Bringing a friend to my next physical

In the past I have had physicals with my brother, my mother, my father, and my grandfather present (not all together, different times).

It has been a long time since I have had someone in the exam room with me and I have been thinking about asking a friend of mine to come with me to my next physical. I'm pretty sure he would, but I was wondering if anyone else has done something like that, and how did the doctor react?

I went with a friend of mine who was kinda affraid of doctors but needed to have a physical. He was 20. I was 22. His doctor was ok with it. His doctor asked befor he did the genital exam if he wanted me to step out..and he said no. Some nurses or PA may be a little caught off gaurd but most will be ok with it. If they are not ok with it then maybe you need to switch doctors.

I love the idea, but I've never actually done it.

I went with my friend to her first gyno as she was scared. My daughter has been to two of mine, and at her requested I went to her first.

I have never done it before but thinking about it though...

Anything is possible if it would pass the sniff test but I wonder about confidentiality laws.

Sure why not as long as you and the other person are both comfortable about it.

My best friend knows about my fetish and said there is no reason why I couldn't accompany him to a physical. I just wonder how it would go over with the doc seeing as he is anything but shy...

Sounds kinda interesting... now to find the friend 😃

I never asked a friend or bf to go with me. Looking back, I wish I had. It would have been a bonding experience for sure.

I havent brought him for a full physical exactly, but my best friend/roommate helps me out by taking me to my doctors appointments since I have trouble walking, and sometimes he will sit in the room during the exam or procedure even.

Growing up I had physicals with a friend, as well as having a friend watch my physical. I also got to watch others. It was a different time and not considered a big deal.

I have done that.

Some years ago I moved out of state to a new job, and a good friend of mine got a job at the same company.

I figured I should get started with a new doctor there, made an appointment for a physical, and asked my friend if he would go with me.

He not only went with me but he figured that he should get started with a new doctor, too, and suggested we go for our physicals together.

The doctor had no problem with it and it was just like way back when my brother and I had our physicals together.

We did that for a few years every year until I moved away.

Fast forward in time, my last physical before Covid, a friend of mine went with me because we were going to have lunch together and then see a movie. In the waiting room I told him that he could come in with me, and since the doctor I was going to was his doctor, the doc had no problem with my friend sitting in.

My ex used to come to all my Dr visits and would watch the genital and rectal exam. She even went to my uro visits and observe my cystiscopies in stirrups. She always said my penis and testicles belonged to her and she wanted to see inside. She couldn't do that when the rigid scope was used, but when the started using the flex scope, she could watch on TV. She loved watching as it approached the end of my penis and went inside up my urethra. Said she would imagine my semen going through it.

I would go her exams as well. Got to watch the dr inject my semen in her during her artificial inseminations (2). That was kind of hot. Had to do it that way because of my low sperm count and they had to be concentrated.

My sister and I have always been together for physicals. Then when my sister found her girlfriend. Actually, I introduced them she is in with her girlfriend during her physicals. Then when my sister's girlfriend's niece came into the picture I am in with her. We all go on the same day to the same doctor but we are not all in the exam room at the same time. I go first with my sister in the exam room with me. Then she will go in with her girlfriend then I will go in with the girlfriend's niece and then my sister. It is like revolving doors. Sometimes it switches a little. But my doctor is totally cool with it. She even said she used to bring a friend. I don't think that she has picked up on the fact that we are all lesbians. We are lipstick lesbians so that may be the reason. We are also not the touchy-feely type. The reason I say that is because she asks all of us during the physical if we have thought about birth control and if so what type or not.

@Tabitha32 if you don’t mind me asking what kind of exams are you sitting in on? Like are you watching them get genital exams and the like?

My wife lets me sit in on her exams and it’s quite an experience

unknownisknown It is our yearly full physical which includes a pelvic. Our doctor does it all. But it isn't like we are sitting next to the doctor. The exam room is set up with a chair next to the patient's head. The doctor in the town where me and my sister grew up was the only doctor in town for many years. She delivered probably 90% of the town. So when I moved down here for college I asked her if she knew anyone down here who did everything like her. She found my present doctor. Then my sister was staying weekends down here during her divorce. She liked it and decided to move down here with me. Which was easy because she works for a large bank. She just had to wait a few weeks for a transfer. Then she started going to my doctor as well. She always jokes with me about why I started going to this doctor. She is really pretty. But she is married with kids. When it was just me and my sister the yearly physical would take longer, at least it seemed like it. She would do mine. Then go to another patient. Then after I was cleaned up and dressed we would open the door and when the nurse saw us she would take us to the next exam room for my sister. Then after my sister's girlfriend started going it seemed like physicals went faster. Then when my sister's girlfriend's niece started going the physicals went even faster. She would spend the same amount of time with each of us but one would always be ready. They have it down to a science. LOL But if like for instance my sister had never seen inside of another woman and my doctor asked me and I agreed so she let my sister watch. A nurse is always in the room. She stays next to the cabinets to hand the doctor instruments and take notes. The other side had cabinets as well but they have models. and supplies. At the front of that side is the changing room. Her light is sort of like a dental light or a small operating room light that is on an arm hanging from the ceiling. So they could arrange the room any way they like. All of her exam tables face away from the door. You can probably find a doctor like this by searching sites like doctor grades and such. They will usually show specialties and sub-specialties. Also, call the doctor's office and ask if they allow it. Doctors are more open and understanding than you may think.

@Tabitha32 wow thanks for the details! That’s interesting about asking the doctor to let her see inside. I actually talked to my wife about what would happen if I got a seat not facing the table, and she said she was willing to ask the doctor if they would be willing to let me see into her like that as well, out of the same perspective of mere curiosity (Not that I haven’t seen that before lol). I’d feel nervous bringing it up to them, especially because I’m a guy

I’m always with my wife for every Dr appointment and vise versa, it really is a bonding experience….

Unknownisknown Well I'm a nurse so talking about things doesn't bother me, especially if it is medical.

I have been to appointments with my best friend and she always went with me. I was her caregiver for 8 years and I needed to know what was going on because she has terrible memory problems. She has a lot of medical issues. she also went to most of my appointments with me as well. Nothing was sacred, if you know what I mean. It wasnt because of a fetish, or anything like that. It was genuine support for each other and helping each other. I’m very hard of hearing and she was my ears. Now, @BKuggs is my ears!

As a kid it was always with either mom, dad, sometimes my grandma. I hated that because they could see how embarrassed i was.