What do you think is the most painful implement?
For me, the wooden paddle really hurts. I have never been caned.
Probably the most painful spanking at least for a man is one administered after an orgasm.. The endorphins are gone and the pain receptors are wide open. If a guy is to be really punished he should be given a nice BJ, a shower and then have his cheeks nice and wet. Best done where the neighbors won't call the police.
I should clarify my previous post a bit. If you "need" to either get or give a punishment spanking (grins), and want a shallow bruise to be left for a few days, then a firm rubber hose in 3/8" or maybe 1/2" size is for you. I use an appx 18" length of fuel line from my hardware store.
After an appropriate warm-up, apply some lotion to the bottom about to be punished, and swing this instrument like you would a cane, followed by an immediate and very gentle massage of the area. Follow this with maybe 2 more strokes, allowing the bottom enough time to recover before placing the next one. I never do more than 3 well aimed strokes, either giving or receiving, one on the upper part of the buns, one middle, and one lower. Stay on the butt though, and not upper thighs. Injury is for amateurs.
The fuel line implement is more intense than a cane of similar size. It's both heavier and more flexible, so lands with a greater energy, i.e. both more mass and velocity, which is why I limit the number of strokes to 3 and follow them by the very gentle rubbing. The pain, for a second or two, is both intense and delicious. Welts form almost immediately, and the resultant bruise is a perfect stripe across the ass. The bruise is not deep, and will last just a few days. There is a gentle soreness produced, just enough to serve as a reminder of the punishment received, and is normally gone after about 48 hours.
Prolonged use of a cane which causes some substantial injury to the skin is just not for me. It seems to be something which doms who really don't know what theyre doing partake in, or some profit-minded idiot making a video.
Don't get me wrong though! I'm not some kind of pain junkie. When spanking or being spanked, I thoroughly enjoy slow & sensual, bare bottom, butthole exposed, OTK, whatever. It's a great form of foreplay, as you all know.
dr1027: My wife and I have discovered a rubber strap called the,"curse of Dana".
I ran across this particular toy just this afternoon while looking for new implements. I ended up ordering it along with a couple of other things, one of which is a braided silicone tubing kind of instrument of torture. I'll let you know how this thing works out. I should be able to play again in about 5 days, after the current bruises are gone...
We could write books on this subject. Wet or lotioned buns does make a difference. I think all implements that we're aware of can be real painful if administered hard and long enough. The cane seems to be a popular choice for pain, though it all depends on what we or our Dom is looking for. Thin canes are more of a sting, and can split the skin. Thick ones are more likely to bruise, etc. Though I think there is an element of pleasure with most canes, especially when I'm in the mood for a real spanking.
One thing that hasn't been brought up that I can see is thick rubber hose. Available from your hardware store in a number of sizes, though for spanking I think of 1/2", 3/4", or 1 inch diameter. All 3 of these sizes when administered to your bottom will result in nearly pure pain. Virtually no element of pleasure. And all 3 will result in a bruise with every stroke. It's the most severe instrument I've ever experienced, and really needs to be used with caution. It can absolutely wreak havoc by someone who doesn't know what they're doing. Play safe!
Cane or fresh cut willow switch.
Actually another really painful spanking is on wet cheeks. It doesn't seem to matter whether it is a paddle, spoon or what but if your cheeks are wet it really stings. My GF and I keep a spray bottle handy for punishment spankings and believe me it makes a difference.
Without a doubt the worst is a cane, especially one made from a synthetic material. In the hands of the right / wrong person this can be a truly unforgettable experience. Makes even a whip seem like a gentle stroking. YIKES!
The belt on the bare butt was the norm after the age of 10. It was always bent over the bed and the belt absolutely stung like crazy but it was not the worse thing ever. My aunt / godmother had this piece of wood slat that she used to spank with. It was about 1.5" wide and probably 18" long and possibly 1/8" thick. I'm not sure what type of wood it was made of but it was pretty flexible and was a smooth finished dark wood. That thing stung so bad that it would take your breath away. I got spanked with that thing twice in Jr. High.
The first time I got spanked with that thing was when I was 12. My aunt had a pool and they had a guest house / changing room structure that was next to the pool. I was dared to ride my BMX bike off of the roof of the guest house into the pool. I took the dare and cleared the decking easily and landed in the deep end of the pool just as my aunt came out of the house. She started yelling at me while I was struggling to get the bike out of the pool. Once I got the bike out she told me to get dried off and go in the house and change in to dry clothes. I did what I was told and when I came out of my cousins room she met me at the doorway with that slat in her hand. She took me into her bedroom told me take my pants down and bend over the bed. The first wack of that slat made me jump to my feet. That thing stung so bad I could hardly catch my breath.:
The most painful spanking I ever received was given with a hard wodden hairbrush, over 100 strokes with this implement will make anyone scream and quiver with pain.
A friend has a seemingly innocuous paddle made of hard rubber with slots cut in it and it is known by most as "The Evil Toy" No idea why, but that thing just HURTS! I have been cropped and paddled and caned and even whipped with a single tail but that paddle makes me cringe.
So far, I've never really experienced the cane or a switch, but even compared to the Single Tail, I hate the plain wooden paddle more. I hate the paddle so much that if I'm not bound, I'll do everything in my power to get away from it. Even suspended, I have pulled myself up the chains to get away from the paddle. Unfortunately, the next time my feet were fastened to the floor. I will fight, kick, punch, and/or bite if I'm free, just to get away from a paddle. If I ever experience the cane, I may change my mind, but for now, may all paddles rot in hell where they came from! *giggles*
I have to agree with e-male. A fresh cut switch has to be the most intense. Second most would be a thin cane and then a tawse.
For me it has been the rattan cane - but it really does depend on how hard the caner strikes. I remember from my school days that I once had 3 strokes a couple of days before the end of the Winter term and the marks were still there three weeks later when we went back to school in the second week of January. On another ocassion - and a different master - the marks had disappeared in less than four days!
I have been spanked with hairbrush, wooden spoon, paint stick, paddle with holes, yard stick and leather strap but the sensation of a fresh switch on a bare bottom is the most intense sensation I have ever experienced in that regard .... and it only left me with faint pink stripes when it was over because I felt sure that it must have drawn blood
I like to use the Cat 'O nine on my slave. When I have her warmed up I swing between her legs and swat her on the lips. That gets her attention.
the long thin handle on window blinds makes a good cane. You may even have one in your house right now, lol
No doubt I've not experienced everything, but to date, I have to say the cane is the very worst. But I will also say that anything on my upper inner thighs is brutal- I'll safe word out fast... & I HATE to safe word. Hate it.
Dressage Whip. This always leaves a bright stripe on my butt stings like a hive if bees. Easy for my wife to get a good swing.
I would say either a switch, cane or a martinet. Each hurts in a different way but all are wonderfully unendurable.
Paddles with holes in them are probably the most painful implement to use. I would never use a paddle with holes in it.
i think its the crop for my Sub that will leave good marks But i really like the paddle i made awhile ago with two different sides one side is padded leather the other hard wood .
Each side has slightly differing effects .
i like to use my tawse or the switch for really bad girls
realistically the cane would be in my opinion the most painful and this has been confirmed by the person receiving the cane, it is stingy pain
the whip would be a bit savage i think to play with or to be used as play unless it was used very conservatively
The worst impliment was the oak paddle. I took it while I was over her lap. The skin is much more sensitive after your climax and cum. It didn't take too long before my ass was bright red and I was in tears.
A Jack LaLane glamor stretcher. I don't know how many of you are old enough to remember those, but is was a piece of round rubber about 3/8" in diameter with handles on it. My mother used to spank me with it so when I finally left home, I took it. It hurts like hell.
Without question, something small and fast moving like a cane or a switch. I have one made of 3/8" aluminum, almost 3 feet long, and nothing hurts like that bastard. Though the handle of a crop just below the leather tip comes close.
When I get whipped by someone else, I like a switch or a strap. When I give myself a good whipping, I use a very stiff piece of coated wire. It's easy to swing it, and give myself just the right type of welts on both cheeks of my bare butt. I mostly do prefer to spank myself, but with just the right, bare butt female, it can be great! Either way, I do prefer getting my butt nice and sore for being able to feel it for a couple of days. Most like to feel it on the toilet, especially when an enema is to follow the spanking.
definitely a cane! I stick with a nice whip or wood paddle. my favorite is a nice bare hand so soft and warm yet firm Mmmmmmmmmmm
It has to be the cane. its so painful. i could only take light caning before begging for it to stop. i did get my own back when we switch positions and i returned the caning :-)
saying that i would like to receive it again, i could just be saying that now and once i am OTK i may change my mind.
The implement my wife hates the most is a leather belt. but she says a wooden hairbrush hurts more
for me..so far.. a single tail bullwhip. It is not only very painful it has a frightening sound.
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