What do YOU enjoy most about giving others enemas for fun?

I like to have a woman laying on her side so I can watch her facial expressions. I am very supportive when giving an enema and always respond to the receivers needs. There is something about seeing a little grimace, then stopping and offering encouragement that I find very erotic. Reminds me of my responses as I received enemas as a child.

Much has to do with the preparation and anticipation. The whole process is a turn-on. The deliberate and calculated process leading up to the enema is exhilirating to me. Mom knew how to do that best.

I like receiving enemas I admit, but Ilove giving an enema even more! My libido really rises when I have him bending over and deeply finger him and playing with his hard cock, or possibly getting it hard. I like a long sensual play and then, of course, lubing him. I especially enjoy having my emate over my lap, spreading his cheeks, inserting the nozzle and letting the water flow. HOT!mmmmmm

I absolutely love the whole event! Beginning to End(!)

For me it starts even way before I start the process of giving the enema. Just knowing that I have made the decission(beforehand) to give a woman an enema is extremely exciting for me. Now it becomes a matter of how will I proceed. The whole chain of events that eventually lead up to me giving the enema. And waiting for the ideal moment to initiate the proceedure. The ritual of preparing the enema itself. Making the enema solution & filling the bag, hightens the anticpation of giving the enema. And being turned on by the shape of a lovely woman's ass, beautiful rosebud, soft quim, & lovely legs. Then there's the control of the sensations her body feels from receiving the enema aswell as the control of her mentally & physically. & the submission that takes place within her. She accepts you & your enema. GIVING ENEMAS are the BEST!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ;

The insertion of the nozzle. Watching her get wonderfully turned on and wet as I gently massage her pubic area during the flow.

Watching their bellies inflate and knowing I have control. I find that incredibly hot.

I haven't had the privilege, but for me it would be the excitement and pure pleasure the other person is experiencing that would be the turn on for me

not the control. Being able to fulfill that persons desires as far as possible and help take them to their limit, but also have them return the favor and take me to mine.

I had the privilege of giving a man his first enema. He loved it,,,, I enjoyed watching him!! Then he returned the favor I love them and will get them on occasion from my wife. She hates them, but will submit to them on occasion, no enjoyment for her.

I gave my wife her first enema to relieve her constipation. I Really enjoyed inserting the nozzle and filling her up and just could not wait for her to relieve herself and get cleaned up so I could enjoy a long sexual encounter. I asked her to give me an enema after our great sex but she thought I was disgusting. So the last 40 years I have had to secretly enjoy my enemas by myself but would have loved her to give them too me

It's a real drag when your other half dos'nt want to play. 😢

The shared intimacy.

Excellent thread. I could write a book about why I enjoy giving my lovers an enema. It certainly creates a bond and a deep intimacy especially if I'm trying re-parent the receiver or help re-frame or heal a painful memory. That is personally very satisfying. So, I get my pleasure from there and it cascades out into many other great areas. Giving an enema to someone who has a particularly beautiful bottom, or someone who is in need of an attitude adjustment for their own good is fun, too. I love the consensual exchange of power, too, the whole "I'm in charge of your bowels and when and how you'll move them" thing gets me going too. Sometimes, even if she isn't holding an enema I will make my lovers ask permission to use the toilet, even if it is just to urinate. I can get pretty turned on by the domination especially if it pushes my lover "under" into bottom space. That is exhilirating. The secret, private world which is created when I give an enema is also awesome. I like nothing better than to go somewhere nice with my lover and during the event, lean over and whisper in her ear and ask her something out of the blue. I might lean over and quietly ask if she's had a bm today or when her last good bm was or how she's feeling which opens the door for her to respond in a bunch of ways. I'll always watch her face very closely to see if she swallows hard or if she gets "that" sudden look which means I have hit the spot. The control is a big rush for me, too.

One of my lovers had a chart which I kept in the kitchen. She was always concerned that someone would come over and see it (one of her fantasies). But, each day I peppered her with questions and she was required to either tell me when she had moved her bowels or write it on her chart herself. Sometimes I made her call me no matter where she was (at work, a friend's, etc) right after she had a bm or I'd make her have to call and ask me if she could go and have one before she was allowed to use the toilet, even if she was at work. I also enjoyed the gentle powerplay with her, too, because sometimes she would get smart and say she had forgotten to write a bm down even though she had one, in the hopes that she could avoid her remedy. Or sometimes she deliberately withheld her bms to "show" me that she was still in charge. I'd find this annnoying for a couple of days and she always let me know what she was doing, subtly, because she would rather defiantly say "No, I didn't go today because I didn't have to". Sometimes she'd say "I didn't go today because I didn't want to." That was really arousing, the "want to" as opposed to "have to". Of course that went down the drain, when I had enough and she was in the bathroom over my knee squirming away and asking if it was almost done yet.

And I really enjoyed when that particular lover would seriously constipate herself by withholding her bowel movements and eating badly and then she'd get all uncomfortable and cranky and remoreseful and she'd have to say she was sorry and knew that she would have to ask me for an enema in that little whisper voice in the dark, usually in bed. Once or twice she would call her mother on the kitchen phone when I was reading the paper at the table and she would start having a conversation with her Mom about how her tummy hurt or she hadn't gone to the bathroom in a couple of days, trying to get my attention, but I'd ignore her. Sometimes she'd say, "My Mom thinks I need an enema" and I wouldn't even look up, I'd just nod disinterestedly and keep reading. It was a cat and mouse game which we both enjoyed. Once I said, "So is she coming over to give you one?" (she actually disliked getting enemas from her Mom when she was a little girl) and she stomped her foot and threw a sponge at me. She got a terrific spanking AND and enema that day and she never forgot it. At times she could be cranky toward me and all I'd have to say was "Don't be fresh with me, young lady. You remember what happened with the sponge, don't you?" and she run in the bedroom and slam the door. Of course, ten seconds later I would follow.

There are so many things to like... Telling her that's she going to receive one or acknowledging her request for one. The look anticipation of nervousness on her face as it is prepared. The beauty of her posterior-- buttocks, anus and vulva. The small flinch with lubrication and insertion. The grimace when filling produces distention. The begging for relief when I encourage her to take more. Her distended abdomen. Her need to expel, NOW. The dash for the toilet. The delicious splashing as she expels.Her embarrassment at having me there! Her relief when she finally finished. What comes afterward! It's all delightful...

Having someone there while you expel is the best…..

Knowing how much better they feel when it's over than the did when we started.

Not really something enjoyable.

If it's my husband there is a satisfaction if not joy in making him feel better. That goes whether it's giving him an enema, a bang or his favorite meal. I LIKE making him feel good.

The only person I've ever given an enema to is my wife. The best part is spreading her cheeks and hearing that soft moan when I penetrate. Having her walk out of the bathroom with a smile on her face is nice too.

I love it all, but having someone expel while I'm watching is highly erotic for me. 😃 Even better if there's an orgasm involved. 😉

I've never had a partner who enjoyed getting enemas. It's just a chore for them and not erotic for me, as I know she's getting no pleasure from receiving them. I ALWAYS exit the bathroom during expulsion to give her some privacy and to not make humiliation any worse than it already is for her.

Like Jimmyt44, I've never really given anyone an enema for fun, although I have given hubby an enema on those occasions when he's asked for my assistance in helping him "go". That said, I do believe he is coming around to the point of seeing that an enema isn't necessarily something to be avoided, but something that might even be enjoyable.

His last enema was about six weeks ago following a week long business trip that took him across the country and back. The time zone changes really fouled up his system as did getting dehydrated on the trip home. Picking up a few tips from people on this board, I made his most recent enema an experience rather than a procedure. Secretly, I think he really enjoyed it more than he was willing to admit. And I have to admit, I did enjoy being the giver. Watching him experience the invasion of his bowels with warm water as I massaged his tummy was fun for me as I imagined what he was feeling.

Suffice it to say, that he seemed awfully ready for an amorous adventure when all was finished was validation enough for me!

Have fun and play safe!

Deb

The best enemate I ever had was my step sister. Although we live in different states, we occasionally get away for little enema "vacations." When she was 19, she made it clear to me that she was not having orgasms when she had sex with her boyfriend at the time. Upon inquiring further, I found out that she never had an orgasm.. Somehow I convinced her to submit to an enema. We later found our selves at my apartment, naked on my bed, she bent over on a towel. I gently lubed her very tight rectum, caressing her butt and I encouraged her to touch herself. Apparently, she also had never masturbated. I inserted the enema and let the warm diluted coffee enter her rectum.

My god!

She went into a trance of anal pleasure. She started rubbing herself furiously, saying, "I am so horny!!!" When the bag was about half emptied into her, she let out a scream, then her rectum started to contract, clenching the enema nozzle over and over. Juices flowed from her vagina. It was about a guaranteed proof of a real female orgasm.

We had anal sex after that where she repeated the orgasm this time clenching my penis, and she was really tight, practically shoving my erection from her rectum...

It was strange. After that for several weeks, she seemed mad at me...

I realize now, after many years, that she was frustrated with our related situation. She is my step sister! I could not openly date her, nor become her partner on a permanent basis.. Later on, We would occasionally sneak away and have amazing sex, but eventually, my mom found out, and about the enemas too...

To this day, My step sister and I would meet up somewhere, hundreds of miles away from our respective homes. During these little vacations, we help but imagine living together. We have discussed coming out together.

I love watching her masturbate while giving her enemas, I love watching her orgasm, the anal winking, the juices from her vagina... It turns me on like there is no tomorrow.

Usually after the enemas, she has me insert my penis into her rectum, and i eventually deposit my semen deep into her...

I love her so much...

I know it will meet their need as well as mine. Then we switch. Quick fill me.

My hospital related enemas follow hospital protocol. I do give them in a caring an comforting manner. I want to help my patients feel better or prepare them with the least amount of discomfort possible. I even warm the fleet bottle under warm water to make them easier on the patient.. Now my sexual enemas with a partner are entirely different mentally and physically I enjoy anal feelings and memories of childhood enemas and the control over my bowels or my partners. Enemas are a great part of my sex life,

I love everything about giving my partner an enema. I've usually given them their first, so that means trying to make it as erotic as possible so they like it. I either perform oral on them or use my fingers to play with their pussy and clit, maybe rubbing their Gspot, or using a vibrator. Watching them react to the initial flow, knowing exactly how it feels and sensing the warmth spreading throughout their abdomen, watching the bag deflate and hearing their excitement build. And I love watching/bringing women to orgasm so the enema-orgasm is ideal!

The mental aspects are very erotic as well. The fact that they are trusting me to do this to them, something so personal and intimate. They are giving me access to their ass and deep inside their body for an erotic purpose, which is 'dirty', 'nasty', taboo - kinky! And she knows she is going to have to poop afterwards, with me there, holding, massaging, comforting her, being there for the whole process. Most ppl never have anyone with them in the bathroom, when you are most vulnerable/embarrassed. It's an amazing and intimate, bonding experience to have with your lover. Love it!

Love putting them into to position to receive, having them exposed and waiting as I prepare the equipment.

I so agree ,to give some one you love and trust so much pleasure is as nice as being pleasured.

The trust and closeness is amazing.

I myself am not into enemas in a sexual way but my play partner is.

He is the only person ever to give me an enema.

I get a lot of happiness making him happy so he can have as many enemas as he wants.

Peace.

Caz

I love when they moan when you open the clamp and then combine the moaning with wiggling as they fill....mmmmm

Giving another woman an enema is so intimate. It is so private and personal. They are trusting you in more ways than one. They are trusting you that you will not hurt them or talk about it to other people especially if you make them have an orgasm during the experience. Even if they are constipated then you are helping them.

Beautifully put Tabitha. putting yourself in the hands of another woman for me is the ultimate expression of trust and intimacy. as does having my partner put herself completely in my hands .

Enemas are very intimate and they are baring their most secret place to you. I like the blush on the cheeks as the panties come down and I part those globes and catch my first sight of the browneye. I love it!