Intimate and naughty. Why are enemas so erotic?

Men vs Women enjoying enemas, It's all in the mind whether one likes them or not. Don't believe enemas are gender biased. But---All have there opinions.

With an activity that is so relaxing and healthy it's a great thing for me, Love 'Em.

Anywho---Relax and Enjoy whatever pushes ones button.

So who like enemas more-men or women ? Just look at who posts on the board. Look at all the posts on all subjects. The majority of members to this forum is male. Where are all the women? Enemas are primarily a man thing. You can count your lucky starts if you have an enema woman. You should kiss the ground she walks on.

This is definately a "chicken or egg" question. I think both men and women enjoy enemas equally as well. To say it is a 'man' thing is because I think a lot of women are more secretive about it.

I don't think it matters if you're male of female. If you like it and/or you're anally erotic it's quite a turn on.

Giving myself an enema is part of being anally erotic, one of the many ways to give myself pleasure. Also, I get a kick out of being a little naughty and doing something that does not meet with general approval by society.

I can just answer from the female point of vue, as I never wanted a man to get involved with my private habits.

It all started with a need for cleaning my bowels, but then founded very pleasant the feeling when it was all over; and after a few session just loved the sensation of the fluid filling my inside.

So women can love enemas, even if they don't have a prostate and get an orgasm from them.

I like the warmth and sense of fullness from an enema. Feeling truly clean (and a bit "dirty" as well) is great. And the sight and feel of my distended belly when full, the rush of water passing my anus on release and the euphoric daze after aren't unpleasant at all.

It is wonderful how many emotions come up when I'm getting a big fill up, the emotional release is almost as good as the physical.

Release of built up toxins- the feeling of renewed energy.

The wonderful anal stimulation when the nozzle slides in, the tremendous rush when the water begins to flow......and the fabulous climax at the end!

I would have to agree that it is the naughty part that attracts me to enema play. Since I am a solo enema practitioner, I haven't experienced the use of enemas as part of foreplay. Well, once I did. Early in my marriage, I told my wife about my anal eroticism and in particular enemas. One time she complained about constipation, and I offered to give her an enema. I did and we made love after, but the experience has never been repeated. In fact, when we were packing to move one time, we came across the enema kit and she made it clear that it was not needed and should be thrown away. I think it was the naughty part that she didn't like, because she is hesitant to do anything else in our sex life that might be considered naughty. So I have to be naughty on my own.

I think the naughty part stems from being taboo(society's viewpoint) as LisaK mentioned. For me, there's definitely a sense of control or submission that is so seductive. Then there is the pentration aspect. -Such that an enema travels so physically deep along with the sense of fullness that it becomes very intimate(& erotic if accepted) & sometimes emotional for the reciprient. Which then becomes highly eroticised by the giver aswell; because they have knowingly performed one of the deepest penetrations of their lover possible. -Physically and/or emotionally. I don't know which of these aspects of the enema I love most. But they all are intwined exquisitely.

A magazine I read many, many years ago said that water sports (enemas) were mostly women's sports, but I don't know about that. Obviously the writer never found this website. lol.

I don't know if there can even be an answer to this, but I was intrigued to see how many of the ladies here view that. While I do know from experience over the years that many ladies really enjoy them, I can say for me personally, that I don't think anyone could enjoy one more than I did. For me it is a combination of embarassment, the loosing of control and having someone else in charge, and the obvious erection that gives it all away. I wish I could be given one every day.

Those of us who are very sexually aroused taking enemas are enjoying erotic pleaures!

Freud believed that early childhood experiences could affect sexual behaviors and desires later when puberty and sexual behaviors begin. So if someone has some vague or even subconscious memory of being diapered it may lead to that behavior later in adult life. Receiving enemas as a child can trigger a similar response. Whether the enemas were considered pleasant or unpleasant may only serve as to what scenario the adult enjoys most while receiving enemas. My interest in spanking which I find to be a tremendous sexual turn on stems from seeing a friend of my mom spanking her daughter(2 years younger than me)on her bare bottom. I had never been spanked but it became a sexually erotic.

Boy, I don't know; as a guy I've gotten a lot out of the experience for some 20 years!

I am a woman, with 49 years old. My taste of enemas perhaps exist, because they have been part of my whole childhood. My first enema that I remember having received, would have about 3 – 4 years old. At that time was like a torture, but over time I was accustomed to them and I ended up getting likes of the enemas. In general, I get them alone, only when I have my playdoctor is that I can enjoy having someone to give me an enema. I recall a time of care, affection, in which my grandmother and my mother treated me in my childhood.

Cheers, Patient Care

The anticipation and preparation is as much of a turn on as the actual enema. Deciding what enema equipment (bulb or bag and which nozzle) and preparing the enema liquid (I like ivory soap) and filling the bag (when I don't use my 12 ounce bulb). Looking at that bulging bag (or the sink full of sudsy water when I use the bulb) really gets me excited.

Well one thing is the absolute trust you are giving to whomever is giving you an enema. Then along with all the other emotional and physical along with the scent (if you are using soap). The anticipation and then the actual contact. Mmmmmmmmm

Ive been flying solo for a bit now so its much less fun and I also indulge less often but everyting mentiond above are all good reasons

I once read a book that stated it was perfectly ok to "need" an enema. "Wanting" one was a whole different animal. I don't think that receivers are necessarily submissive and givers dominant. Enemas can produce a physical and pyschological euphoria for givers and receivers alike.

For me the great appeal of taking enemas is the preparation and anticipation of the whole process which builds up to a great climax and complete sexual satisfaction!

Enemas are erotic because they are rather taboo as well as extremely intimate. People are embarassed to discuss them, to think about them. Both men and women enjoy them,especially if they are open and comfortable with themselves and their bodies.

I remember my first erotic enema experience very well. I was probably 13. When i stayed over at grandmas house i would snoop around and go through every drawer and cabinet. Doing things i knew i shouldn't. One day while i was in grandmas bathroom, i was digging under her sink. Normal stuff was under there. toilet paper and cleaning products. But then in the very back corner, covered up by some decorating junk i found and enema nozzle and hose! At that point in my life, all i knew about enemas was the one time i was constipated and my mom administered me a fleet disposable enema.

So being the horny little bastard i was, i got naked and tried to give myself an enema in the shower with just the hose and nozzle. I already had a raging hard on and was eager to slip that white, long nozzle in my teenage butt. I'm in the shower with my little cock dripping clear sticky pre cum, I slip that nozzle deep in my ass. enjoying every inch of it passing my prostate. Some how i managed to hold the hose against the shower nozzle just right for the hot water to start rushing inside my colon. Oh those first moments as the water begins to fill you are bliss. Tingly feelings shoot through my torso and my pecker throbs! I'm standing up and feeling my belly getting full and i like the pressure building inside. I have no way of knowing how much water has gone inside me. Minutes pass and i feel so full that i think i'm going to burst! I stop the water and start stroking my dick. At this point i'm in erotic enema heaven. Filled up to the breaking point and masturbating furiously. What happens next is something i have yet to recreate all those years ago. It didn't take long, stoking and feeling so full of hot water, my penis explodes with cum like never in my life!I NEARLY BLACK OUT I ORGASM SO HARD! Huge bursts of cum shoot out of my throbbing cock. My legs quiver and struggle to hold me up. Out of breath, trying not to fall over. From that day on i was hooked on erotic enemas. I'm 30 now and fantasize about enemas on a daily basis. I might get to do them once a week or less, but enemas will always be an important part of my sex life.

Carl,

Great first experience. Good of you to share it.

Dan

I get great enjoyment out of taking an enema, I can't compare to what women feel. I know that all things in the rear for me are incredible, have been into anal play since I was very young.

Being a male, all I can contribute is that I get A LOT of enjoyment from enemas. If, being a woman produces equal or greater joy than my own, well more (water) power to you!

I enjoy a good, warm, gentle enema. It is pleasurable but not sexual pleasure. Once in a while I like to play up the naughtiness of it. I'll strip from the waist down and enjoy the nakedness while I am preparing for the enema. It gives a little different feeling to the anticipation, but once I slide the nozzle in my anus I want the enema to be warm and relaxing!

The eroticism comes from the intimacy involved in the act, the control factor and humiliation.

I agree that a non-medical enema is more intense and personal than normal sex. If for no other reason than exclusivity. Lots of people have sex. Very few people enjoy submitting to an enema.