Stretching your anus...

I have been stretching my anus for many years. I have several toys I use to stretch myself. I always take several enemas to make sure I am really cleaned-out. I start with a smaller toy and work my way up to my favorite buttplug. It has a maximum diameter of 3 1/2". It takes a good hour for me to work it into my rectum. I have to concentrate on the sensations coming from my sphincters as they gradually relax and allow the plug to enter. I keep constant pressure on the plug and just wait for my sphincters to relax and then the plug slides right into my rectum. The feeling of the plug as it passed the inner sphincter is incredible. Once I am loose, I repeatedly pull the plug out and reinsert it. The feeling of it going in is just fantastic. I have no issues with leakage. My anus usually returns to normal after seveal hours.

I just got my Doc Johnson Gum Drop, which is a 9" circumference, which i was never able to insert, but i got it in successfully today, and let it rest for about 15 minutes. But after a day or 2 my anus is fully healed. When Taking the plug out i realized, i could feel it stretching the sphincter beyond believe! A couple of times i tried to hold my sphincter shut on the widest part of the plug for 30 seconds. And take it out. Good Training. I did however have a fissure before, which felt like my tail bone hurt for a week, but nothing like the Poster below stated. You cant just go balls to the wall, it takes about an hour or 2 to make big things happen.

An aubergine provides a good and filling feeling.

I use a plunger (not the end that goes in the toilet, no) to stretch my anus. It feels REALLY good.

I had a hemorrhoidectomy back in 1986, which, as most of these operations go, didn't turn out to be such a huge success. And the surgeon in his wisdom decided to "close me up" a little too much, so I had an extremely tight anal opening afterwards. Which, of course, led to recurring hemo's due to overstraining in the years thereafter.

Anyhow, to cut a long tale short, I discovered anal dilation a decade ago, and apart from the fun side of it, sorted out my problem for once and for all. I manage 2 inches diameter on a regular basis (cucumber is good), no more hemo's getting caught in a strangulating overtight sphincter muscle, and my hemo's have all but shrivelled away. No incontinence, my sphincter muscle is as strong as ever (though more stretchable and supple) and the feeling of dilation is heavenly. I'm not gay, in fact I'm as straight as they come, but think that most straight men only need a single good anal experience to realize what an erogenous friend we have in our back passage! 😁

You can try a pool noodle with a condom on it, I use the extra large condom and lots of lube, the noodle is soft yet very filling plus you can really cram it in there once you have loosend up some, good fun and there are several different sizes to try.

@flburst58 That's really interesting about the hemos. I'm not super into stretching , myself, but I have tried a toy that I think is similar to the inflation nozzles, but it isn't a nozzle. It's a dildo that inflates with a bulb like a blood pressure cuff has and you squeeze it and fill it with air and can very slowly make it bigger and bigger so your body can adjust etc.

In 2007 Fidel Castro was reported to have been fitted with an artificial anus because of an intestinal infection. But a few of us ancients remember rumors that he had control problems years before that due to homoerotic pursuits.

A cautionary tale. Dilation may cause later problems or it may turn you into a tyrant. Neither is pleasant to have around the house.

Stretching seems dangerous to me. I don't want anything going in my ass any bigger than what comes out naturally.

I have long fantasized about using a nice, long zucchini with my lady friends-enemamates. About to get the chance, I think. Met a lady here who wants thorough exams, a series of large enemas with various nozzles and the anal play. I'm stoked, to say the least. . . . .

Dilation may cause later problems or it may turn you into a tyrant. Neither is pleasant to have around the house.

?? This is something I don´t understand. I thought that being a tight-assed asshole was something related to an unpleasant domineering personality ... Is somebody mixing metaphors or what?

Joe bagman,

What comes out 'normally' may need a little careful examination. I got into stretching through an incident in my late teens involving trauma and dehydration that left me totally constipated for two whole weeks. When my bowels finally plucked up courage to move again, I could not expel the resulting turd at all. It was simply too big to fit through my (unstretched) anus. I had to dig it out piece by small piece with a teaspoon (it was too hard to dig a finger into!) until finally the diameter of the remaining turd was small enough to be forced out. I was on a remote mining site - no pharmacy or doctor within miles and no transport either. I just had to get on and survive.

What finally helped was taking an enema the hard way. I had no equipment at all and the communal ablution block had no mixer taps. But it was summer and hot, so the water was not very cold. I ay down in a tub, scooted my bum up under a tap and jammed it against the opening so the water was forced in. It worked; there was no damage to my tight sphincters, but I did get terrible haemhorroids from the constricted veins in my tightly stretched anus while trying to expel the monster turd.

Normal? Not really, but it made me think! It hurt to stretch that much (almost 3 inches diameter - I looked in a mirror) but it was erotic, too. I had no time to stretch my hole slowly, over weeks: I felt too horribly stuffed to take things leisurely! But what if I had? The haemhorroids persisted for more than a decade until I DID begin to stretch my anus (with semi-solid enemas). That was forty years ago and I haven't had haemhorroids ever again.

Now I claim no medical credentials: if you want to do this, you take responsibility. But hey, I don't have piles any more. Just saying.

Johnny

I am very much in ass stretching since years. Most of the time I use plastic soda bottles of different sizes. I enjoy very much the small thick bottles because they enter completely in my ass.

Another play is using candles, adding little by little one candle at a time. My record is having ten candles in my ass. I am considering to make a video of this. If anybody is interested, let me know!

Rgds,

Rodin

The largest dildo I have been able to get into me was Doc Johson's Hung.. Now that was filling.. After an hours play I needed to wear pull ups so as not to leak on everything. chuckle

Hi - I've been stretching my ass for years.

When I was younger like 11/12 my baby sitter and her girl friend would use me to experiment with. From, sex, blow jobs, me performing on them... then one licked my ass for the longest time. it felt amazing!

When I was by myself I started with things that most of you have all mentioned to insert. As I got older and of course watched porn, I wanted to go big. I started with dog kongs. with the super soft and small ones and now I am all the way up to the XL. I love the feeling of being stretched and filled. I can say, I don't have any prolapse and I can hold an enema. As time went on from me stretching and keeping these inside me longer and longer. The soreness I use to have the following day (it was really sore) keeps getting less and less. I stretched yesterday and feel great today! Just take your time cleaning out, use tons of lube the more the better. Too much, is not true! once I get started its like my hole knows to just open right up and when it slides inside... it feel amazing.

My take, and again. this is just my take. I think the reason these toys do not get stuck in my ass is because they have a hole in the tip and the base. It allows air to flow through it, not allowing any suction. I can easily insert them, and push them out, sit on it and it just slides back in. As I was with each kong I moved to, I am at the point where I am looking for a bigger kong.

Another great way to stretch, is a pool noodle. Lots of lube, I cut a butt plug length and taper the inserting end. I slowly take it inside. Once fully inside me, I can feel it stretch me... I hold it as long as I possible can. Same thing with my super butt plug. I will wear it for about 5 to 6 hours. It's so big and after that time frame I get sore from the pressure on my prostate. Smaller plugs I can wear for a super long time however, they slip out easy. Yes, you can say I have a loose ass, but I can keep what needs to be kept in in. AND allow what I want inside it, in... I want to take bigger objects. Soda cans are easy, apples are easy body wash containers are fun... I have found that the softer and bigger the better.... So start buying those toys and have fun!

This has always been one of my biggest interests. I'd been trying to fist myself since my early teens. When I finally got some real toys in my early 20s, I spent so much time just stretching on plugs until I could finally take them, even if it hurt a little. I've found far more toys since then - bigger plugs, a massive toy that looks almost like a traffic cone. Pushing myself down on something big, forcing something huge inside me, it's a rush and it makes my whole body feel energized and relaxed.

I don't do much stretching, very often, but once in a while I get the urge and use a punch balloon to accomplish the deed. For me, the best way is to do several cleanouts and using 1/2 tubing with the balloon taped to it, attach it to my 4 qt. bag, hang it high, and let the very warm water fill and stretch to the point of comfort, and just lay there in the tub, relaxing. Of course, there are several other manual activities you can enjoy at the same time, while filling the balloon to your limit.😃

You do need to be careful because they have had torn rectums from balloon nozzles. Play safe and know your limits, but don't panic.

We always want more. Bigger is better. We strive to improve and associate success with doing more than we did in the past.

I am influenced by these psychological factors just like everybody else and do want to put larger toys/dildos up my ass. But apart from what we want psychologically our bodies ultimately have the last say in everything we want to do to it.

If you have the ability to insert large objects without much practice you are in a relatively small group. Most of us will need to slowly and over a period of time use progressively larger objects in terms of width to be able to work up to wider insertions.

So be consistent and patient with your practice and of course use lots of lube.

Hi,

the anus should not be overstretched. The muscle can be damaged. Ok, who's diaper lover, it does not really matter.

regards

Neptun

I am now able to insert a 3.5" diameter butt plug in first thing in the morning now without trouble. A little lube and it slides right in in seconds. I am looking to try a 3.75" wide plug if I can find one. I took my Doc Johnson TitanMen Ass Servant 3.75" diameter and removed the cover making it 3.5" diameter and softer and more flexible. I need a dildo with a better material than PVC. I did the same to my Doc Johnson TitanMen Master Servant which is now 4.3" wide and I am trying my best to work up to that.. LOL

I've just been using dildos for the most part over the years. I have an 8.5" x 2.375" dildo, a 17" (13.5" insertable) x 2.5" dildo, and a 9.5" x 2.75" dildo that I use to get a good stretch. I've only used a cucumber once. It was great putting it fully in my ass. We rarely eat cucumbers at home so I'd have a difficult time explaining to my wife why I have one in the refrigerator. I will be looking to get something with a 3" diameter by the end of the summer. I love a good stretch.

Original intent of my enema was foreplay to clean out for subsequent anal play. So anal expansion was one of the essences that cannot be avoided.

My anus became to accept 87 mm diameter (10.8 inches circumference) dildo and even my own fist over time. Since it seemed to have reached to the limit in width, and enema itself became the most favorable play among various plays, my intention to expand the anus got cooled down. But recently, I have been trying to fist myself again as I would like to recall the feeling of “my own fist nozzle". I think that the anal width is still wide enough. But lost body flexibility makes it hard to reproduce swallowing my fist upto the wrist.

I use a speculum. It gives you more control on how wide you want to be stretched.

Not sure it is a good idea to try and alter that area but hey if it works for you. I am too scared

I have been using dildos and up to about 2 inch diameter. Inflatable plugs I have gotten up to about the size of a grapefruit or large orange.

I did manage to be fisted a couple of times.

All after a few enemas of course.

I have used bottles, dildos, cucumbers. What ever. For a really good stretch, I like a large eggplant. A fist works too.

I love the stretch also. Over many years, I've used enema nozzles, then catheters wth balloons then anal plugs then larger anal plugs. I'm only up to about 2.25-2.5" diameter silicone or metal plugs now after 50+ years of experimenting, but larger causes too much pain and I'm very happy with what I have. I do enjoy quite large enemas up to 4-4.5-5 quarts but that's with a 2.25" nozzle or rubber DB Catheter inflated in me, not a huge plug. Anal dilation is stimulating and delightfully erotic, but the right size to stimulate but not injure is important. I get a heck of a stretching feeling from what I have now. Delightful and very helpful with orgasms. Thank you, Lord for a healthy happy stretchable sphincter.

Eric

I love the feeling of stretching but I also love the feeling of depth. I have a nozzle that is very wide I think 3" at its widest point. I like the feeling of being stretched while to goes in and it stays in well for retention most times. I also have a 17" Doc Johnson 2.5 inch wide dildo that I sit on and get the whole thing inside and that one feels amazing as it is both long and wide. I have a 39" colon tube that is 90 FR and stretches me out inside.

Currently I'm at the 3" mark with a king cock chubby dildo and a large 3" dia butt plug. Although, now I'm curious and actively looking for something a little larger. I don't think I want to purchase any more toys per se, but I'm looking around the house for items that I can use. I do have two shampoo bottles that look ideal, and they are measuring in at about 3.5" in diameter. The only problem is I think that's a big jump from the 3" mark. I also may just venture out to the market and try and eyeball a large butternut squash. 😃