Do women doctors and clinicians enjoy examining male patients?

I ask this because there is a similar question asking whether male doctors get turned on examining female patients.

I have several female doctors. On a few occasions I have gotten an erection during an exam by a woman doctor and I would swear that I got some sexual vibes from the woman during some of them. In one situation in particular (I had a strange rash on the glans of my penis) I developed a prolonged erection during the exam, which was done first separately by a female NP and then a female doctor, then both at the same time, and finally done by each again separately. I had an erection during the entire episode (roughly 45 minutes because both women were involved in other situations needing their attention -- it was an "after hours" operation after the main clinic had closed for the day) and noticed a strong difference in their attitudes (smiles, body language, how long their touch lingered) when they examined me separately vs. together (they were strictly professional when they were both present). I have had enough sexual experience with enough different women during my life to know when a woman is sexually interested, and I think both women though completely under control during the exams were in fact interested.

I should stress that absolutely nothing overtly sexual was done by any of the women I am referring to.

Has anyone else had similar experiences? What do any of the women members think of the matter, and how widespread it might be?

Well, I think like we said before. Doctors are human. So I'm sure female doctors have had feelings of attraction to their patients before. Again it would be hard to ever really know how often this happens because most doctors are good at keeping it professional.

My question is this: So when you have an erection infront of your female nurse/doctor. What do you do? I mean do you say anything? Do they say anything? Do you just not address the issuse at all and they continue to go about their work? Do they stop what they're doing? I'm just wondering what the social interaction is like when that happens.

Usually I do or say nothing, and neither do they. However I have noticed that they often smile in a way they would not normally, a smile of recognition perhaps, but no more. Occasionally someone says something. Once my PCP said "Good." That was all. She looked at my erect penis and said "Good." I took it to mean she thought it a sign of health (and definitely not a comment about its size, shape or her enjoyment at seeing it!). But otherwise nothing -- no jokes, or wise comments, setting at ease, etc. -- except perhaps a jolt of surprise when they see it (I recall a nurse called in by my female dermatologist to assist in a scraping; when she entered she found me nude and partially erect and did a double take, but otherwise she did or said nothing.)

But two exceptions come to mind. Elsewhere I have written that one of the things I really like about my PCP is her forthrightness and interest in some aspects of my health that not all doctors pay attention to, including my sex life. She asks about my sexual frequency, practices, satisfaction, problems, pain, etc. She has asked me about my sexual history too. The first time she did this was the lengthiest, and she did it during my second or third annual physical with her. I had an erection as I sat on the exam table talking to her and several times she looked at it as we talked, nodding in its direction once or twice as she spoke. I wondered later if the fact that I had an erection had triggered the questions, or caused her to remember to bring up the subject.

The other exception is a bit funny. It occurred during the time when I was being examined for a strange rash on the glans of my penis, the episode I referred to in my first post in this thread. I am not circumcised and the rash occurred at the coronal ridge, underneath my foreskin. So I had to peel it all the way back to show them. With an erection it was of course easy to keep it peeled back, but when the exam was over and they were debriefing me about their findings, I wanted to put my foreskin back covering the glans. For a person like me who is natural a peeled-back foreskin is a bit uncomfortable. But when you have an erection it can be difficult to get it to go over the swollen glans and back into position. Often the foreskin sort of curls under itself and becomes even more uncomfortable.

That is what happened to me when they were through examining me. But there is a way to deal with that situation, a technique I had mastered many years before -- I grasp the foreskin between forefinger and thumb and curl it outwards in several places around the perimeter of the glans, finally stretching the skin tightly towards the end of my penis. The stretching has to be done several times usually. And that is what I was doing, somewhat absent-mindedly, during the debriefing. As you can see, it is a somewhat complicated and unusual procedure and it takes a minute or two to get it done. The first time I did it, I noticed the doctor watching me intently. I realized how fascinated she was by the procedure when she stopped talking in mid sentence and just watched me. I think she was not sure at first what I was doing, and later found it interesting. Perhaps she saw mainly men who were cut and who therefore had no need to reposition their foreskins over an engorged glans. In any case when she caught herself she startled. And then, realizing what she was doing, giggled. I did too. Then we went back to talking. Later the NP came in and redid the exam, and this time when she was done I enjoyed a bit of mischief by repositioning my foreskin with exaggerated precision, and even slower speed. She stopped in mid sentence, just like the doctor, and followed my every move with her eyes. I extended the procedure for as long as I dared and after stretching out my foreskin fully, allowed it to snap back into position with an audible pop. Then I smiled. She laughed. True story.

I think many times women doctors don't really care, but I can remember a couple of times when I think I have noticed that might have liked it.

One time, when I had just turned 14, I was getting my first full physical exam in an adult clinic. My exam was from an older nurse practioner. Most of the time she probably examined older people -- I doubt she had teenagers in her clinic that often. I remember she had grey hair. For the whole exam I was only dressed in my briefs. Everything was fine until she asked me to pull down my underwear for the hernia exam. Even though she was so much older than me, I think just being exposed to a woman caused me to get erect. I wasn't totally hard, but my penis was definitely sticking out -- about 15 degrees below horizontal. I remember that when she saw that she got a smirk on her face. She didn't say anything, and didn't really spend too much time down there -- but I do remember that smirk. It was like she was thinking -- "of course -- teenager with an uncontollable penis -- probably gets hard when the wind blows."

The other time was a few years ago. I went to get a physical from a pretty attractive female doctor who didn't seem that much older than me. Again, all I was wearing was my briefs, but I also had a little paper sheet over my lap. She was very nice and we had a pleasant conversation as she asked me my medical history. One of the questions she asked was if I did a testicular self-exam every month. I had to admit that I did not, and, of course, when I said that, I was thinking that she must be going to examine me down there. The exam went along like normal, and of course at one point the little paper sheet came off when she was checking my lower abdomen and feeling my inguinal lymphs nodes -- but I still had my briefs on. I was afraid that I was going to get an erection when she pulled the sheet off and saw me in just my underwear. I really didn't want to get one that easily, because I didn't want her to think I was weird. Then she had me stand up for something, and I thought I knew what was coming next -- the hernia exam. But she surprised me when she said, "well, I guess I'll defer the genital exam." I said, "thank you," but I was actually surprised since she knew I didn't do my own testicular exams.

I did, however, have a problem with my rear end itching, so she said "let's go ahead and take a look at that." So I turned around and faced away from her and pulled my underwear down to my knees, and then she had me lean over the bed. The instant I had my underwear down I got erect. This time, it was a full-blown, rock-hard erection. I was really wondering what she saw from the back. Could she see it? How much did she see? Could she tell I was hard?

I think she might have known and might have liked it, because she really seemed to take a long time looking at my butt -- like maybe sixty seconds. When she was finally done, she walked back to the sink to wash my hands. I started to pull my underwear up and turned around to face her at the same time. As I turned to face her, I had my underwear pulled up, but the top half of my erection was still visible above the top of my underwear. Right at that moment she turned back from the sink to look at me, and I'm sure she saw the part of my erection that was showing. Maybe I'm making too much of this, but I think she turned on purpose to see.

There's such a difference between going to a real doctor (male or female) and visiting a doctor or nurse in fantasy play. Doctors and nurses know they have to be totally professional in an exam situation or they might get in real trouble. So I'm wondering if very many real doctors and nurses do medical fantasy "play" in their off hours, or is this too much like being at work?

What does the female doctor feel if the male patient has an erection? Does the patient need to feel apologizing for that?

I think they do sometimes, but as somebody else said, the novelty probably wears off a bit for a lot of it after they've been in their jobs for a while. But I did have a couple of experiences about 5 years ago where they took a quick peek out of curiosity.

One was while getting a massage from a therapist that I had seen 6 times or so, attractive though maybe not gorgeous. The therapist was always very careful to keep everything draped so I was never exposed to her. One this occasion she did my front as usual, then had me sit up so she could remove a heating pad under my back before rolling over. Then she told me to roll over and as I did, my feet got tangled in the sheet a bit (not a complete accident) and as I rolled over as far as my side (so I was basically facing her while she stood at th top of the table) the sheet pulled down exposing my pelvis. I had to stop for a second to untangle the sheet so I could roll the rest of the way over, and as I did I noticed her head move down and take a quick look at my genitals. It was innocent, probably like having to turn and look at a car accident, a reflex action. But it was still fun to see her do it.

The second time was during a scrotal ultrasound with a young female technician who had just finished her training. I was sitting in the lobby of the hospital thinking "With my luck it will be a guy...." when she came out in the lobby. I thought "Please...!" and when she called my name all I could think of was "Jackpot". She led me back, explaining what we were doing. She then told me she would leave the room for me to undress from the waist down (oh well) and cover myself with a sheet. She came back a few minutes later with a rolled up towel. She stood at the bottom of the exam table and held the top of the sheet up so that she couldn't see my pelvis, but I could lay my penis on my stomach and cover it with the towel. Then she lowered the sheet down to my knees to expose my scrotum. She squirted the gel on my testicles and started moving the wand around on them to take the images. About half way through, my penis slipped out from under the sheet. I asked her if she wanted to stop for me to readjust myself and she stopped, looked over, and told me it was OK, it wasn't in the way and she could finish. After she finished she went again to the foot of the exam table to pull the sheet up to cover me back up. But as she did I notice her pause for just a second take an extra look at my penis and testicles before she again started pulling the sheet up. It was only a second and I'm sure just a curiosity thing, but it was definitely noticeable and the icing on the cake. It was great to be looking directly at her face as I watched her eyes focus right on my privates.

Another experience of this type worth sharing was with a female dermatologist. At the time this happened she was about 35, slim, dark-haired and cute. I had first a nude exam, by her, solo, then two visits during which she first removed several skin tags and suspicious-looking growths and then checked the results. I had literally dozens of skin tags, mainly in my armpits and on my groin, all of which were annoying -- they would catch sometimes and get irritated so I wanted them removed. She took them off depending on size by means of freezing them or cutting them with a scalpel. When she did the ones on my scrotum, with me laying down she at first moved my penis out of the way, and then, as I started to get an erection asked me to hold it out of the way. But then she wanted me to pull the skin on my scrotum taut so she could better get at the skin tags there. It was sort of tough to keep it taut the way she wanted it and soon I was sort of juggling my now full erection and stretching the skin. It must have looked funny because she giggled at first and then burst out laughing, as I was, earnestly, trying to do as she asked. Well, she had four or five to removed there, all the time my now fully erect and very hard penis staring her right in the face. I got so excited my foreskin peeled back by itself. She remained amused throughout the rest of the procedure, even joking about the situation (though I cannot quite remember the joke). That was the end of her work, so then she left saying she would send in her nurse to bandage me up. Her nurse was a bit older than her but when she came I still had the erection, and she did first a double take and then smiled ear to ear, and said something which could have been a double entendre I realized later: "you look like you need help" which I took to refer to the fact that I was bleeding, but could have as easily referred to my obvious erection.

During the next exam, the final one, the doctor examined my groin quite carefully and fingered some places, barehanded by the way -- no gloves, and soon I had another erection. Well, she continued her entire exam, with me lying there nude, and then when I thought she had finished, asked me to stand up. I got up and stood beside the exam table and as I did she came in closer to me and raised her hands to my neck, checking it seemed my glands under my chin and then some of the places on my neck that she had excised on the previous visit. Because she came in so close to me to do this -- in her defense she was about six inches shorter than me -- my erection prodded her stomach. I am not kidding. She had on a black wool skirt and I could feel it with my penis. I can still feel how it felt, a sort of soft wool felt. She held this position for a good 20 seconds as she did her checks, all the while my erect penis rubbing against her skirt. Then, smiling, she stopped and said I looked all right and the exam was over. I never understood why she checked me like that -- standing -- since she could have done most or all of it with me still lying on the exam table. So the conclusion I came to was that she wanted at least to see me standing with an erect penis, or, more likely, to actually feel it touching her tummy. She definitely was up to something however I think. She certainly seemed to be smiling and enjoying herself throughout both exams, and I do not chalk all of that up to just professional attitude or natural cheeriness. I should stress that she did excellent work on me and in no way was I offended by what she did. I was surprised, however, surprised enough to not really figure out what her motives might have been until later. Clever woman, I thought then, and think now.

I've had plenty of exams and on a few occasions i have gotten an erection. During one of these visits i was on my back with my knees at my chest and on my hands and knees but have never had any extra attention given to my erection. I certainly wouldn't mind if my luck changes

I don't think the amount of time a woman takes during the exam indicates necessarily how interested she is or how much she is enjoying what she is doing. I think the best way to judge it is by her body language and facial expressions, and to a lesser degree what she says if she says anything (that is, what a person says is more guarded).

That said, I have also had a few exams where the woman expressed a positive reaction to my erection -- like, that is a sign of good health, or, that makes it easier to do what I'm doing, and once, you have a handsome penis (no kidding). And took her time with the exam.

I think it all boils down to how comfortable the woman feels. There are many ways of going about it, but the more relaxed I feel and manage to convey (somehow), the more open and comfortable the woman doctor seems to be. I think this is good overall -- for the quality of her exam I mean -- and also provides a more honest reaction or expression of enjoyment on her part. Most women are heterosexual and so have a somewhat positive inclination to all adult males, as long as there is nothing turning her off.

I prefer women doctors precisely because I can feel their appreciation of me, one way or another, and I am pretty sure some of it is because I am a man.

I would say yes depending on the age of the female doctor and the patient age. I am 20 and my doctor is 32 so I would say she does because I think I have a pretty attractive body. I still say male doctors get more turned on examining female patients tho.

I actually would erections during checkups when i was very young, like until about age 12. for whatever, reason after that i didn't pop wood as much during the exams. dont know why.

Jacob, were the people who gave you your checkups women? If so, did you get an erection more often with them than their male counterparts?

How did the women react when you popped wood?

I have had one physical exam, done for life insurance, by a female physician. She did not linger in any way to suggest sexual interest. From my perspective, it was really embarrassing having a female examine my penis and testicles and do a rectal exam, but it was not because of anything she did.

I am interested in this question as. I am currently studying for a degree and a recent assignment has thrown up a similar question. I am curious to get opinions of women in roles that were traditionally male especially doctors physios ond prison officers. I am interested in their thoughts when faced by a naked or semi naked male. Im not really interested in fantasies but the train of thought you go through.

I have heard from several male friends that the exam given by female doctors is incomplete in that the guy does not really receive a proper testicular and or rectal prostate exam like he would from a male doctor. It appears that female doctors are uneasy in this area. Also a friend of mine who went to medical school told me the vast majority of females in school appeared to be lesbian and typically were drawn to ladies health practices. Most guys I know tend to avoid a female doctor unless their company health insurance requires them to see a female doctor in the network of providers. There however great female doctors in areas of dermatology and surgery which I have found to be better then the male doctors. Hospital nurses do however fine enjoyment seeing young male patients.

Not think so most of them are proffesionals..

and having lot of trainning regarding male genital system so it is not new for them...

Hey, the ladies are human too and have just as much, if not more, sexual feelings than men... especially as they grow past their thirties and fewer men are hitting on them. Two examples in my experience. I was in my mid forties and had gone to a female internist for an annual exam. It was obvious I was a little nervous wearing that ill-fitting paper gown and when she took my blood pressure it was elevated. She said that was pretty normal and would conduct the entire exam and then retake the bp. Soon she had me completely nude and did all the routine professional examination steps. By this time both my bp and erection had subsided. She took the bp and it was quite normal. Then she said it was time to discuss the results of the examination. Ok, I got up off the table and headed for my clothes and she said, no stay there, we can talk just the way you are. And naked as a jay-bird we talked for the next fifteen minutes. She obviously enjoyed controlling the situation and watching my reaction.

Second time I had gone in for my weekly massage. The massage lady started the usual back work and then asked if I could help her by answering a question. Apparently a few other clients had asked her and others on the staff for a "prostate massage" and they did not know why the men's interest or how to do one. So she asked if I could teach her and later one of the other ladies. For them it was obviously a source of future additional income and then really enjoyed the opportunity.

My regular doctors have always been women. None have been unprofessional. I wish they were, though.

I definitely think women doctors, nurses and assistants have a great sense of humor. A few months ago I experienced some chest pain a couple of days in a row, so I went to see a cardiologist. When I arrived for my appointment I noticed in the waiting area that all of the patients were either really old, obese or both. When I checked in the receptionist looked a me funny when she asked, "may I help you?" I told her I had an appointment with the cardiologist. She seemed shocked, but she took my ID and insurance card(s). She looked over my info and then blurted, "wow, I think you are the youngest patient I've ever checked in at this office." I took a seat and waited to be called in.

My name was called and I was greeted by someone who introduced herself as the Physician's Assistant (PA). She escorted me to the exam room and we sat down. She started to explain the days' agenda, first, I will go over the medical questionnaire and history with you. Next you will meet with the doctor for follow up questions and a brief examination. Then you will come back with me to the lab where I will do an EKG, sonogram and stress test. Finally, you will meet with doctor again to review your test results.

The PA spent about half an hour asking me a million questions. She was probably mid 30's, early 40's, very cute, warm and pleasant. When she was done, she asked me to move and sit at then end of the exam table and the doctor would be in shortly. When the doctor walked in, I was a bit surprised. She was quite older; definitely ready to retire. She stood right in front of me, maybe a little too close and asked me about my chest pain. I told her I was pretty sure it was probably a muscle spasm or pinched muscle as I had recently started weight training, but obviously I didn't want to leave anything to chance. She gave me a nice big smile, put her hand on my knee and said, "don't worry, your in good hands now." She turned around, reached into a cabinet and pulled out a pink paper gown and a clear plastic bag. She handed both of them to me and said, "I need you to get undressed, no shorts, no socks and put on the gown. Place your shoes and all of your clothes in the bag. I'm going to finish writing my notes, wash up and then we'll continue." I was expecting her to leave. But she just turned around and started writing as she had explained. So I started to get undressed although I was wondering why. Why did I have to be naked for a heart exam?

Anyway, when the doctor heard me putting my stuff in the back she turned around and asked me to sit back on the exam table. She asked me to lower the top half of the gown so that she could listen through my chest and back with the stethoscope. She then to asked me to lay down so that she could listen through my internal organs and legs. The exam took all of 5 minutes. She said everything sounded just as it should. She asked me to sit up, cover up and wait for the PA to come take me to the lab. The PA came back, grabbed the plastic bag with my stuff and asked me to follow her to the next room. In the lab room there were two exam tables and a treadmill. Again, the PA explained, "First, I'll do the EKG, then the sonogram and last the stress test. Are you ready?" I told her I was.

She then instructed me to take off the gown, take off my under shirt and lay on the table while she gathered the EKG gear. I told her I was not wearing and undershirt. Without looking back while she gathered her equipment she said, "ok, then just take off the gown and lay on the table". Something seemed off, but I did as instructed. I will never forget the next thing I heard, "oh!" I looked over and the PA was looking at my junk in total confusion. Almost in slow motion she walked up to the table and very professionally said, "I'm sorry about any miscommunication, but would you mind putting on your underwear?" So I did.

The lab work continued, however, it was in silence and then darkness when the sonogram started. I could tell she was flustered or maybe even embarrassed, so I decided to break the silence. "I take it patients don't normally get completely undressed?" She looked at me and let out a little laugh of relief. She started to apologize if she over reacted or seemed mad. I told her not to worry about it. She finished the lab work, asked me to get fully dressed and then she would take me to the doctor's office.

When we got the to doctor's office she knocked on the door. The doctor acknowledged us to come in. When we walked in, the doctor had a sheepish grin on her face as the PA handed her my file.

Our family doctor is completely professional and has never made one inappropriate comment or exam technique. Nonetheless, I have to believe that she does enjoy seeing her male patients nude. The only time I ever remember anything unusual was one of the nurses discreetly talking about an apparently well endowed patient.

All the women I work with are pretty professional. Unless something is out of the ordinary they won't usually mention anything about enjoying an exam. I assume some women have a fetish for doing it, but it never comes out because the need to stay professional. I have has one PA describe the size of a patients penis to me with a smile on her face haha.

As a medical professional i can honestly say there was never a crossover between my job as a nurse manager and my medical fetish kink. when at work i was never turned on by any procedures or patients. We are taught to ignore an erect penis and do, i also did not become a nurse because of the medical fetish. There has to be a chinese wall between your job and your fetish

I agree with Tosh and the others who have said what she said 100 percent. Work is work, and play is play...PERIOD.

Mashie

Just as anyone can encounter someone they find attractive during their workday, a doctor will likely at some point encounter a patient that he or she finds attractive. And in nearly every case, this attraction doesn't get in the way of performing the job professionally and skillfully.

Even if I can myself enjoy sometimes in a med fetish situation, I do not believe that in reality, the medics are interested by the view of my body and enjoy to see me in the nude or half naked

I agree with the opinion of "Mashie" : job is job and play is play ..period

I assume that all the nurses and doctors are permanently acting professionally

but It is possible that some dominant men or women like to have a power on a younger patient especially at mandatory physical examinations when he is forced to submit to their instructions, they can in some situations especially with teenagers and young men enjoy to see how these teenagers and young men are uncomfortable and vulnerable but obedient when undressed.

I guess that it is a human feeling which can happened sometimes even if the medical persons are acting professionaly.

I need to disagree. Are most doctors, PA' s, Clinicians etc professional? Without a doubt. They are also human beings. After dealing with the ill, obese and elderly quite frequently it must be a nice change of pace to examine a healthy, fit young body once in a while-be it male or female. I am sure inappropriate thoughts do come to mind. To that I say "so what". Again we are all only human. No line is being crossed by thinking such thoughts.

I have to STRONGLY disagree with the last poster, with all due respect. While yes, we are all human and sometimes we have "thoughts", there is a huge difference between thoughts of appreciation and sexual thoughts.

When we see a beautiful body on a patient or other, most humans in general can and do appreciate that. Most of us understand the amount of work, dedication and self discipline it takes to obtain and maintain a beautiful body. So in that respect, yes, we might say something to a colleague like, "did you see the six pack on that guy?" Or even something like, "She has nice breasts, the surgeon did a great job". But that is NOT the same as making or thinking in a sexual manner.

Sometimes you may even hear us make a comment like, "he's/she's such a cutie". Again we don't mean that in a sexual manner. We often say that when one of our patients makes us smile, laugh, or they are just over the top nice. And just to let you know, we say that about our patients from the age of one minute old clear up to 100 years old and older.

Like in every profession and what not you will have exceptions to every rule, I can promise and assure you with 100 percent accuracy that 99.9 of us medical professionals just don't, won't, and will never have sexual thoughts or make sexual comments about our patients. We just don't think in those terms.

Laypeople will never, won't ever, and can't ever understand that concept. Logic and common sense should tell you that over time when humans are exposed to things they start to become immune. If we didn't, we wouldn't still be here as a species. It's the same principle or concept as the following. Let's say pizza is your favorite food in the entire world so you eat pizza three meals a day every single day. How soon do you think it will take before you get tired of eating pizza and don't want to see it or eat it again? For most people, it doesn't take all that long. There is a good reason I only eat a peanut butter and jelly sandwich about once a year, lol.

Try it and get back to me in a few months, lol.

Mashie

Some people just don't get it. No matter how many times you tell them. And I'm glad they aren't in the medical professions.

Amen to that Quincy. Thanks for understanding.

Mashie