I want want my gf to fist me, but I don't want to ask her explicitely. Any ideas?
I would love to be fisted. I love big toys. I have taken dildos up to 3" diameter. I really want to feel a fist stretching me,moving in and out.
I would love to find a woman who would stretch me and fist me!
Gently lick her ass. use your fingers, use lube it will take awhile but the goal is to get ass play in her head and get her to accept that it is a source of pleasure for women AND men. Once she is into the anal, she'll be far more receptive to you getting it and fisting you. It is a slow process (or it could be a fast one) but it all depends on how open she is, if she's ever played with or had someone play with her ass and how she felt about the experience.
Go slow, and LUBE LUBE LUBE!!!!
I have wanted to be vaginally fisted. My girlfriend is more than willing. What should we do ? Is it a process of a number times. What should expect while in me ? Is there a good technique to have her enter me?
Couple of things:
First, be honest.
Second be clean.
(Shower shot is wonderful
to cleanout just the rectum)
Third, let her know how special she
is to you and much you respect her.
( that whole, "will he respect me if..." )
Last and Have fun! It may be the most
intense thing you ever experiance but....
In the heat of passion, usually with manual coupling, the senses will provoke extreme reactions. Urging your partner to rub some lubricant on your, and then in your, anus with her fingers while you're doing the same to her(front or rear), will get the ball rolling. Hot torrid passion is the key word the first few times. Tell her how hot its making you feel and how you want more of her in you, but be careful not to put too much of your hand into her unless she begs you to. When you get to the time you're ready for her hand (shaped to a prism for the insertion) tell her that will be like her cumming inside of you) This works well in a sixty-nine position atop or on your sides and combines well with oral sex also. It may take several different episodes before she is convinced that this is the best way to have sex so she will repeat this performance with you.
Get her to stick a finger in your ass and see how she responds and go from there :)
You could try describing how the anus is a centre of multiple nerve endings and a source of great pleasure which may be interesting to experience, maybe she would too? A prostate orgasm is meant to be hugely satisfying for a man, so maybe after giving her multiple orgasms you could ask if she would like to try do the same for you.
Fisting must be one of the most intimate,intense and extreme acts with some of the most powerful orgasms experienced, hopefully she would love to see if she can turn you into a quivering lump of jelly.
If you can find some tasteful clips (especially homemade) to show her, she may find that fisting although extreme is a 'normal' activity enjoyed by many and that she might want to try it. My wife gets very wet when fisting me, and when she's sitting on her magic wand has more orgasms than I do... ;D
There are a number of resources in fistforum.com which might help or be of interest to you.
Good luck :)
You know her better than us ludo. Best of luck with whatever approach you use.
I think the best is really to gently coerce her.
Let us know how it goes.
Speed is right.
The direct honest approach is what you need. Be clear in your request and be prepared to give instructions and to gently coerce her if she is a fisting virgin. She might not want to honor your request for any number of reasons from fear to being grossed out, which may be completely legitimate in her mind.
This is one of those things where an honest and direct approach is usually the best way to present your desire. My dear wife just sort of rolled her eyes and told me to get cleaned out. She lubed her hand and started working on me.
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