Tips on pussy spanking~ @Turkey. Not sure I remember how I learned I liked it, but I do like being spanking and bdsm. I also enjoy watching bdsm porn and most probably picked it up from there.
Spanking pussy and clit must be done slowly, start with the lips, DO NOT go directly to an unaroused clit. Men don't seem to spend enough time in the mound and lips area, although...not saying you guys don't, ;- ).
Does she like her bum spanked? Or light slaps on her ass? Do you tie her up and spread her? If you already do some of this, then it might be easier to introduce pussy spanking. If she does NOT like bum spanks it might be difficult to introduce ps. If you do spank her bum, you might already have a small flogger or could make a small crop using soft pieces of leather and a dowel. Again, you don't want anything too hard or stiff.
There are some Mild ps videos on the web, you probably don't want to start her off on a real rough video. I will look
for a nice video, even better still, women like to read dirty stories. You could look for a story that has ps in it.
Important~ you must plant the seed.
This process might take some time, a couple of months or more, a year, but the wait for you both is worth it.
Slowly and gently. I would rub the lip area and tap gently with a couple, few fingers, get her used to slight impact. You don't want to really hurt nor damage any delicate tissue.
Take a look at this video.
After you watch the massage video on the link below, notice how she really rubs the area. I would start paying a lot of attention to the area around her crotch. You are trying to engorge her lips before you start tapping.
1 Stories or videos to plant the seed.
2. Bum spanking
1 Rub the area to stimulate and engorge the lips, area.
2 Tap lightly with fingers tips, read her reaction
3. use light slaps, fingers hand tawse
Good luck, keep me posted if your progress: ~)