I am very strong willed and used to getting my way. My husband is also strong willed and I would like to receive spankings as a form of discipline. Any suggestions? Thanks!
Along with my enema fetish I also wanted my wife to spank me but did not know how to approach the subject. I purchased some spanking paddles on line and showed her and told her of my interest. She just smiled (you all know that smile) and said ok. As time went on using the ones I bought online, I discovered I could make a better one at home. Over the years I have made several out of leather which are ok, but have since discovered thin wood and lexan paddles which I have also made at home. I have some lexan sheets that are textured but smooth. They deliver a nice sting.
Do what I did!
Bring home a paddle, or bath brush, & ask will you please spank me!
We were very soon married.
I did 37 years ago, & she is still spanking me!
Did you - imaprettylady - take up any of these suggestions? Or did you find another way to start receiving spankings?
If you've been successful, do you have any tips as to how I could do similarly but the other way around - I'd like to spank my wife for her pleasure.
What is the best way to introduce my wife to spanking?
I'd like to see if she'd enjoy bending over my knee. I'd offer her pussy-slapping too if I can find a suitable crop.
i doubt that any man would refuse a partner a good smack on their bottom. just tell him what you would like him to do and then pull down your knickers !!!
Be sure that your relationship is well established first... In my situation it took 20 years and two children later. At some point , when you feel that the time has come to reveal your inner feelings, just go ahead and ask. The worst your partner can say, is 'No'. In my case, my wife was reluctant because she did not want to 'hurt' me and I had to assure her that the pleasure of the experience transcended the possible pain that might be involved. Sometime later, she presented me with her shaved genitals and said that she would like to receive oral sex .... I had no idea up until then, but how could I refuse?. Hey, we are all in this together and there is no rule book ... we make up the rules as we go along.
I would just ask him for one.
I think just ask him - you'd be surprised how many guys in the world are secretly into spanking
I have playfully spanked my boyfriend to see if he would bite, but it's never led any where other than a promising comment. It's a little discouraging/ironic when you want to be dominated, but feel like you have to take the lead. Seems to takes the fun out of it...
Do something naughty and then playfully suggest that you should be spanked. See his reaction. If he has half a brain he will catch on.
Why don't you just click on a site sometime and have him take a look, say thats kind of hot what do you think.
Perhaps this site could make him understand
ASk him. No tell him what you want. Then lure him into a situation where he would be comfortable spanking you ... and you would be commfortable receiving a spanking. That's what I did with my husband. And although we are not into spanking as a form of recreation, we do it occasionally and it becomes very exciting. I wonder if there is a man around who would not want to spank a naked female ... obviously something that could lead to better things.
Getting your husband to spank you? Simple, Divorce him and marry me ;D ;D ;D
Bring home a video where a woman is Spanked. Then as the woman is getting spanked suggest to him that you would like this as well. You can easily put yourself over his lap and ask him to spank you as you see it in the video. Then afterwards I suggest that you sit down and discuss it with him. I think he will accomodate your needs.
walk up to him and tell him that spanking leads to horniness and if he looks at a little dumbfounded tell him to try it out and find out for himself and ask him start smacking that ass of yours and that if it makes you horny then tell him that you will do the same thing to him in order to get him nice and horny for good night of rough sex or what ever that you have in mind for him whether it be by giving him enemas or a blow job or him eating your pussy to where you can't stand it that would be my suggestion
yup just ask him. I was asked by my wife and she absolutely loves me giving her a good hard spanking OTK.
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