There seems to be no end to this discussion. That tells us that not all things about enemas is the same and may be a wiring situation. If your mommy gave you enemas and they were odd, but not disturbing, then you had a good chance that you grew to like enemas. If the situation was bad, then the distaste exceeded the pleasure. One lady likes her anus stimulated, but does not want a flushing of her colon. SO Accept It!
She is entitled to a wet vagina from the stimulation. Others like nothing, and I mean nothing anal. Maybe they like nipple play to excite them, or giving their partner stimulation as their turn on. Same is true with foods. There are dozens of flavors of Ice Cream, because of different taste preferences. Isn't life interesting. Celebrate our differences!