Even if nothing else happens, I love giving women enemas. I love everything about women's butts, and enemas are awfully butt-centric. Men's butts just don't do it for me so neither does the idea of giving another man an enema. On the other hand, I enjoy getting the occasional enema as well. And, there's just no reason a good and through lube wouldn't be exquisite regardless of the gender of the fingers. And, the insertion of the nozzle is the same sensation regardless of who is holding it. And, while certainly I'd prefer the softer coo of a woman saying "we're almost done; you can do it", having someone else actively dictating how much you're going to take and how long you're going to hold it is hot, hot, hot regardless of genders!