Being a woman I firmly believe that we ladies get more enjoyment out of an enema that men do. Do you agree or not?
I can tell you we do enjoy enemas every bit as much as men (at least I think I do). Although women may not have a prostate, they have a "G-spot" that is easily excited by the flow of an enema and the orgasms that result either during or after a good enema session are something to be savored!
This same issue was discussed in another thread, during which I commented (and now reiterate) that as a man with a perfectly functioning prostate, the water flow of an enema does more or less nothing for me in terms of prostate stimulation. Unless, of course, I use an appropriately shaped nozzle to physically massage my prostate. I would guess the same is true for the G-spot, in the case of females. Therefore I suspect that enemas give pretty much the same type of enjoyment and experience to most people, irrespective of whether they're male or female. For the most part I'll go with Deb on this one.
But, there are bound to be different experiences, I'm sure. Judging by some of the comments from men in this thread, who am I to say that profound prostate stimulation is not what some folks really experience with an enema? Good luck to them! We're all different (both physiologically and psychologically) and it would be VERY surprising if everyone experienced enemas exactly in the same way.
That's a hard question to answer. I sure hope women enjoy enemas as much as I do. I don't see how they could enjoy them more, however, when you're talking about two people regardless of gender who really love a good enema. I think there are things about enemas that both men and women love. The anticipation of taking an enema, the preparation, the insertion, starting the flow, etc. etc. Obviously they don't experience any pleasure from prostate stimulation which for the man can be very wonderful. But they must feel the same pleasure from feeling the flow of the enema, being filled, holding the enema and certainly expelling it. I would think that the majority of us, male or female, masturbate at some time during an enema session. I also believe that the enema intensifies that orgasm for either sex. All I can say is that I wish there were more women who were open about their love for an enema.
I can tell you we do enjoy enemas every bit as much as men (at least I think I do). Although women may not have a prostate, they have a "G-spot" that is easily excited by the flow of an enema and the orgasms that result either during or after a good enema session are something to be savored! The pleasure begins at insertion for me and continues through the gentle infusion of the warm water and the resulting fullness. Expulsion creates a wonderful sense of "release" and a feeling of euphoria that is totally unique to an enema. Do I masturbate during an enema? Sometimes more, sometimes less. It depends as to whether the enema is strictly for fun or if it's more therapeutic. Either way, an enema only heightens my sexual energy...it's principally a matter of when and how it is going to be released. That said, the resulting orgasm (toe curling and occasionally hair curling) is always more intense than one experienced without the benefit of an enema.
All I can cite are my own experiences, but enemas are definitely special to us, too!
Have fun and play safe!
Wow! --there's a ton of Psychology here on that one. For me the pleasure was two-fold; 1. the intimacy shared with Mom and 2. the feel-good afterwards. I guess that THAT goes back to about the time I had graduated to the bag...about 4 maybe.
All of that due to a birth defect called a Mega-Colon and continues to this day I have learned to accept that I'm totally enema dependent and that I can also enjoy the whole thing without guilt, etc. --luv it.
I am VERY envious of females, because I read that many of them have orgasms from the enema alone. Once in awhile, a male will claim this, but rarely. To have hands off orgasms and multiple ones from the enema alone would be better than my wildest dreams.
The answers to this one are virtually infinite. For me personally, enemas aren't naughty, but rather, very initimate (if sharing with another person). Likeise, because they are such a physical turn-on for me, they are highly erotic. Activities that stimulate me as enemas do, have a tremendous erotic value to them. Conversely, I would guess that if enemas did nothing for you from a phiysical stimulation standpoint......then neither would you find them erotic.
Of course, one can never know the true answer as one has to be either one or the other; male, female, or androgynous. I do agree though with the differences cited here, at least in a physiological sense, especially the powerful connection with the prostate for males. That said; for many of us it's both physical AND psychological - the latter being dependent on our own experiences. Like many, mine started in childhood and the forbidden/taboo nature of enemas - especially the thought of being forced to take one certainly added a great deal of fuel to the erotic fire for me.
Some people like them so much they act bad to get an enema for intimacy afterwards
I think the reason enemas are erotic to most of us is because they are intimate and naughty. I think most of us grew up being told the anus was dirty and off limits. I ask you ladies - you probably explored your vagina with your fingers at a quite young age, but did you stick your finger in your anus? Probably not. As a young man learning about sex, I found that many girls could be talked into regular sex with a little beer and sweet talk. But nobody I knew was going to let you in the back.
And then there is the enema. I guess most of us were introduced to the enema under more or less legitimate medical reasons, but somehow this process which most people consider embarrassing, messy, and just plain disgusting somehow seems sort of fun. Then it is the challenge. You are not supposed to like it, not talked about in public lest you be labeled a pervert. But holy cow!! This is fun. I think part of the excitement is the forbidden fruit you are tasting. Right?
I think it's one of those nice things that men and women can somewhat understand and feel how the other feels.
Umm We are in heaven while being filled and have our anus stimulate As I'm sure you know because you anus is feeling the same way whey we would be giving you yours :o)
I don't agree. While I love a good enema I've had male partners who have equally enjoyed the ones that I've given. They look like they're in heaven with a butt full of liquid while getting stroked.
I think from a male perspective while getting an enema the extra pressure on the prostate area really adds to the excitement and sexual arousal. I know that even when getting a colonic which is not supposed to be a sexual turn-on, if I get too full and it starts putting pressure on my prostate I will get an erection (although not a sexual arousal one, if that makes any sense...) Also the thought of anal play while getting an enema and being fully exposed and at the mercy of the person who is giving it to you is the real turn on. The pain with the pleasure thing also comes into play.
As a woman I can vouch for the fabulous satisfaction an enema brings me. Can't really know how great a man's response is physically; however there are plenty of men here waxing fantastic about enemas!
I like the feeling of humiliation that comes together with the "treatment", that makes me feel naughty and cheap. And of course, feeling the freedom of being clean.
I'm hurt! I don't think women have an up on pleasure from enemas. I personally love the feeling of warm and sometimes cold water filling my abdomen up. I love the fullness and the erotic feelings of having my rectum plugged. I also love the feeling of the water streaming over my prostate. All of this stimulation causes me to have a hard erection and in most cases a large amount of precum to leave my hard cock. So ladies, take note and keep your men happy with regular enemas. He will love you for it. I know I do.
I don't know about women, but I like the naughty, secret, intimate stimulation of my anus with a nozzle, and cleaning out before more anal play. The secret and slightly naughty part is the best!
I couldn't have put it better myself waterbaby, you are right on track. :D
If you want to see why enemas are so erotic look at the 38 photos in the gallery from Beth Tyler's collection.
They are sexy and well done. On Beth's site there was a photo gallery by Noz Wiz, the nozzle vender, which he called Anne;s Enema
and Anne's Second Enema. They are very similar to this most recent posting from Beth.
An enema is profoundly intimate. From the anus's accommodating, then clinging to fingers and nozzle, the insistent, ever more intense invasion of water and its accompanying surging sensation, the fullness, all of it . . . it seems to reach your core. I love to be fucked with the nozzle and to have my anus stretched by ever firmer movement of the nozzle from side to side. Muscles affected by enemas respond like no others. Reaching anal orgasm means long waves of pleasure. It's always there for you, any time.
I have never met another male that was an enema taker or more likely another male who revealed such an activity. I am aware of at least 3 female enema takers all claiming that this was for health reasons. Women do pay more attention to health than men and they thought nobody would think anything about it.
Can only speak for me and my wife. While she's allowed me to administer a few to her, she doesn't really like them. I definitely do and I'm super happy that she understands my desire (need?) and is happy to administer them to me.
Moparman - if you're looking for subjects for your study, please contact me. I'd be a willing participant.
In Greek mythology, the blind prophet Tiresias (who has lived as both a man and a woman) declares that women derive seven times more pleasure from sex than men do. Not sure if enemas entered his equation though.
The element of surrender to a partner, and the "forbidden" aspect of the deed is what makes it psychologically pleasurable, also the ritual of preparing the enema-- anticipating what will come next---, especially if the one who's about to give it takes their time and makes eye contact and erotic comments. I love to see a woman's naked breasts as she slowly inserts the nozzle.
I'm gratified to see the number of women on this forum. I thought it was more of a guy thing (both straight and gay). I can categorically state that for me, enemas are a thrilling experience. I do think that the male pelvic floor probably has at least as rich a nerve supply as that in women. The prostate, in terms of sensation, is probably equivalent to the woman's G-spot. I especially love it when it's administered by a woman who is turned on by enemas herself.
This whole thread cracks me up. This site is littered with guys (myself included) who were imprinted at an early age and had the kink carry on for life. To have a lively discussion between the sexes about who enjoys them more makes me laugh out loud. I guess we will never know for sure butt I am considering on just how to do a study to find out for sure. Hmm, this sounds like it could be fun...
As debgurl points out, the anus is an erotic region for both sexes, but men are probably more inhibited in accepting this. There is the fear among straights that anal eroticism will label one as "queer" while men of all persuasions through the spectrum of very straight to very gay can enjoy anal stimulation if not prejudiced against it. And prostate stimulation is a normal and enjoyable part of the sexual experience. There are only 2 ways to get to that old prostate and anal is the easier and safer route.
I think there are a number of similarities between men and women when it comes to enemas and their erotic aspect...and a lot of differences, too.
For women, we are socialized in a far less inhibited manner when it comes to our bodies and their function. Monthly periods, douching and the occasional enema are part of the right of passage. It is considered perfectly normal, thus we are less likely to be reluctant to experiment. If we are lucky, we learn early on the administration of an enema provides stimulation of nerve endings in the pelvic region that is highly pleasurable.
Men, on the other hand have been repressed from everything but focusing 100% on the external male genitalia. Talk, or worse acting, on anything related to the anus was (and sadly probably still is) considered to be taboo. Meanwhile, one of the principal pleasure spots in men is accessible only through the anus. I think it takes a brave man who is 100% secure in their sexuality to drop the facade and find the joy that awaits in anal stimulation and the added benefits that an enema provides.
Probably in many cases, women get to the "added benefits" of an enema earlier, but that is likely no more than the secure male can experience, too!
Sorry ladies but enemas and prostate massage go hand in hand. The secret to multiple orgasms is the male prostate. So you now you ladies have nothing on us men, we too can cum all night long:) A nice warm enema along with your favorite toy and its BLAST OFF time.