Vaginal Fisting

Being fisted and stretched is one of the most erotic things I have yet experienced. Being vulnerable to your partner and letting him explore you so deeply. Mmmm. Most intense orgasms ever

With five years of marriage and two kids, my wife seems to feel lonely and somewhat down after her annual pelvic exam. She usually wishes to take a break from sex for a day or two, then seeks loving comfort and our mutual warmth to re-connect with our world of intimacy.

Last pelvic, done by an intern helping a young resident, was one of her 'worst.' After dinner she said, "I want to be violated then made whole again." I said, "how can I help?" Answer: "...get the kids down, cuddle me, massage me, draw me a warm bubble bath, give me an enema, bathe me, thrill me with our best foreplay and fist me.".... I'd never fisted anyone anywhere before.

My glove size is 'large' and those are a tight fit. It took about three hours to get the kids down, jump through all the hoops, try two different brands of lube and reach the point where four fingers were forming a 'wedge' around my thumb. Then we 'made it' and I formed a fist. Since then we've made fisting an annual, post-pelvic affair!

I tried this once with an ex gf. Not knowing what to expect, I did what made sence to me (one finger then two etc...). My hands aren't all that big but they are wider than a woman's hand, so we never got the whole thing in. I hope one day to be able to try it again.

My wife and I have been playing with dildos for years, recently, I started purchasing new bigger ones without her knowing. She loves to be restrained in a doggy position and I started using the dildos on her starting with the ones we already had and when she was excited, I'd slide a new bigger one in. She didn't realize it, but seemed to enjoy it immensely.

After a few weeks, I had stepped it up in size a lot, I bought a dildo called collosus and was kinda scared as it was 16" long and over 9" in diameter. We spent a long time in the hot tub and she was on her second bottle of wine when she wanted to go to the bedroom. I had her on her knees resting on pillows and started small and worked my way up slowly one size after another, when I got to the monster as she now calls it, I lubed it heavily and slowly started inserting it. The head was so big that I didn't think it would go in until she pushed back and it just "popped" in and after that the sliding motion was easy.

After fucking her with the monster for a while, I slowly removed it and was amazed at how open she was, I started playing with her clit and fingering her with my free hand. 1 then 2 and 3 and 4 fingers deep, I was up to the knuckles without any complaints, as everyone says, its hard to get the hand on for fear of hurting her. No worries as she once again slowly pushed back and took my hand to the wrist. Wow, it was like a suction and a continuous cum fest as I twisted my closed fist in her.

Now I fist her regularly and have moved her up to the Great American Challenge dildo that she takes like a pro. What's amazing is that she's still tight when I fuck her after fisting and the dildo play. No anal, and looks like it will never happen other than me licking her ass like vibrating her clit. Maybe someday she'll let me? post pics forearm deep in her.

Myself and my ex have two children. Toward the end of our marriage I was able to fist her. She loved it. We would work up to it with dildos than I would slide my hand in. The best part was when she was done she was still tight. My current wife is extremely tight I can get about four fingers in and that's it. Hoping to one day be able to enjoy the fun with fisting.

I have done this to my ex several times. You have to take your time and listen to what she is saying to you. Relaxed, turned on, and LUBE! She had her best orgasms while fisting.

My boyfriend has tried this many times. I'm not SUPER tight but he just cant get past 4 fingers! I WANT IT ALLL

Makes me so sad i wasnt given smaller hands 😢

sounds like she had fun hehe

Fisting is such a turn on. feeling so full. I have had a few guys fist me and some have very large hands. it is an art for the guy. the man has to be patient, excite the woman, lube well, listen to her body, and go slow. some days it works and other days it does not ; even when I am in the mood and wanting it.

My favorite sexual activity. I had once a tremendous experience with a woman who could take my both hands while having a 12 inch dildo up her ass. Will always remember and longing to do it again

I am not into getting penetrated in any way, but I love fisting women vaginally(never tried anally, nor fisted a guy). As others have said, there is a connection, a bond created that is powerful and marvelous. Many years ago, before I ever did it, I could not have imagined the various emotional, physical and almost spiritual sensations and feelings created. It seems like every woman I have ever fisted, not many really bc I'm usually in a monogamous LTR, loves it and has the most intense orgasms of their lives. Also, a few have ejaculated, I think bc of where the g-spot is.

The same way as Susie mentions in another thread about taking time for the fistee to stretch, I found as the fister that it took a very long time to develop the skill and hand flexibility to fist well, too. What I mean is, and this is just anecdotal evidence, that it seems like when I am with a woman who likes fisting, my hand accommodates the practice by getting more malleable, crushable without pain, more limber as we do it more. If I haven't done it in a while, I work on my hands to get them ready. I wrap one hand around the other at the widest part, across the knuckles (while including the thumb) and try and squeeze until my thumb touches my middle finger. I estimate the circumference and try and shrink it over a few days/weeks. I then can represent what size we are discussing, if my gf has never been fisted before. I will squeeze my hand, then slide it off and approximate the diameter by making a "C" or circle with my thumb and middle finger and showing her what it looks like.

Does anyone else have any limbering up routines or exercises they do as the fister? I have read about and discussed this topic a lot, but I am always eager to hear and learn technique from anyone willing to share. Of course, I would like to hear from fisters about techniques, but I am also super interested in what the fistee likes or experiences, too.

I guess I had been dating the wrong Women , in all of my many years and experiences with many different Women I had only come across 1 Woman who could be successfully fisted, Oh well, one of these days

^^^^ I would say the percentage of women who could or would be fisted is VERY low. Low enough for almost all people never to experience it.

It seems like there is a higher percentage of lesbians who are into v fisting. Not sure why.

^^^^ That may be true for lesbians.

"I just can't beleive its worth the effort and probably doesn't feel very good"

With that attitude, you will never like it. If you're curious and want to try it, you REALLY have to want it and believe that it will be pleasurable otherwise there is no point in even starting the training. When I first started anal stretching I would train daily and want it. The days that I didn't want it, I could tell. Nothing would work and I could not find pleasure in getting large things up my butt. It was the sessions where I was truly horny and wanted something in my ass that allowed me to go wider and wider. The journey never ends for me and I love every new experience it brings 😉

I have been intrigued and excited about the possibility of fisting my partner for as long as I have known her...she is young and has given birth to two children the youngest is four. I have read these forums on many occasions and have watched more than my share of videos...and questions still float in my mind. I appreciate everyone's candour and like any internet experience I know better than to come here without a fair bit of healthy skepticism.

My fear is that my play mate will do anything in her attempt to please me...to her doing something that is at least uncomfortable is an extreme turn on. I have some confidence in believing that she will not end up with a hollowed out..prolapsed vagina..i have seen lots of that on the web and have no interest in seeing that happen....I assume those woman are doing far more than just fisting to get into that state.

I understand the need for crazy amounts of high quality lube

I understand the absolute need for intense arousal and good communication...I am in tune with her body and I know when she is very excited.

Sunny76 has made some excellent comments about getting her hand/fist ready...I have large hands ...longer in the fingers rather than being ham-fisted....where the heck does my thumb go? Does anyone have any favourite videos that show what works best in terms of hand positioning ?

I have also read about positions being important and that knee chest works really well but I don't see too many folks commenting on that...any thoughts?

I also like the commentary about enemas to help ensure sufficient room inside her lower abdomen...I would have to find a need for the enema in any event so thank for that.

Is a glove helpful?

And from a submissive perspective ladies...how would you rate being on the receiving end?

I appreciate your time

Larger

Worked up to having my husband fist me two weeks ago. I casually mentioned it as he was sliding several fingers in and out of me that he "should try putting your whole hand inside of me" and immediately he got excited, his eyes lit up like it was Christmas all over again and he worked his way in there fairly quickly. It was beyond intense feeling, in fact, I had to tell him to slow down a tiny bit, which he did, and we savored the experience quite a bit

V fisting doesn't ruin your tightness. It takes awhile to work up to it but it's kegels that keep the muscles down there toned. My husband can feel plenty, and has never complained about my ability to take multiple fingers, a large toy or his hand.

I never tried it,

my body can't take that far yet

I've been married for 16 years and after our 3rd child I asked her to try fisting and she didn't want to at first but I convinced her to try it. So the first time we tried it I got in all the way but she didn't want me move around just hold it there while I ate her out and she had one of the best orgasim I had ever seen and she said it was the most intense and best she'd ever had. Now the next time we did it I got her really hot and she was doggie style given me a Bj when I started putting my fist in her, I got it in with a little help from her pushing back. But this time she started moving ony fist so I started moving my fist in and out more and more till I was taking it out of her and going back in her she was going crazy bucking her hips almost breaking my wrist (and almost biting of my dick) then she let out a scream and slammed herself back taking about 9" of my forearm + she swallowed all of my cock which sente cuming more then I think I've ever c before, and she just keeped cuming until she collapsed with my fist still in her. I took about 2-3 min to gety hand back BC she had clamped down so hard on it and it was going numb, after I got out of her we kissed and she told me that that was the best sex she had ever had and we feel asleep holding each other. But ever since then I haven't been able to get her to do it again and I don't know why all she says is she doesn't want to get loose and I'm like you weren't loose the last time we did it and you said it was the best sex ever, she just smiles and says maybe someday. So any in site on why she doesn't want the best sex of her life again? I want that kind of blow job again BC it was so intense and when she came up from sucking me she had cum running out of her mouth it was HOT.

Hammertimeu, I suspect she wants to savor what you did. She probably thinks, and she may be right, that there is no way to top what you both accomplished. If she has popped out three kids, I doubt she needs to worry about getting stretched out from your fist. Unless your fist is bigger than a baby's head.

I have had girlfriends try on mt but they can only get four fingers in before it hurts me. I know for sure it wont work in my back door.

Hi quincy, I do understand what you mean but we will never know until we try. We now have 7 children and she is tight enough to makee sore if she wants to Lol. I just want to make her happy amd me to.

Hammertimeu, Sir, you must be doing something right. If she's had seven little ones with you and is still tight enough to make sore, then you are in high cotton. If a fist makes her happy, then by all means give it to her. If she doesn't want it, fine and dandy. Do what she wants and you will both be happy. My wife wants no part of anal. I'm fine with that and in thirty years we haven't done anything anal. She's happy, I'm happy. And by the way, I can't get more than three fingers in, much less a fist, and I have small hands.

Any advice for a man with normal size hands getting into a pussy of a middle age woman who never had kids and where bones are an impediment. She wants to be fisted but damn that hole is small!!

@DoctorP I'd suggest take your time - I means months, years - and make it more about the journey than the destination. You/she may never get there and you and she need to be ok with that. Have fun gradually trying and in a loving and tender way. Just don't measure success just by whether you get your hand in, make it more about the fun you have along the way.

I've never fisted a woman, but came close once, I think. She was a mother of two and I'd been working her over for a good 45 mins with my mouth on her clit, right hand fingers in her pussy, and left fingers in her ass. Judging by all the moaning, bucking, and squirming, she was definitely enjoying what I was doing and as she got more and more relaxed I naturally kept adding more and more fingers on each hand. I was up to 3 on the left and all 5 knuckles on the right when she suddenly became aware of what was happening and wanted to do something else.

I was not trying to get my hand into her vagina and merely kept going because it seemed fun for both of us, but if she'd wanted to do that I certainly would've been happy to oblige.

I'm not sure what would've happened if she hadn't stopped me.

I am going to repeat what I said here about eight years ago on this topic.

Don't spend one second being sad about not being about to fist your wife and she shouldn't be unhappy either. My husband can't fist me either. He wears a size 14 ring and size 9 gloves. I have been fisted by a couple of women with small hands and it is fun, but not worth getting upset over. There are so many other things a man and woman can do.

Don't let anyone tell you you should be able to do it. That's bullshit. And don't fall for the line that a fist is smaller than a baby. I had two 7 and a half pound baby girls three years apart, I still can't be fisted on a regular basis (by women with small hands). When you are near the end of a pregnancy there are hormones that allow you to be stretched that far that are not present at other times. Don't believe the bullshit that men say that they were able to fist many different women and it wasn't hard to do. Those men are LIARS and just want you to believe they are something special, that they can manipulate a woman's internal organs to do things they weren't meant to do. Don't let anybody injure you either. I could go on, but I think you get the message.

Besides, you'll have intercourse frequently, get fisted very rarely. Most important, men think it's nice to have a tight pussy! I think so too.

As usual Susie, you are blunt, to the point, and have a very high probably of being spot on.

Vaginas come in many different sizes and so do hands. Be smart.

And your point about everyone wanting a 'snug' vagina is a good one and well taken.