Why do women find it so exciting to be examined?

I find the idea of being examined by a strict no nonsense doc a turn on does anyone else

Do you mean in a REAL exam or a PLAY exam?

There is a difference.

WHY DO YOU MEN FIND IT EXCITING TO BE EXAMINED?? Could it be the same reason??????

You are not alone in your desire. There are more women that like it than we know in my honest opinion. It is a submissive craving of complete power loss. The doctor is in charge the entire time conducting tests and procedures that the patient must endure. The shame and humiliation of the exam is a total turn-on to those who crave it. The looking, spreading, procedures with 'violating' properties, personal questions, etc. that accompany a thorough physical examination. There are also those of us that like to create this atmosphere for them and love it just as much.

The idea of being naked in front of a complete stranger with them totally in control of what is happening is a real turn on for me I often find when it comes to the pelvic exam thre is little need for lubrication as having my breasts examined thoroughly and my nipples tweaked leaves me very excited. I have also had my sexual responses checked and had an orgasm on the exam table I am very sensitive to touch.

The exposure and giving up all control to a doc who will see everything, who will examine you in the way he wants to and feels is best. Giving up all control and embracing the physical sensations that accompany the touch in an exam while the physician and play doc goes on with his job of clinically examining and assessing your entire body externally and internally. The energy exchange and blending of sacred space of yours and the physician. Feeling your body react to all the sensations before, during, and after. Exciting, stimulating, arousing, enjoyable. 😉

Might it also not have something to do with the desire to be intimate with someone else other than a spouse or boyfriend? There are threads here that cover the subject - is a play exam sex or not? Aside from the many differing conclusions to that question, I'd ponder on the notion that when it comes to certain procedures in a play exam or a serious exam, they all touch on the subject of baring intimate parts - an important component in any form of sexual interaction.

And since a medical exam allows for a socially acceptable situation in which this occurs, it is hardly surprising that many females find it pleasurable. They can indulge in a form of intimacy without being censured for it. Indeed, they can even find pleasure in describing it to others, thereby creating a hint of jealousy in their partners. Which in itself can be a turn-on for some females. How often have we read here of couples who afterwards who are turned on and engage in sex afterwards, or of ladies who cannot refrain from masturbating afterwards?

I know not all females think so, but I do think that many do.

Agracier makes a valid point here in my view. The woman relinquishing control to an authority figure can in some ways negate the feeling that arousal in these circumstances would be inappropriate.

I firmly believe that the control aspect is very important in the physcology of examination.

I can only speak for myself, and I'm repeating myself...

but much of the appeal for me is in the reduction to the physical plane that happens of necessity in medical settings. I'm a pretty self-possessed, kind of brainy girl in real life, and my real-life relationships have been, and are, deep, complicated, layered and malleable.

A physical examination is simple, by contrast. It's a limited interaction in which my thoughts and feelings are mostly irrelevant. I don't get to decide much about how it goes, I don't have any responsibility (beyond basic courtesy) for my doctor's feelings, and I get his or her total attention for the span of the exam.

It's an extremely intimate situation, obviously, but with a built-in remove... and that's so exciting....

It must be the power exchange of being totally at anothers will being naked and exposed almost a forced giving of yourself

I definitely get the most excitement after the fact when the doctor has been the most stern and with the most authoritarian demeanor. I like it when he gives a lot of instructions during the exam and treats me in an impersonal and cold manner.

Who wouldnt find it hot to have to give up a little control an be told by an authoritive figure what is going to be done... I have been on both sides of the gloves and receiving end is always better.

I strongly believe that the only way an examination should be carried out is in a strict controlling manner. The patient should be listening very carefully and be completely respectful to the Doctor.

I also believe that discipline plays an important part of any examination. It is the Doctors place to discipline as and when and in the manner he dictates.

The patient should be grateful for his attention, time and effort.

I have been trouble putting into words this feeling and need for this fetish. I amjust coming out, so to speak, and just located this amazing site. So liberating to speak about these feelings that are normally hidden away.Lots of great words and articulate people here. The giving control up and not having to think is an absolute turn on. Feels so good to just let it go. I am a single mother with 4 kids and a full time job and everyone wants a piece of me and i feel like it would be so damn nice to just lay there and do as i'm told and have someone's full attention in such a bizarre and intimate way. mmmmm.

I love a stern dr, when being shy about being examined and being nude in front of him they totally ignore my feelings.

It is really nice to find so many like minded individuals on this site! I used to feel like a freak or just weird for having a fetish like this. But now instead I am more open about what I like so that I can get the kind of experiences I so desire!

It is really nice to find so many like minded individuals on this site! I used to feel like a freak or just weird for having a fetish like this. But now instead I am more open about what I like so that I can get the kind of experiences I so desire!

I think your feelings echo that of so many members who have discovered this wonderful site.