For as far back as I can remember I have had a fetish for gynecology. The scenario of a male doctor intimately examining a female patient totally fascinated me: even in my preteens. I find it spellbinding that a woman, who often is often a total prude in her daily life, will strip completely naked for a man, often a complete stranger, and let him touch every part of her body including her most private areas. She has no qualms in doing so because he is a medical professional.
When I married my first wife, male partners were not allowed to be present during exams nor at childbirth. Female OB/GYN's were rare. My ex had to use male doctors at the military hospitals where I was stationed. I tried to get her to talk about her exams but she would not. Her reluctance to share any part of her exam experiences caused considerable frustration and jealousy on my part. She felt that my wanting to know what went on in the examination room was perverted and that normal husbands don't get jealous when their wife goes to a doctor. I conceded that, maybe it was unusual, but I still wanted to know what took place during her exams. I further contended that jealousy is a natural male reaction to another man touching his wife: even if that man is a doctor. We eventually divorced for other reasons.
Since that time, the medical community has changed its attitude toward the male partner being in the room when the exam takes place. Also, female OB/GYN's are much more common now. Fortunately for me, my present wife shares my medfet fantasies and openly discusses her medical experiences. She actually prefers for me to be present when she is examined: especially by a male doctor. Although I still get jealous, I like to go with her when she goes for an exam by a male doctor so I can watch while the examination takes place.
On one hand, I resent the fact that another man is in full control and I can only watch while he intimately probes and explores every part of my wife's body with his hands and instruments: especially when he moves to her erogenous areas. On the other hand, it is exciting to be there to watch while the doctor opens and closes the gown when he palpates breasts and body. The most exciting part is when he has her put her feet in the stirrups. Watching him pull the drape back to expose her vulva, asking her to spread her legs so he can do a thorough pelvic, and then sliding a speculum or his fingers into her vagina sends a shiver of jealousy and excitement up my back every time. The motions of the internal organ check are almost like he is finger-f__king her. Wife says it is her favorite part of the exam but doesn't last long enough. ;)
I have seen my wife examined by female doctors but they only fulfill my gyn medfet fantasies: it does not have the charged eroticism of watching her being examined by a male. Being there to watch, while my gyn medfet fantasies are happening in front of me, seems to override my jealousy of another man physically touching my wife's private parts and allows me to enjoy what is going on. It is a jealous but highly erotic experience. Also, my wife admits that she prefers the touch of a male doctor handling her private parts and likes it when I go with her. She says it makes her unusually horny for me to be there watching while the doctor is examining her. Knowing that she is enjoying the exam as much as I enjoy watching really enhances my own pleasure.
I realize that not every man would want to watch while another man intimately touches every part of his S/O's body. Under any other circumstance, I would not allow another man to touch my wife either. But physical examinations are a necessity so, if my wife has to go to a male doctor, I want to be there to watch. Sharing the experience is a great medfet adventure for both of us.
Of course, play exams at home are a frequent occurrence. We often relive the scenarios of her most recent real exam to enhance our play exam. Sometimes we go over our favorite details of her exams to spice up our sexual activities too: that is a real turn-on for both of us. ;D
When I found this site, I was elated to realize that I am not quite as warped as I thought. It is good to know that others enjoy medfet as much as I do and like to share their thoughts, feelings, and experiences.