Intimate and naughty. Why are enemas so erotic?

It might be the fact that control over one of your most basic bodily functions and one of the first that you learned to control is being taken away from you by an inanimate object.

You ultimately submit to the enema, and then you fight as hard as you can for control of your bowel function, knowing it is a fight you will eventually lose, but one you know you must fight.

All this is happening waaaaay to close to the pubic area for comfort, and WILL change blood flow patterns in the pubic area. Whether that is enough to cause direct arousal you never really know.

Somehow, a lot of people find that strangely and a bit perversely erotic.

I have taken enemas all of my life, since I was about 5 years old. I am 69 now and and take at least one a day, purely for the pleasure. I find nothing humiliating about them, nor do I have any desire at all to be dominated. I just really enjoy the feeling of my gut filling with water, the feeling of the nozzle in my butt, and the feeling of expelling. The nice young lady that posted she felt women get a lot more pleasure that men could be right, but if she gets more pleasure than I do, then she is in a state of pleasurable bliss all the time.

I love a good soapy Ivory enema given with a massage of my belly so I can take the whole bag. I love the sting, the cramps, and ultimate release which usually makes me orgasm as well...

Referencing the first post in this thread:

From my limited knowledge of my mothers' family (13 blood aunts and uncles) the women seemed to enjoy the enemas, and enjoyed giving them to their daughters preferentially. My mother also implied that this was true by telling me that females got (many?) more enemas than males. It is hard to remember the exact words, as i was 4 yo at the time. It sure made a life-long impression on me, though. I do seem to remember one of my male cousins mentioning that he received them. That makes sense, as his mother was one of my aunts giving their daughter an enema while we were visiting.

In post 16, Hermann said: "It is my thought that more women will enjoy an enema from a man, vs. the opposite direction."

I wish that I could find all the women here that Hermann appears to know about!

As a male, I can assure you that the pressure of the enema on my prostate always causes me to have an orgasm

It depends on thee person and time. Most of the time it is erotic. I like the feeling of the warm water. The excitement of all coming out.

Men and women both enjoy the enema. It is always erotic, exciting and so intimate.

I have no idea but will say it is hard for me to believe a woman gets any more pleasure than I do from a well administered forced retention enema by a dominant woman. Even alone when I climax while full of that water it is very intense and wonderful experience.

The enema equipment is so sensual, psychologically anticipating the warm fill, then relaxing and letting it happen, the sensual infusion. Just the best!

I'll just quote another member and leave this here:

I have no idea but will say it is hard for me to believe a woman gets any more pleasure than I do from a well administered forced retention enema by a dominant woman. Even alone when I climax while full of that water it is very intense and wonderful experience.

I'm never in a contest to see who's orgasms or enemas are stronger or longer or better, but Billy9107 said it so simply and elegantly that I just had a big "Me, too!" Moment when I read this. Thanks.

Eric

P.S. Especially with that Domme helping!

No contest, both sexes love enemas!!!!

How can I (a male) possibly know if a woman gets more pleasure than a man? How do we measure pleasure?

What I do know is that the intimacy of sharing enema play can lead to very satisfying mutual pleasure.

When my body needs an enema cleanse, I'm usually satisfied doing it alone, but on occasion when I find myself needing AND WANTING, the closeness and intimacy that my husband and I can experience together...if that isn't healthy and "erotic" all at once, I'm not sure but is!

My wife went through surgical menopause about twenty years ago. At that point, she lost all interest in sex. She got on hormones for a while, but the worries of possible side effects caused her to stop using them. But, being a wife, she felt it her obligation to satisfy me. She knows of my love of enemas and she gives them to me. But, she will not encourage me or help me take them. She usually inserts the nozzle, opens the shut-off and reads her book till the bag empties at which time she shuts the shut-off, pulls the nozzle out and leaves. So much for the naughty and erotic...part off enemas...

I love sharing enemas with other guys because it's so naughty, so forbidden almost, and sort of dirty!!! And immensely kinky!!!

I agree with what Cheryl said previously:

Isn't letting a lover give you an enema the ultimate surrender of control? Once the water starts to flow, you have limited options. And isn't part of the thrill the fact that you are not supposed to enjoy an enema, but you do?

There is not much more intimate than surrendering your butt to someone, and depending on your attitude, it is very naughty.

I don't think women necessarily enjoy enemas more than men. Surrendering control to a lover is exquisite. The humiliation produced by the need to defecate while another is there--in fact controlling everything can't be beat. All under the guise of "you need this and I have I'm going to fix you up". The dash to the toilet trying desperately not to leak. The explosion. The enquiries "are you alright?" What's not to like?

I haven't ever discussed enemas with a woman to say who enjoys one more man or woman. I know I would love to have the exchange with a woman to me a lot of fun doing it and a big turn on for both. I love enemas I like to have a mirror positioned so can watch my butt colon tube working it in 36 inch one sometimes get all the way in other times just doesn't happen. I think be so erotic with a woman doing it. I always get an erection during it when full. Playing with a woman clit vibe in her pussy while she was being filled would be a big orgasm building I think make us both ready for ass play

I think guys would ,since they have a prostrate gland and women dont

For me the enjoyment of the enema in its self but having a women into it to give one is a turn on for me.

Just the word enema is erotic.

It's in our nature. Women generally have a greater depth of sensitivity and feelings than men, although my husband comes pretty close sometimes. That's why we've been together 34 years. The "enjoyment" we experience giving or being given an enema, even when it's purely for purposes of good health, sometimes increases our level of satisfaction to the point where I've joked to my husband, "If this is what it means to be erotic, I'm all for it!" 😃)

Geeeesh , guys get the short end of the stick yet again ,,, btw , i am not man bashing , but don't see how a guy could enjoy this more than us ladies, it's just everything about an enema is feminine ,maybe guys need an enema bag that looks like a Mac Truck or something lol , The Sears Craftsman Enema an enema that doubles as a power washer lol cause all of my enemas are very dainty and feminine , but then again they are all 45 years old when they were made with a personality ,, now the JBL bag , thats a bag made for a man

Hi AnneMarie and all...,

First off, "us guys getting the 'short end' of the stick??" Hmmm.....I wonder if that means the standard enema tip as opposed to the "Douche nozzle!!!!" And you mention that enemas are so feminine!! Oh I concur.......!! Any enema equipment in a store will be found in the "Feminine hygiene" section!! The "Classic Folding FEMININE Douche & (it always comes with an enema tip) Travel Syringe looks so dainty and feminine with its pastel colors and delicate shape!!! OMG!! After all I have never seen and I don't think any one makes a "Masculine" Syringe!!!!!!! .....then again something to think about........

Men are from Mars.........we have a Penis.

Women are from Venus......and have Vaginas.

"However!!," both Men and Women have an "A-N-U-S-!!!!!" Although we both have "different sexual organs" they are pretty much in the same place and close to the Anus!!

As for who "Enjoys Enemas more.....??" ...'Have to say that's like comparing "Apples to Oranges!!!"

I could go on but I'll leave you with this one last thought.....it is easier for women to "Accept" liking Enemas as to how it is presented in our society (note above) however, as a Man there is this societal negativity for accepting anything "ANAL!!!" It is up to the individual to deal with it........

With a definite........"CLICK!!!!!!!!!!,"

highwater

Women are definitely more open about getting an enema .The first person to tell me I was getting an enema was my mother, I think she enjoyed giving enemas

I think a lot of our Mother enjoyed giving us enemas. Me and my 3 brothers got enemas from Mom twice a week when we were growing up. I didn't like enemas until I was 10 or 11 yrs old so I put up quite a fuss, it sometimes took 2 people to hold me down. I was quite the brat 😉 😃 😜

Whether we are man, or woman, there are us, who just enjoy the feeling of insertions into our butts. The lube going into our butt, the nozzle going into our butt, the warm water flow, into our butt. It all starts, with just the idea of getting, and preparing the enema. The enema activity in our butts, gives a fantastic turn on, in our sexual area, whether it be a vagina, or penis. I don't believe it's all about prostrate glands, it's just as a simple as we have nerves in our butts, that when objects are inserted there, it turns us on, sexually. In fact, just the power of suggestion, of an enema, starts that turn-on thing going, just as I am aroused, just writing this. I think all considered, this is why we all get the feeling of intimate, and naughty, thinking of enemas, and getting/giving them. The suggestion of it's all being, a man or woman thing is silly, and if we have this type of "between the legs" turn-on, then we should have fun with it, and be very thankful , we have it, and can enjoy it!! Mike.

Yeah well us women can feel our g-spot even in our rectum and when a nozzle or warm water is injected our g-spots feel it to through the wall of the rectum which causes and orgasm to happen which is called rectal orgasm, don't even have to touch us below its a hands free orgasm. 😃 😜

I don't really find a lot of erotic pleasure in an enema. Nonetheless, I absolutely love the feeling of evacuating my bowels via an enema. In fact, I give myself enemas regularly enough that I doubt I have more than 2 normal bowel movements a month. However, I find a lot of erotic pleasure in the anal stimulation that will follow. The enema is a means to an end - stuffing my butt as full as I can. I love using dildos and dongs. The bigger, the better. I want to be as clean inside as possible because I don't want any fecal matter attaching to my dongs when removed. I also find I can usually get my 12" dong to come out "clean" the next day if I do a good job with the enema the 1st day. The 18" dong rarely comes out completely "clean" the 2nd day. Possibly one reason enemas don't stimulate me as much as other men is the fact I lost my prostate to cancer 9 years ago.