Masturbate to Orgasm without Erection

For some reason I've never really understood, when I was in my teens i would often masturbate to orgasm while remaining flaccid. It didn't have anything to do with a dysfunction, it was simply that i found that orgasms while having a flaccid penis are of a different nature.

They are no less intense and satisfying as others, but it seems as if the pleasure from such non-erect orgasms flows inwards throughout the body, rather than being sharply concentrated in the penis.

A few times on chats I have told of this, but have often been met with incredulity ... so I was wondering if anyone else here can do the same? Namely reach orgasm while stimulating a flaccid penis?

Having an orgasm with a flaccid penis is certainly achievable and an erection is not necessary for an orgasm, although an erection does make vigorous stimulation of the penis easier, and you obviously need an erection to have intercourse.

I obviously can't say how an orgasm with an erection differs from one while flaccid, but I can imagine that an orgasm with an erection, you feel the hardness of the penis and pressure inside, but when flaccid, you feel the contractions of the orgasm but not the hardness and pressure inside the penis.

I am surprised that in your teens you could masturbate to orgasm and remain flaccid because I never met a teenage boy who would remain flaccid once ANYTHING touched his penis.

Orgasm without erection is often a result of prostate surgery. Since my prostate was removed several years ago, I can, with difficulty, achieve orgasm, but never become erect.

Ag,

It's happened to me on rare occassions. Most recently, I had a minor surgery on April 15th, and a little reconstructive surgery on May 15th. The pain killer medication modestly inhibited my erections during contests of self-pleasuring, but I was still able to orgasm with a reasonable amount of stimulation. I didn't find it totally attractive, and definitely prefer orgasms associated with an erect penis.

Have a gr8 day my friend,

Hermann

Male orgasm without erection is defenitively a sign of a temporary or not erectile dysfunction

[quote author=amaral link=topic=53276.msg363437#msg363437 date=1308050477]

male orgasm without erection is defenitively a sign of a temporary or not erectile dysfunction

[/quote]

I was really talking about deliberately choosing to achieve orgasm without erection. Naturally that is predicated on being able to control the erectile function. I suppose not everyone can do this, nor is it something that can always be controlled either. But, in the right setting, and with the right state of mind, I've found that it is possible to remain deliberately flaccid and then achieve orgasm.

Sometimes when I am excited but have a lot of anxiety as well, I may have difficulty remaining erect. I am able to ejaculate just fine in this state. This happened recently after a play exam session when my examiner was masturbating me.

I have had many orgasms without erections. My penis will get semi erect, however.

Bill

I've sometimes an orgasm with a half erect penis. This happens, when I've masturbated often, but get so horny (by stethings scenes, e.g.), that I simply have to wank...

Only after multiple ejaculations can I achieve an orgasm with a semi erect penis.

I enjoy masturbation/orgasms without erection. it is just another kind of sexual experience. It is valid and good. I masturbate a little more these days without getting too hard and big. It is a function of age.Works real well if you have a healthy erotic imagination. Do it most often when I wake up in the morning and I have slept without any clothes on.

I have found that anal stimulation can produce an ejaculation of sorts with my penis still flaccid.......Wouldn't say it was an orgasm exactly though!

Erections, orgasm and ejaculations are three separate events that frequently happen in concert, but don't have to.

Fortunately, never happened :|

Fortunately, never happened :|

This is about deliberately being able to do so, choosing to do so. I am not talking about any kind of physical disability, rather an extra and perhaps less ordinary way of achieving orgasm by masturbation. The sensations are different and it's nice to be able to do this when the mood strikes.

This happens to me if I am sleepy or have taken Benadryl (or same ingredient in sleep aids). Most commonly it happens if I am playing with a toy in my ass. It seems that once I have something as big as 2.75 - 3 inches in there my erection fades, but I am still very horny and turned on...how else would I get the toy in 😉. Anyways, these orgasms will still seem powerful, since I love having my add filled and stretched. However, the cum doesn't shoot out, rather it dribbled. I assumed it has to do with pressure on a blood vessel internally that causes the lack of erection. Some of my best orgasms have been erectionless or mostly so, while I'm stretched open 3.5 inches!

Yes, I sometime masturbate to orgasm without an erection, particularly if I am using a toy in my butt or sometimes when taking an enema. Like the old joke about males not having enough blood for thinking and having an erection at the same time, it seems that I can enjoy one set of nerves at a time. The orgasms without an erection are just as good as the ones with an erection, and maybe better because of the added stimulation. This happens more often as I get older (I am over 65).

When I was eleven, I often read the paper on the carpeted floor. I was able to have friction with a barely hardening penis, pointed downward. So the contact was on the topside. It was wonderful, and orgasm feelings began without ejaculation. I couldn't wait to get home from school to lay on my tummy and rub accordingly. As a senior now, I can still get great response when tugging a tightly gripped penis with two fingers, and rubbing accordingly. Still very delightful, to say the least. Getting hard is another story -- which I imagine relates to age. Glad the other is still functioning when called upon.

Playing with bisexual lady,she keeps it deeply hidden secret,pretending i am biologically female,touching each other tenderly,and brushing our pubics like crazy,nipples playing,and using my penis as a clit,then the feelings become very strong and orgasm comes,a strong one.

After some time i can have erection,and make love with erection.

Having orgasm without erection,happens,only during role playing in my case.

Wish you all a nice kinky weelend

Ever since I had my prostate removed that is the only way I have orgasms. It takes much longer to have an orgasm now.

For me, this is more difficult than an erect orgasm. It takes longer. But, when combined with a torture fantasy, an interrogation fantasy, a rape fantasy, or a medical procedure performed on my penis, the resulting orgasm is very deep and powerful. I can also blow a load with unusual limited stimulation, but this generally requires an erection. Erect, I will place my palms along my shaft, and turn the palms outward, I stroke the edge of the corona by drawing the tops of my hands upwards along the shank, allowing the meatus to fall into the grooves formed by my first and second fingers on each hand. Thats a long, maddeningly slow orgasm, which requires a strong erection.

Wow. Great topic and thread. Thank you all for your candor. I know several men who masturbate while remaining flaccid; some due to impotency and some just because they like it that way. Until I saw it happen, I didn't believe true pleasure and orgasm could be achieved that way but man, was I wrong. I find it very erotic and hope you gents continue to enjoy pleasure in all forms.

Dianne

I had some surgery when I was 27 (Now 67), that caused me to be impotent. I've been able to successfully masturbate with great satisfaction since. In fact I usually do it a couple times a day. Just had quite a talk with my doctor sbout this, and she highly encouraged to do it as absolutely often as I felt like it.

Have also had extremely successful, sexual experiences with females, along with great satisfactions both ways. Since most females seem to like oral and manual stimulation, I'm mighty glad to perform it to the maximum for them. Nothing more satisfying than to see a female, highly satisfied sexually. Always willing to give an enema, or a good spanking if that is needed, too. . .Love all types of anal play. . .

When I first found I was impotent, I was of the mind that my future contact with females was non-existant. Also, was raised in a very strict religion, and haden't had sex with a woman, prior to my losing my ability to erect. Finally, I got disgusted with it all, and sat down with some close female friends, and told them the whole story. Their reactions were, most of us like manual and oral, so concentrate on that, and don't let it bother you. . .Doesn't bother us, as we get-off better with manual/oral, anyway.

I'm certain there are females that would rather have an erect penis, and certainly don't blame them. I just keep looking for those that will accept me for who I am, and certainly promise them satisfaction :-). . .Mike

Mike

Any woman who doesnt accept you for who you are is very shallow indeed. If you explain to them as you have done here then if they do not see beyond whether or not you have an erection, they themselves are not worthy of your friendship.

Sadly for many women they wear "blinkers" at times. It can be fulflilling for both parties to indulge in foreplay and other sexual activities, sex is not always the be-all and end-all for a partnership.

Good luck to you.

Elizabeth, Thank you sooooo much for the kind words! You have no idea what that does for me right now! Glad I joined this forum, as it really has helped me. Mike.

Thanks Mike, they are only my thoughts, maybe somewhere else on the forum you might find people with other advice for you too. All the very best.

@egirlyky Dianne:

"Until I saw it for myself ....."

You've NEVER seen it, dianne. No man could remain flaccid with YOU in the room.

Oh, Marty, you're a dear. But yes, I have seen a lover with physical ED masturbate to orgasm and have sucked that same lover's cock to orgasm and he enjoyed it nearly as much as men without ED. It seems that it was somewhat more frustrating and difficult to him but maybe that was intensity and not effort that I was seeing.

I have also seen another lover whose penis was exhausted from a marathon session of fucking and sucking but who still masturbated to orgasm while in a flaccid state while I attended to his bottom.

Whether or not a man achieves erection or not does not detract from his sexiness and ability to arouse or please me. As long as each of us can be satisfied in one way or another, I'm a happy camper.

I did not think it was possible...

Erection, ejaculation and orgasm are three wholly separate events that usually happen in concert but don't have to.

Men, if you listen to your body during sexual activities, you'll feel multiple orgasms as you approach the orgasm/ejaculation that you're already aware of. The Body Electric teaches this.