Anal Stretching - How Big?

I have found that I can stretch quite a bit by starting small with plenty of lube, and progressively increase the diameters of the plugs, toys, and then dildos. This may take a few hours but when I am in the mood, I can go from 1.5 up to 3 inches with no pain (and plenty of pleasure).

I have a variety of toys, dildos and plugs. and i seem to open up quite easily up to 2 and a little inches (girth) and then i can work my way up to 2.5, maybe even more. But no matter how long i try to relax and stretch, i can't get past that point. any ideas?

I've read about a technique where you tighten the sphincter muscles around a comfortable girth before you move on. This does work, and creates an awesome gaping effect, but i still can't get past 2.6 or 2.7 "

on that note, i've also been looking for a good realistic dildo that's more than 2 inches and less than 2.5 but i can't seem to find anything. They're either smaller or bigger

again, any ideas?

thanks

You need to buy yourself a tapering butt plug with rings on it that will open you up slowly! 😘 Also lube it up well.

Me too I use my thumb and middle finger to evaluate the size of the "toy" .

For relaxing slowly , softly my anus larger than a 2.5" I use a glass bottle who is well shaped for ; After the bottle trainig she can fist me , but what we win is not impressive due to my hips bones opening , enought for her hand .

Using the large Links Anal beads from Rascal :

http://www.extremerestraints.com/beads-and-balls_2/the-links-anal-beads_2498.html

I experienced a nice adventure , she was doing to me with that toy when she shoved the "second" shape I lost control and explode in some seconds , the pressure on my prostate and the pressure against the inner side of my anus due to the toy where so huge .

So reaching some limit can be very nice .

Never forget play safe , and we are not trying to make world records , we try to have nice kinky fun .

I was reading a story from Gromets Plaza, called Walking on Air" in the selfbondage section.

The main character had rigged and 2 inflatable dildos(1 in each hole) to some hand pumps in her boots. So every step she took would inflate then deflate as she walked. How safe would this be to try in real life?

It is to try , first a good choice to start this experimentation is to use two inflatable buttplugs :

http://www.extremerestraints.com/butt-plugs_1/inflatable-butt-plug_164.html

and before to use will modify the toy adding

a bulb to place under each heel connected to the nozzle but also connected an inflator bulb

so each bulb can be adjusted separetly for the confort or disconfort of the feelings .

I have some rather larger toys than most do I like to open up with my bulldozer 3"x7" and go from there can't do over 31/2" yet but keep working on it

If your anus is really tight, you should try enemas to clean yourself out. I HATE having anything left on a dildo or butt plug, it spoils it for me. But once I'm clean, I can start stretching, using larger and larger dildos or a man's fingers, working up to more than one. It takes time, and several sessions before anal sex is a good idea, because anal tearing is simply the worst, you'll never be the same after that, I have heard.

Has anyone heard of someone that could take up to a 6" wide butt plug??

Bill

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Keep in mind that the muscle of the anal ring is little like a rubber band. You can stretch it with practice just like a gymnast who learns to do splits front to back and side to side, but they aren't really lengthening their muscles all that much--maybe doubling their relaxed length. When you stretch your anus to 3.5 or more inches, you are increasing the length of the muscle many times from its relaxed state, so keep the rubber band in mind. When a rubber band stretches, it gets thinner as it lengthens and ultimately tears when it reaches a critical thickness with regard to the stress/strain developed in the muscle. (I'd rather not go into a whole biophysics lesson, but you can check it out in your Halliday and Resnick.) Also remember that a rubber band, if you keep it stretched out far enough and for a long enough time, it will NOT return to its original size and elasticity. In physical terms, it's elastic modulus and muscle tonus goes down, which is when you become incontinent and need anal reconstruction surgery which isn't fun and will surely end your stretching days forever.

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Has anyone heard of someone that could take up to a 6" wide butt plug??

Bill

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God, I hope not!

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For those interested in anal stretching, check out Huse.com. You may find the anal dilator set, anal stretching rings, and dilator harness to be of interest. I have ordered all of the above. The report will follow.

A butternut squash! Are you kidding me? I can take up to 2 3/4 in diameter plug as long as it isn’t long - 3 + in is OK. I have a very soft, flexible double dildo that I can take up to about 14 in with lots of lube and slow careful work, and I wouldn’t describe that as comfortable. Anything hard won’t go deeper than about 6 in. If it is a large diameter 4 in deep is uncomfortable. It feels as if I am hitting a wall and hurts. If these folks can take the objects as deep as they claim and enjoy it what am I doing wrong, or not doing?

. . . . . Anything hard won’t go deeper than about 6 in. If it is a large diameter 4 in deep is uncomfortable. It feels as if I am hitting a wall and hurts. If these folks can take the objects as deep as they claim and enjoy it what am I doing wrong, or not doing?

Probably your angle of entry.

http://www.phoenix5.org/prostatedraw.html notice the direction of the rectum and how insertion too far posteriorly will hit the spine.

If you feel like you are hitting a wall, you may be bumping against the bottom of your vertebral column, and don't bang against it, especially with something hard because you could cause it to bleed either inside your colon or outside your colon---been there and done that in my long ago inexperienced years.

Change your angle so you insert in a direction pointed more towards your navel or more towards your front.

Is leaving the butt plug in for extended periods of time is an effective way to stretch the anus? I know the butt plug is designed so that the sphincter contracts around the narrowest part of the plug while the wide part is on the other side of the anus (inside the rectum). Therefore, it would seem to me that the actual stretching is limited to the width of the narrow part which is relatively small.

I've got a few, right now I'm working on taking the 3.5" "Gumdrop" plug, got it in a few times, but not consistently. I find that a large enema (about 5 qt for me) beforehand helps relax the colon and allows easier insertion.

Will a flexible plug 18" long go all the way in?

I find that two factors limit the effective diameter of things I would like to put up my bum. The first is the degree to which I can stretch the outer and inner sphincters of my arsehole. This doesn't depend much on the shape of the stretching object (cylinder, say a bottle; or a shampoo bottle with an elliptical cross section). I can go to beyond 3 1/4".

The second is the size of the opening in my pelvis. Being a man, this is pretty narrow; and it's oval - larger from front to back than from side to side, and seemingly wider towards my spine than towards my pelvic bone.

The limit expresses itself like this: I can get a 3" bottle through my sphincters with relative ease; but getting it though the pelvic opening is quite an effort. The flesh sort of 'crunches' out of its path. However, a veggie like a butternut squash which might have a 3 1/4" effective diameter will go in quite easily because its cross section is elliptical reather than circular. As I push, it orients itself inside me so that its widest diameter is fore-and-aft.

For a stretching techinique, make use of the fact that the anus is deisgned to give when pushed from inside. So insert an infaltable right inside, beyond the sphincters, and then blow it up (LOTS of lube!). Something like an anal balloon is best. I use my inflatable pump sleeve. Start with a little bit of inflation and expel really slowly. Deflate, reinsert and pump up a bit more. This is exciting (pushing any limit always is) and quite sexy! Don't ever push anything out violently. Ease it out lovingly, savouring every bit. If you are a man you will often find that the effort squeezes prostatic fluid from your cock and the feeling on your prostate is great!

Women ought to be able to 'swallow' bigger toys if my theory is right, because the female pelvis is designed as a six lane highway! Susie, please correct/elaborate/comment?

Johnny

I started out using eggs then moved up to plastic Easter eggs that are taped shut for something that has more longevity.

I'm 45 and male. I'm 5'11" and slender. I consider myself straight. Most of the time I like the stimulation of inserting, but I have gone too far a few times. In my teens a few times I used the end of a plastic flashlight without lube and while I was too nervious and tense. I got some kind of blood blockage from it that over the years I think has moved up the descending colon. 18 years ago I bought a dildo that was 4 INCHES wide, yes 4 inches wide. I had worked up to it with smaller objects. I thought for sure it would not fit but tried sitting on it. It seemed like the longest time and all of the sudden it went in. The pain was strong. It was in there and did not want to move. It took me BOTH hands to pull it out. About a week later I started having pain down there that could be very intense. Eating a lot of fatty foods and not drinking enough water can bring on pain for me down there. I am hypoglycemic which is in the same disease family as diabetes and effects blood flow. In the late 90s I was inserting a lot more. If I inserted every day, I could soil my underwear. If I insert less often I usually don't have the problem of soiling my underwear. 3 times in the last 4 or 5 years I have bought the Black Balled 3 inch wide dildo. The head is quite large. I tried using it more and it just tore things up inside of me. I tried shaving the head of it so that the head was pointy/round and not look like a head anymore. But it was still too big and I didn't get any good sensations or pleasure from it. I just liked watching in the mirror of it going in. I have thrown away all 3 of them. I have gone to doctors to have a simple exam. And even most doctors don't like and get squeemish having to look into or exam another persons rectum. I told them my story and they would reply with "don't do that". I have had this idea that if I hurt myself bad enough that they could just do surgery to me down there,, but one doctor said doing surgery down there is quite difficult. Another doctor said that "over time, your body can heal IF you don't hurt it more". Another doctor suggested an anal papsmere. Doctor Drew Pinsky from the Loveline radio show has said: "I'm against anal sex,,,, but if you are going to do it use a lot of lubrication. And there is no such thing as too much lubrication". This he has said many times so people will avoid tares. I did have a colonoscopy 5 years ago since colon cancer took my grandmother and uncle on my dads side of the family. The doctor said everything looked good. I remember having an all night insertion marathon when I was alone in the house and in my late teens or early 20s. I stretched myself temporarily so that from the outside my rectum looked like a slot. It felt really stimulating when I walked but went away after an hour or two. Now my limit is items 2.75 inches wide. Another thing to lookout for is burning sensation from many of the pinkish colored toys. Many of them are made from the same chemicals they make paint from and remember your colon absorbs things from food so it can absorb chemicals from toys. I have used a condom over toys that give me burning sensations. So please take my advise that you CAN hurt and or damage yourself.

I recommend a Graves Vaginal speculum. I acquired from a retiring physician a dozen Graves vaginal speculae of different sizes. These go in with the blades collapsed, and squeezing the handle opens the ends. But the speculum flares out at the handle end like a funnel. This makes the anus stretch. Further the ends are adjustable with screws to enlarge the opening. So I started with small ones--easy enough. The ends easily were 2 inches across. The large speculum has 1.5 " wide blades but the opening is over 4" high. With a little effort I could insert the graves speculum all the way in, with the end 1.5 x 4.5 inches, roughly 11-11.5 circumference. equivalent to a 3.5" cylinder's circumference.

I also got a sigmoidoscopy set with an anoscope and 3 sigmoidoscope tubes, the longest of which was 20 cm. I could get it all the way in, using the inflation bulb that came with the set, to inflate the sigmoid.

Bratwurst

To me- it's not an absolute of numbers. It's NOT a competitive sport. and it IS all about comfort or that degree of desired DISCOMFORT that melts us in good ways. Well there can be a self competition with our "Personal Best" or a lover's encouragement to seek pleasures. It can be a romantic scene of seeking what can be done. by mutual desires. Or just being in hot sweaty lust to get THAT all the way in just because it can be done:} It's been just that for me a lot- I am WANTING it in me and even if it takes me all night or many tries- It's that personal challenge that defies all else. I'm not talking about "teh stupid" fictions like getting the doorway bollard of a walmart in one's ass. Or any other such no way will anyone survive it undamaged object either. There's a few companies making silicone insertable objects that yes- someone HAS succeeded in inserting them rectally or vaginally but US doing so may never happen.

That said? We've a three dimensional object being inserted into a space defined by how far we can expand it before hitting a limit. Limits of flesh's resilience and our pelvic bones. Violating those limits can be a Very Bad Thing. Up to fatally so or just horribly painful and possibly a LASTING painful sort of damages. Detailing them has been amply done by my betters. My restating of the should be already be redundant for folks "here" is done as framing WHY. I've developed my approaches.to how I explore my anal sexuality and SENSUALITY based on most of my life having been into suchlike. Cancer's afteraffects have left more of an impact on my ass than a life time of dedicated limit pushing. so YMMV indeed applies as damages can occur from one careless session or NEVER in a lifetime.

I want no one to be hurt.

Other than perhaps our cherished realms of hurts.. so GOOD.

And that's about the non-detailed wrapup overview/intro. On to the sharing my hope it helps stuff..

Above all else- I'd place being totally into the "Headspace" for limit edgy sexuality as a make or break our ass element. I'm balancing my tendency to poesy with the realities of what we're doing to our selves and/or our lovers. So yeah, it's simply GOT to be all psyched for these rides or it's more liable to go not well. Once I'm psyched for a session of stretch- it's also to me at least- imperative that I have been totally cleansed all the way up to at least my cecum. Ideally for this play- we've done our comfort levels of juice fast and enemas repeated till we're sure there's trivial to zero chance of feces. It's not just for a healthy aversion to scat. It's so if we ever did have any damages- the absence of feces can be life saving. sorry for buzz kill but scat and death are both their own buzz kills.

I call my enemas till clear for a good ass play session - Self loving foreplay. It's also entangled with the deep psyching myself for a deep insertion. .

And now it comes to the how big and how. Ive found that situational of set and setting type details affect how a given session goes. MORE than any other

sexuality. As this is a whole body ride. I often begin with a slim vibe or the handle of my prostate massage wand. And Ive used my proctoscopes or just vaginal cream inserters.. to get lube DEEP in me at a session beginning so it can be removed from worries.

Lamaze breathing or whatever relaxation rituals of similar type work for you are an enhancement. Lamaze's had me take huge things seemingly effortlessly.

1 liter soda bottle's about the largest and to the base. .

Positions another YMMV and sol personally subjective as to defy commonality too.

Enjoy

Question - doesn't the lube dry out at some point and it gets catchy?

Kman

Saturday night we've reached A NEW level in size. MRS L had secretly purchase a new fist dildo. It's a belladona product. I had found it about a week earlier in her sex toy box, but I never told her that I had found it. I tell you when I first found it, I was mentally terrorized !!!! That's how big it was. If I'm right its. At lest 4" wide if not bigger. By far the biggest sex toy we own.

Saturday night we started fooling around she's blind folded me she told me she had a surprise for me she told me to open my mouth wide for her next thing I felt was that rubber fist being forced down my throat I knew I was in big trouble. It took a long time to work it in. Thanks to the help of MRS L, she was not taking no for an answer. We worked up from several size dildos and she started to fist me. She does not have big hands, but it did help a lot once she got her fist in my ass. She had me fuck myself with that fist she was pushing it in me too.

When it adventually went in me, the feeling was incredible the fullness feeling like I've never experienced. At one point we where alternating she would stick her fist in me pull out, and I would shove that monster fist in myself loving it more and more. I can't imagine what's next I know she's shopping for something bigger. I can't wait to see what she finds.

I see a mine is bigger than yours contest brewing. . . . . .

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Will a flexible plug 18" long go all the way in?

Yes. I can do that. With practice you can too.

Isn't the general idea pleasure rather than a contest in size. For me the main issue is to have a nice time - not pain...

I can only get 2" so far but would like to increase that slowly

Kiredal said:

Isn't the general idea pleasure rather than a contest in size. For me the main issue is to have a nice time - not pain...

I partially agree.

I like to have pleasure and nice time by giving a little pain. 😈 😈 😈

For me, the reason for anal streching was the regular checkup by the urologist. The anal expection by this person has been a pain due to his short thick fingers. So I have streched my anus up to 1 3/4 " and in surplus I have no more problems in ejecting really thick balls of the faeces.

Thanks for interesting info

Ya i have also been curious about harnesses and which brand and type are best.