laid me across a picnic bench and commanded me to expel my enema and suck his cock while he recorded the event with a mini-cam. Being made to expel outdoors with other people around and where there was the probability of being seen and heard was the most thrilling thing I ever felt up to that point in my life.
When my dom gives me options for choose from punishments and the expelling in front of him is the one, well, I always choose the other option!!!
Into the toilet. Always. lol.
I like to make her sit backwards on the toilet so I can see the expulsion and add to the humiliation factor.
Well most often the sub is only allowed to expel when Dom lets them, but I must say I liked the sitting on the toilet backward the best, that sounds very arousing
I'd love to be made to go over a plastic bowl and have the guy watch me real close as I go . . .
I like to keep my enema slave girls helpless during the enema and afterwards, so I usually let them expel into a bucket whilst still restraint.When I put her onto the gyn chair there and also the possibility to punish her with some clamps on her delicate spots connected to the bucket.Then she can choose keep the enema and cramping inside or punish herself by releasing it
Usually, I'll just stand in the doorway and watch her initial expulsion. Of course she's protesting, begging, and pleading for me to leave so she can let it out ... and of course I don't. She'll try holding it for as long as she can hoping that I'll leave, but finally the enema will win and she'll simply let it go.
I've also had her suck me prior to her expelling the enema. I tell her that she can't release the enema until I've cum. I've got to say that she can be very creative and enthusiastic in her attempts to make me cum, knowing that she's forbidden to release until I do.
Having to expel in front of the woman who administered the enema makes all of the difference between a good experience and a great one. That said, there are women who object (typically to the smell) and still incorporate enemas into great BDSM play
I think it would be a huge turn on to be made to expel in front of other people.(like minded of course).
I wonder if expelling an enema is an important part of an enema „scene“ for you as well.
I once had a girl-friend that sometimes enjoyed being dominant while usually she was more into vanilla sex (which I love as well :-)
Anyways, she liked to administer enemas to me playing the “caught masturbating” game and spanked me while I was on the floor, bottom in the air. She used a bulb to squeeze the solution into me but allowed me to masturbate all along (yes, yes, I know. Proper logic is missing here...). However, if I did, this meant a better smacking to my bum and/or more water. She didn’t mind me to come as long as I licked her afterwards. And I always found it a big turn-on to be made to expel in front of her. But that she usually didn’t like too much (which, of course, I can understand for obvious reasons).
I’d appreciate any thoughts on whether expelling / being made to expel in front of others / positions to expel and possible differences in preference between women and men!
I like to do my scene in the bathroom / tub.
If you want to avoid the "mess" of expelling on a toilet, you can make your own colonic irrigation system. I made one years ago using PVC Pipe fittings and Vinyl Tubing that slipped over the tubing. I could then place the patient or myself on a table and begin to fill. When full by changing the valves I could divert the waste directly to the toilet via another large diameter vinyl tube.
The other benefit of the "Colonic" system is that you can play almost indefinitely, giving repeated fillings and allowing them to drain to the toilet. The tubing that is used as a nozzle slides inside the anal sphincter preventing the patient ANY control over the time of expulsion. When the valves are reversed the contents of the intestine are whisk away odorlessly to the toilet. The only time limiter to a session then becomes urination. Those familiar with urinary catheters should know how to handle that. At one time I had a sketch of the home brew colonic, if your interested I'll send a copy on request if I can find it. email@example.com
Well, you didn't say where the mess was being made. i've found that expelling in the shower while taking a shower takes care of the mess issue quite nicely. Plus, you get to clean your bottom up without irritating it with repeated wiping with toilet paper.
We have a Five gallon bucket that we use as our expulsion capture. My boy toy even fastened a toilet seat to it. We call it the Queens Thrown.
Here's a couple of ideas:
Having them stay on all fours in the tub, holding until you allow them to release it. You can even rub their clit just to add to the experience.
Another way, that I used to use with an old girlfrient was to have her sit on the toilet holding while she sucked on my penis. I would not let her release until she made me cum. She knew that once I started cumming, she could expell her water.
I like them to sit on the toilet backwards, facing the wall so I can observe, scold and criticize, or sometimes compliment if she's being a good girl.
Two thoughts, one is to have the sub sit on the toilet with her panties on. Sooner or later she will soil them.
The other is have her stand at attention in the tub. The ideal is that she will eventually expel down her legs.
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