my girlfriend is concerned about having anal sex to soon after an enema how long should we wait before anal sex??
My wife and I love anal sex and assplay on occasion, so we'll start several hours ahead of time with a round of 3 large volume enemas. First comes Bronner's soapsuds in a 2qt bag. I give her's first, then she gives me mine. Then we'll do 2 bags each of warm water to rinse ourselves out thoroughly. The soapsuds enema usually evacuates almost everything by itself. The third water enema is just to "MAKE SURE". This usually gives us a couple hours to relax, and for any residual water to be absorbed into our colons. I've always been afraid of an enema not being completely expelled, and a surprise coming out while I'm pounding her tush. But it's never happened as long as we wait a couple hours after the last enema. My wife uses two fingers to give me a prostate massage, and I want to be clean as a whistle back there when she enters me.
I like to be oral to her for about 30 minutes after the last enema and by then we are both so hot we nearly pass out.
Personally I find that it's best to wait about half an hour. I used to wait longer when I first started using enemas before anal sex, but now I can tell if I'm ready so I can speed the process up.
I think it also depends on how many enemas. If you take a few enemas in a row, then the last ones should have much less faces left, mostly just water, and so a little leakage is not too bad.
I prefer to have a few enemas, but have the last two shorter with less water, so they are mostly just a rinse of the rectum and early colon, not likely to simulate too much deeper. Then anal play is usually clean.
But if you really want to be sure, then wait an hour, or even two.
I would say it depends on you. I have had my ass fucked right after a few sets and i was not totally empty and left a big mess on the bed. Then again other times had no problem.
after two or three bags and emptys I carnt wait I know its supposed to be about 30 mins to an hour but the sight of a fresh clean bum drives me crazy once we just pulled the tip out and put my cock straight in and pumped the water out thrust by thrust
ive found that i vary with my enemas in many aspects from day to day: how much i can hold, the time it takes me to expel it. after experience youll know what works for the 2 of you.
Before ,or after it works for me
As someone else noted it depends if you had an orgasm while having the enema.
Generally 15 minutes to half an hour suits me most times.
As most here say 30 minutes to an hour is a good rule, but it does vary with each person, the type equipment, volume, and so forth. We find the evacation is sooner if we use two quarts of warm salt water given slowly, and held for a bit using an inflatable butt plug nozzle. We use the time for other play and build up the expectation. If they step into the shower and wash themselves well after the initial evacation, and are then butt plugged you can do oral or other things before they go back to the bathroom....
30 minutes to an hour, at least.
I find that if it is too soon then some of the residual water and poop sometimes comes out unexpectadly while you are have sex. I am going to try a retention nozzel to see if that wil help
The most important determining factor should be the comfort of my lover. Sometimes she has wanted anal while she's holding the enema; sometimes she has wanted me to wait 30 minutes to an hour after she expels. In the meantime, we play, and I finger her and lubricate her well.
I agree about using the time for foreplay some of the time. Other times we find it a turnon if I put her to bed for a nappy knowing that when she awakes afterwards, she'll be taking it in the ass for a while. I know that there is strong anticipation there just before going to sleep. But she still falls asleep soundly after sex & enemas. & after sleeping there's a slight bit of suprize created by the "daze" of being asleep of what's coming next on the menu sorta speak. And when she's again awake & I turn her onto her belly & start the spreading of vaseline, she's reminded of what is to happen next & becomes sexually awakened again. We both find this sequence of events rather stimulating.
Perhaps she would be in the best position to answer that question. After all she would know her body better than any one else. But the time before can always be used for foreplay. In any case have fun.
Did I post that I wait close to hour after enemas before proceeding to anal sex? I haven't waited that long recently. About half an hour or so is when I go for it. She has plenty experience with receiving my enemas... She knows her body by now to know whether or not it's too early to have anal sex after the enema. And I'm too horny these days to wait a long time!
I always get a mindblowing orgasm when my bf gives me an enema, so I need to wait at least 30 minutes or longer to be ready for anal sex.
My girlfriend is new to anal intercourse and realy loves it. She can orgasm just playing, licking, and fingering her bottom !!!
Unfortunaly i stil haven't gave her an enema but i always use a condom when we
are having anal sex. It also helps to lubrication except of the health reasons...
you can add to the fun by lping her release further. After her visit to the toilet get her back on the bed on her knees and insert a colon tube to help her release more water that gets trapped. I agree that the volume should be only a quart or so. Take your time administering it. Stop the flow occasionally and play with her erotic body parts. The idea is to have fun during the enema as opposed to giving her a deep colon cleanse. I get so turned on that waiting for an hour is not realisitc so I get creative. Have fun!
You've not ever had anal intercourse??? I'm surprised, as I've assumed almost everyone especially females have tried at one time or another. My GF is new to it and loves it. She can orgasm with me just fingering her bottom!!
But to answer the question..... How long after enema can have "Back-Door" boogie; I would say that it depends on what is the average time it takes the lady to completely evacuate. Also it would depend how much enema volume. I have heard or read that not much enema volume is needed for a cleaning prior to anal intercourse; That just the rectum needs emptying rather than the entire colon.
the male should wear a condom to prevent getting a UTI. I'm speaking from experience!! UTI is not fun and if gets into kidney.... could be serious if not diagnosed early enough. Also if you are NOT wearing a condom then make sure you time the session so that you are able to urinate with gusto after the anal sex in order to rinse out the urethra as much as possible.
Everyone is different-I haven't done anal before so would prefer if I'm emptied out!
well i think the anus needs to relax a little after enemas. i would wait about an hour or so just to make sure
I really think that having sex after you have expelled all of it and some people love to hang on to it until after sex so I really don't think there is a set time it is just when your comfortable
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