Straight guys doing other guys

Have any of you straight guys (I am one) given or received enemas from other straight guys? I believe straight females do it to each other. Just Curious

I occasional fantasise of enema play with a male sub but doubt i would.

Since my wife will have nothing to do with enemas, I have thought about doing it with another guy, and if the right situation and guy were available, I think I would enjoy doing it with him. I actually would enjoy meeting someone in my area to give/receive enemas on a regular basis.

I'm bi, in my 60's. I've given to, and received from, both genders. The degeree of enjoyment and excitement always seemed to be more a function of the personality and attitude of my partner rather than whether they were male or female. Guys tend to be more matter-of-fact and serious about it, in my experience. The sexual aspect IMHO is more overt with a female partner. Erections happen sometimes with guys, but always with women. I never regarded an enema with another guy as a gay thing per se. even if there was some form of sexual release afterwards. I grew up at a time when nudity among males was OK, such as skinny-dipping at the Y or summer camp, or showering together after gym class at school or in my college dorm, or in the pool house after swimming at a friend's house. With women, enemas have always been sexual to me, given the degree of undress that's required, and the intimacy of the touches that are involved.

I am primerally straight, I have had male partners, for one night stands only, but I do consider myself a switch. I can be a top or a bottom, I enjoy sex with either males or females. I have recivied and given enemas to men and women. I don't feel it makes any difference if it is a women or a man who gives you an enema, as long as the giver pays attention to the receiver, and makes sure the enema experience is good for them it doesn't make any difference who gives you an enema. As for sex afterwards I still prefer women.

I can now say that I am bi, but it was not until I was about 32 did I actually have a sexual encouter with a man, prior to that my enema play was from females (had to pay for the privilege) Later I had an enema from a male who was straight but enjoyed giving enemas so he was happy and he did have a very good technique. I have had a gay enema friend for the last 15 years and when we get together we really have a good time. Usually try to stay for a whole day doing enemas and anal stimulation, that does leave you entirely washed out both physically and internally.

I do most of my enemas solo. My wife is anti-enema. If I had an enema partner I would have a guy, as I would feel I am cheating on my wife if a woman gave the enema to me.

Jagson

I have given and received enemas from male partners. I don't consider myself gay for doing it. It is the feeling of the enema that counts.

You often hear about "double standards" between men and women, such as a guy who get's lucky regularly is a stud, while a woman might be called a slut.

This is one area I think there is a bit of reverse discrimination. Traditionally, women have been more demostrative of affection to one-another, and it's no secret that guys enjoy watching/participating with two females.

But there's a much greater stigma attached for males getting together sexually.

I once read that we are all bi-sexual, our sexuality is not black and white, but shades of grey. It's what we're taught as we're raised, religious beliefs, and how well we control urges that decide whether we'll act on it or not. In fact, the article said that those of use who are most outwardly homophobic are the most likely to have a great fear of our own homosexual tendancies.

I was very homphobic as a teenager, and have become much more open minded as I've matured. While I haven't had the occasion, I wouldn't dismiss it in the right circumstances, and I sure don't hold anyone's sexual orientation against them.

About 20 years ago, I was seeing a girl and turned her on to enemas, and she loved them. She had a gay male friend, and when he heard this, he tried very hard to arrange getting together with me, or the two of us. At the time I demured, but have often wondered what that would have been like.

Am a straight older bolder long time gentleman of the bag.....have read about females/females doing enemas...and now seems like more guys/guys doing same..just think out loud...wonder what it might be like to try the m/m....how does one go about making such a 'different connection'....and being sooo very discrete of course...would need alot of 'education on this possibility'..... ???

Unless the scene is for sex latter, I think I could handle a straight male giving me one. I don't have any hangups with straight men. I have been to bed with a few that claimed to be straight, but I suspect that with Kinsey's scale, it is more of a "bell curve". That is to say, 1 being totally hetero and 6 being totally homo, there are fewer at the extremes and a majority clustering in the middle.

R

Over my dead body.As I said in other posts, enema means sex to me.

I think there are numerous "qualifications" to the question, Geo. I consider myself to be hetero and most of my enema play has been solo. Since i use enemas as a sexual "crutch" for the most part, i have done enemas with other guys on rare occasion. It really depends on your viewpoint. I'm basically a "taker" and don't really like to give for a variety of reasons so this may sound a little lopsided. I think there is a distinction between enemas strictly for "fun" and using enemas during foreplay in a M/F relationship. Each situation being quite different. Since i have never done enemas with a female, i can't speak to that. M2M enemas, on the other hand,

is another matter. Long story short, where the objective of a partnered enema session is simply to "get off", it works if both parties find it agreeable. Does that make sense?

As a bi male, I would enjoy it if Jane or John slipped the nozzle in me. My wife and I always used enemas as a prelude to anal sex and a former long term male sex partner and I gave each other a Fleet or two for the same reason. Now I have learned to enjoy enemas for themselves, not just as a preparation for anal sex. And now it's somewhat of a ritual with hoses, nozzles, shower attachments etc., not just Fleets.

As A gay guy I find the fantasy of doing a straight guy just as erotic as a gay guy. In saying that, I think it less likely to happen with a straight guy. they are far more rententive (pardon pun) about male on male stuff.

Sorry to butt into the guys locker room, 😮 😁 but I still think it is totally HOT to think about watching guys with other guys, whether enemas or sex, gay or straight, it is a fantasy of mine. But, I totally understand the guys' viewpoint who would never allow that, as that is exactly how I feel about it concerning other women. YECK!

I'm a gay male, and have only received/given enemas to other gay men. I would LOVE to meet a straight guy for enema play - just to see how it compares.

Just curious. But why would doing an enema with a guy make it any less guilty for you?

Like I posted in another area, I have given straight guys enemas. I think a guy is sensitive to the needs and anatomy of another guy and could provide a great deal of assistance as well as bonding with another guy. I know what I like and would be able to provide that to another man.

I am straight and love women and do not find men attractive.

But I have thought about having enemas with another man. I think it would be great and have often fantazied about it , never had the nerve to go through with it yet.

I have watched will guys get enemas but I would perfer that girls give and receive from me.

Ok....as a straight male...and thinking maybe a m/m enema first time experience....how do you go about making that "connection." do an ad here? would like to hear further comments and experiences. thks.

I have always had enemas by females,and after 55yrs,it aint gonna change now.Let the good times FLOW

Why are people so homophobic? the anus has no gender, everyone has one....as for me i have been mystified by the female since, well lets just say a long time....its the pheromones i guess...while i identify as hetrosexual male i have given enemas and explored anal pleasure with both genders

I would not share enemas or sex with another male, and I have had the chance of doing this, but refused the opportunity each time. Sorry but I am straight male. I do like men as very good friends but not in bed 😃 redrub

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Like I posted in another area, I have given straight guys enemas. I think a guy is sensitive to the needs and anatomy of another guy and could provide a great deal of assistance as well as bonding with another guy. I know what I like and would be able to provide that to another man.

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Are you saying you have never played with their genitals or given a prostate massage in conjunction with the enema?

RE: Jagson..... I agree with you, I know those guys are out there, ..........

I think nothing is more pleasurable than getting an enema or two from another male, whether they be straight or gay. A man knows what to do to make another man happy. I have given and received enemas from both straight and gay men and every time was a wonderful experience for both parties. I prefer doing it with a man, whether they are straight or gay.

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I think nothing is more pleasurable than getting an enema or two from another male, whether they be straight or gay. A man knows what to do to make another man happy. I have given and received enemas from both straight and gay men and every time was a wonderful experience for both parties. I prefer doing it with a man, whether they are straight or gay.

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Define "a man knows what to do to make another man happy."

That just sounds sexual to me.

Haven't done this, but I'm open to the idea.