Your age the last time a parent was with you for an exam

My sister and I shared a Jack & Jill bathroom as kids. Nudity was an everyday occurence, and my sister and I bathed or showered together well into our teens. Our mother would always chaperone the bath, help us dry, and apply lotion. For me, she would also skin back my prepuce to make sure I was clean under the foreskin. I never really thought it was any big deal, her touching my penis. I did have an occassional erection, which my mother described as a totally natural occurence. In retrospect, it was a healthy upbringing with no ill effects. I can't imagine any young boy growing up without his mother touching his penis at one time or another.

Steve 75752, Totally agree all women need daily gyno exams... TOTALLY AGREE !!

Yes, mom was present all throughout my teen years. I didn't have complete physicals as described here, but every doctor's visit I ever had up to age 18 ended with a shot in the bottom, with mom sitting right there. Wasn't a big deal, I think modern society is a little backwards. It should be more embarrassing to be nude in front of a stranger than a mother who has seen it all countless times.

My mother wos only in the room twice when i had my compulsory school medicals at 5and 11 year old at the later ones it wos me on my own, when my mother wos there it felt more embarrasing some how

My mom went into the exam room with me until my yearly exam when I was in 8th grade when I asked if I could go alone. She agreed with the agreement that she could talk to the doctor afterwards to discuss anything he might have found wrong.

Depending upon which doctor at the practice I saw and how he decided to do the exam that visit, it could be pretty embarrassing with her there for the genital/hernia exam.

The doctors would do that exam with me either laying on my back on the table or standing up, with the doctor standing behind me.

One was very respectful of my modesty -- he even came off as a bit timid. If I was laying down, he'd lower the waistband of my underwear only as far as he needed to in order to feel my inguinal area. He was usually even able to keep the head of my penis covered up throughout. If I was standing, he'd face me to the side so my mom saw a profile view of me. This was somewhat embarrassing if I had an erection (which was the case more often than not in the doctor's office) because it was very evident, but he'd only pull my waistband out -- not down -- enough to get his hand in to feel as he asked me to cough.

The other doctor almost made it a point to put me on display. When he'd do the exam with me laying down, he'd pull the front of my underwear down all the way to check for a hernia and to check my testicles. When he'd do the exam with me standing, he'd have my stand facing my mom, he stood behind me, and pulled the front of my underwear down. As a kid I thought it was because there was some rule that only parents could look and doctors could only touch (that doesn't make any sense!). He'd reach around and make me cough or "tighten up" as well as feel my testicles, and it was over rather quickly, but it felt like an eternity at the time.

My mother was often called around the modesty curtain in the physical exams that I received during the monitoring of my bedwetting. I was fifteen at the last exam that she saw me in. In the early years it didn't bother me but once puberty had begun and I found it very embarrassing. I had skin problems with rashes around my bottom, anus, pubic area and thighs. Having my mother see my genitals was bad enough but I usually got hard whilst the doctor was examining my penis making it even more embarrassing.

I think the last time my mom was in exam room with me was when i was 11... I REALLY hated her being there, I was so embarrassed. But now, I'd like a fantasy exam with a mommy or daddy being present with the doctor there, and seeing me naked and helpless and exposed like that.

My history of exams does not include many exams except one routine exame in high school, the military entrance exam and others for employment. The high school exam included the drop the shorts and cough. Was done by a female nurse from a local doctors office. Embarassing, but quick. Never had any thoughts regarding the sexual possibilities, what with me being under age and all. Military exam was similar, but done by a male doctor, while I was in a line of around 10 recruits. Same procedure as the school exam. Don't remember much about the work physicals, so guess they were similar and nothing out of the ordinary. After I retired from my primary work, I started driving charter motor coaches, which requires a physical every 2 years. Nothing unusual. All done by a male doctor or NP. Then recently I was diagnosed with a very low, somewhat docile case of prostate cancer. I was sent to the urologist for tests and exam. Wound up with a female NP who did a VERY thorough exam of everything. She did a very extensive exam of my testicles, lasting over 10 minutes. Then she cradled my flacid penis while doing a complete exam of it. Pulling the foreskin back and looking at every inch of the glans, turning it over and checking the frenulum. She commented on how soft the glans covering is, and that the color was perfect. As she rolled the foreskin back over the glans, she said just over a whisper, 'NICE'. I was so surprised, I was afraid to question what that meant. Still kicking myself for that failed opportunity.

I had always my mother present during the exam until i reached puberty at about 12 years old. when i puberty started, my genitals started to grew and i developed pubic hair, my father started to accompany me to the doctor. my last exam with him present was few months before i turned 18.

My mom was my doctor, so go figure. Was sometimes embarrassing, but she treated me just like she would any of her other patients. I still go to her for minor general practitioner needs (cold, flu, etc.)

When it was time to undress, the doctor always examined me privately. Shots were another matter. Mom was always in the room when I got a shot.

For the most part, my Father took me to my physical exams beginning at age 13. My mother took me to a sick visit when I was 15 that ended up with a genital exam and then my physical before my senior year of high school.

I had a male doctor and even before knowing that I was gay, I always liked being in the exam with the male doctor - but always felt as though Mom was ruining it by being there. I would have much preferred as I got older for just me and the doctor to have time together as he would give plenty of time to my testicles, asking about sex (as I got older), and checking everything out. He was never inappropriate, but mom = awkward.

My mother was always in the exam room with me up until I was about 12...then she began to let me have some privacy during my exams.

My mother was in the room with me until i was about 13 or 14 and it was never a big deal...im sure she saw some embarrassing parts but none that i remember that clearly...only once when i was 19 she was in the room with me to get a special test done and it required a shot in the butt...i remember being very embarrassed pulling my shirt up and my pants at my knees lying on the table but i got over it quickly...after the initial shock of being semi-naked it wasnt that bad...she has seen me naked by accident once or twice since and she ended up seeing alot more than she did at the Dr that day...

Most Doc's I know have no problem with parents being in the room during a physical. They tend to remember history much better than the patient. That being said, it would be unusual in my part of the country for a Doc not to ask the parent to leave during a genital exam. The reason is two fold: it provides the teen with privacy and it allows you to elicit more candid responses to behaviors that the teen may be engaging is but does not want parent to know about.

My Mom and Dad both have been in the exam room with me. My mom would go with me to my psyicals until I was in highschool. She would hold on to my clothes and talk to the doc while I was getting examined.

Mostly, my mom took me to all exams by doctors until I was 18: to the paediatrician, to the dermatologist and to the clinic, in which I got regular exams by another paediatric doctor and a gastroenterologist (which took nearly the whole day). She normally stayed in the exam rooms and talked to the doctors during the exams, too, what I found in some cases embarrassing: But the most thing I was angry about, was, that she and the doctors had the same opinions mostly. Only at our yearly school exams, I was without her.

I wanted to say. I am a guy who was sexually abused by women until I was 13yrs old. The abusers were female family members. It was my mother, her sister my annt who is only 3yrs older than me, and female cousin who is same age as my mother. I have been tramatized by this even to this day. I have been seekiing phycological counceling for this. And, it is extremely difficult to deal with still. At teenage years I would have never wanted a female present in the room especially a mother during physical or intimate exams of any kind. The sexual abuse I received stopped at 13yrs because my parents divorce, and my father got custody of me. I had lots of health problems growing up and my fathers parents, my grandmother and grandfather raised me. My grandmother is a nurse, and has helped me through this. This abuse has caused problems with relationships with women for years. I was almost married twice, but just didnt workout for me. Now, I am not against women Doctors, nurses or moms. But, why unless your son was comfortable with you in exam room, would you go in? My grandmother bless her heart always respected my privacy and dignity always. She never seen me naked as teenager, she would have if I needed her to, but didnt. If I needed parent or guardian, my dad, grandfather, or uncle would go in with me. Single mom could find some male chapperon to go in with her son. Would a father go into exam room with teenage daughter? In most cases I would think not, unless she to was comfortable with it. I have had problems as an adult. I had to have spinal cord surgery when I was in my early 31yrs old, and yes I invited my grandmother in the room for pre op physical examination by female nurse practioner. I was completely comfortable with my grandmother in there with me then, because is a nurse and could help me understand what nurse practioner was saying. The difference is because I asked her to come in. With my mother, I never had relationship with her or even talked to her after that. She died in 1995. If moms are not careful, they could litteraly distroy a mother son relationship for rest of their lives. I believe parents should have open dialog with their children and perhaps be open with them from time their born, thru child hood even into adult years. No we shouldnt be ashmed of our bodies, nothing secret. We should have respect for each others gender. Thanks I hope I dont rube anyone wrong by saying this? I hope I can get some response on this? Please, excuse grammer and spelling?

Unclebda,

Thank you for you corageous post, what happened was completely wrong. I agree that children should have their privacy and views respected. Unfortunetely, it seems that the medical profession seem to think that until you reach the age of 16 (at least here in the UK), you are unable to make those decisions for yourself and a parent has to be present and make them for you - or at least agree to your wishes. As traditionally, mothers have been the parent that looks after children, and non-emergency medical approntments are during the day, they always end up taking the child. Thankfully, fathers are now able to have more responsibility looking after their children. I've heard male friends report doctors being surprised when they've taken their child to the doctors, so it seems the expectation that mothers take full responsibility for children's health still exists!

My mom stopped coming into the room with me when I had my first physical for school sports at age 14. The doctor said he was going to do a hernia and rectal exam and she said I'll wait outside in the hall.

Until i was 17 at least.

The staff asked parents to wait in the lobby after patients were of puberty age which was 12-13 years old or so. This was for everyone I knew, male or female and at clinics now unless there was something out of the ordinary. Took your clothes off either way though but at puberty there was more time spent on genitals though.

Having your mother in the exam room is not all that uncommon. In my opinion, mothers are concerned and interested in there childs growth, especially in the males. I think the curiosity of a mother wants to know if there son is developing normally and this is the chance for them to see what is going on.

For me I came from a home that my mother was very domineering. She believed and trusted what the doctor told her and advised her to do. Whatever the doctor and my mother spoke about in private, I will never know...but what I do know and what I understand, she allowed or the doctor convinced her to place me in some "study" puberty growth & development study....I'm not sure 100% but I do remember them talking and I overheard him say things about my development to my mother. I wasn't in the room and was waiting outside but I was able to overhear some stuff they were chatting about. I also remember the doctor giving my mother some brochures to read about boys turning into teens and puberty...it was about 3-4 brochures.

This all happen when I was turning 12 and ever since then I was no longer to wear pajamas to around the house or to sleep. I remember one day my mother bought two packages of brand new hanes tighty whities brief undies and she told me that I'm getting older and out growing pajamas and that I have to start wearing undies around the house and to bed. I remember crying and being upset about this...but she took away my pajamas and at the age at 12.5 to 18 years old...I was to wear brief undies around the house and to bed. If it was cold, I was able to wear a t-shirt and the undies.

I was inspected weekly, my undies checked for cum stains and my doctor visits were every 90 days and my mother was watching and observing what the doctor and sometimes the nurse would do and examine me. Today I continue to wear my undies to sleep and around the house and how I got into medical fetish/kink.

@mboyd77,

can you describe what actually took place during your doctor visits?

did your mother also check you at home?

@mboyd77,

can you describe what actually took place during your doctor visits?

Prior to reaching puberty, the nurse would bring me into the exam room and have me remove my clothes just leaving my undies (back then we wore white brief undies). The nurse took my weight and height and then took my temperature via the rectum. Then she would leave and within a few moments the doctor would arrive and check my ears, eyes and nose and throat...the nurse would be in the room and he would have my lay down and then listen to my heart and palpate my chest working his way down my pubic area. The doctor would then place his hand underneath my waist band of my undies and feel around...and then instructed me to lift my ass and he would remove my undies and then feel around my balls and palpate the shaft of my penis. I would always get hard and he would hold down the base of my penis and then lightly rub and flick my frenum...I would have a dry orgasm, after a few moments my penis would pulse and throb and I would have a feeling of euphoria and feel a bit light headed.

As I got older, my mother would be in the room...the same style exam but this time I would cum/ejaculate...if you read my other posts or got to my profile you can read more in details.

did your mother also check you at home?-Yes..my mother would inspect from the years of 12 thru 18 years old.

To be honest i only remember 2 incidents as a child and that was when i was little 7 or 8 maybe, i was having problems with soiling and bedwetting and my mum took me to the pediatricia, then and i was in my underpants and the docter said do you want this done with your mum in or out the room, naturally i said in the room or out the room, the doctor than pulled the back of my pants out looked at my bum then pulled the front of my pants out to look at my willy, i have no idea why he did that maybe cos he was seeing if i had an accident. my mother and sister was in the room then and i dont think i had much modesty then. The other time i was 12 or 13, me and my brother had been sexually exploring each other (sorry to put it so crude) it got out so social services got involved and everything i wish they had stayed out of it, my brother was a year or 2 older than me and all this time it was put as he sexually abused me but now i dont think that (me personally), anyway i was taking to a hospital were they had me lie on the bed with my backside in the air so they can check if it was damaged (that was sexual abuse) they also had me sit down so they can see if there was damage to my penis, my mum was in the room but i was behind a white curtain and there was a lamp on so i think my mum seen the shadows of what was going on. after the first incident i asked my mum if i had asked for her to go out the room what would she have done, my mum said she would have stayed in the room anyway, i think my mum wanted to do this not cos she didnt respect my privacy it was because she didnt want to leave me alone with this man, and she also dint want me to be alone in the second incident cos of what i had already been through, and what i was about to go through. yes parents do need to respect there childrens privacy but at the same time they feel the need to be there for there kids. being 13 or 14 and having your mum there against your will in an examination of private parts is a bit wrong, but being 12 well i suppose it depends what circumstances, my mum still says to me now, "you may be 24 but im still your mother" and i realise that she has always been right.

For the obvious reasons a parent stays in the room during exams, they need to know what is going on and what is going to be done..sure does make for some fond memories though doesn't it??!!

My mom was always in the exam room. Usually my two sisters too. One sister is 3 years older than me, one 1 year younger. My dad was killed in a car accident just after my younger sister was born. We were a very close family. My mom would always ask the doctor at my yearly physicals how I was doing, was I normal...etc. My sisters were always in the room for my physicals, but I was made to look at a corner or wall when either sister was examined.

I guess I have been lucky but my mother was in the exam room only when I was under 10 years old. Afterwards she hasn't been. Though she was with me later on when I was ill and needed to see a doctor but during a complete physical exam I don't recall that she would have been in the exam room after I was around 10 or so.