Medfet and BDSM

My wife, then girl friend, had not had a gyn and did not think she needed it. I showed her she needed it. I even gave her a good bimanual exam.

My personal experience with being a patient--for real--involved many elements of BDSM. The nurse-patient relationship by its very nature is a Domme-sub one. The nurse does things to the patient/sub: took my clothes--leaving me naked under a flimsy gown; even the gown was removed for surgery, bed baths or showers. Patients suffer pain--I got shots, poked with IV's had needle sticks for blood samples. . The nurses tied me down (Bondage) and Humiliated me with Foley and external catheters.

While the experiences were not necessarily erotic or enjoyable at the time, the memories and fantasies around the experiences are delicious.

Oh to have an exam by a very strict doctor who so enjoys to punish his recalcitrant patients for the smallest infraction would be wonderful. Of course I would set him off by refusing to undress. He would then have to get his male assistant to help him strip me and restrain me to the exam table. Once on the table naked and exposed with my legs spread wide I would feel vulnerable and afraid.. The doctor enjoys causing his patients pain and he begins with my pussy and nipples. I'm getting wet just thinking about the exam.

My fantasies are always a mix of the two. I'm restrained on a exam table for a thorough exam and then a series of uncomfortable and occassionly painful test

I'm new here & you are all simply exciting me.....male, 60+ for years I thought I was alone on this road, now I see so many enjoy or fantasize about these same things...thing is my doc would be a very strict male, maybe younger....i like the idea of being restrained with ace bandages & also like the idea of having my mouth taped shut....aah....that felt good..

I'm a dominating female and also a giver in med fet. I find it too hot to clip my patients nipple, tied over the bed and being on doggy style give her painful shots 😃

The BDSM/MedFet mix sounds very interestedly. E.g. To be nude, fully exposed on the gynaecological table and restrained. A strict female doctor first hard retracts my foreskin, then she thoroughly examines all my bodyparts painfully them squeezing including my genitalia…

Of course they mix. Often a patient is uncooperative and must be punished. There is the whole humiliation aspect of being examined and inspected, given minimal privacy, restrained for exams etc etc. There is the whole aspect of the creepy kinky doctor who spends way more time on certain parts of the body then needed. If it is a prison health center the imagination can run wild!

Yes. Both could be enhancing each other effects. My friend who runs a BDSM studio, very often combines medical role play with the usual discipline. I was never ever though how many people have desires for punitive medical procedures.

Having to submit to a humiliating exam such as a rectal exam, an enema, even an anal stretching, all deemed "for your own good"...being told to relax over and over when you can't. Maybe there would be an orderly watching or assisting the practitioner. It would be very methodical and my complaints or fussing would be dismissed. Maybe put on a table, with legs up in stirrups for a difficult enema. Having to lay face down for a rectal exam or dilators. Being told it might be a bit uncomfortable, but "we" can get through it.

Medfet with BDSM always go hand in hand. I've have not yet gone through a proper medical exam play mostly because I don't have the right equipment. But i always fantasize my mistress tying me up and giving me a good exam and while doing so point out the things that have to be "corrected or fixed" and also asking me if I had been a bad girl and didn't take care of myself properly and what not before she "fixes" by forced enemas and restricting orgasms. I am so wet just thinking about all this. mmmhhhmh

Absolutely, I believe the chemistry between those two things goes perfectly well together. I mean it all depends on the setting and the "players" but yes. Medfet can be often used in a BDSM session and the other way around. Especially the other way around. I mean, restraints and punishment... but also a way for the master/mistress to take care of their subs.

Medfet can be used to check, control, subdue in a more psychological level. While on the other hand BDSM can add a spicy touch to the Medfet sessions. Blending the life of both together is truly good. At least my experience show me that using a touch of both is always a good thing.

Having lived in a sub/dom relationship with a person that loved Medfet as much as I did... well it was absolutely fantastic.

My ideal scenario is bending over the lap of a lovely young receptionist who holds me firmly in place while a beautiful but strict nurse gives me painful injections in my vulnerable bare bottom.

Restraint during exams and medical procedures is just HOT.

I think medfet, enemas, and BDSM go together like peanut butter and jelly.

Definitely linked and definitely both of interest!

I am somewhat of a perfectionist, and while many can gobble anything remotely related to their fetishes in any context, I am into the emotional, rather than physical pain: humiliation, despair, fear, etc. It's not an elitist statement. Just quality over quantity.

The quality of each fetish: MedFet and BDSM matters a lot. I.e. medical treatments should be somewhat justified and 100% realistic without mixing cheap BDSM clothing/props craved by the masses like latex uniforms and strapons. The same goes for pure BDSM, at least for me: a semi-realistic context like a medieval torture dungeon, South American military junta electricuting a young revolutionary (you), Nazi camp, or even Guantanamo Bay, though I'll never take the latter seriously after the certain Harold and Kumar movie. But G-d, no leather-clad gothic dominatrixes in high boots. Too theatrical. And foot fetish does nothing for me.

Now, when it comes to combining MedFet with some sadistic torture any imperfection on either part instantly ruins it. Even the evilest of doctors cannot openly admit of breaking the Hippocratic Oath. All torture, she/he puts you through is for your own good. That primarily turns me on: the despair. Having nothing to complain about. Feeling like a little child (e.g. complaining of an unpleasant enema) no one would listen to. And to add insult to the injury, even being comforted during the unbearable treatments. While observing my tormenter clearly enjoying it.

I like to be restrained for my online text-based play exams. I also like for there to be a nice, loving female nurse whose sole job is to comfort nd console me throughout the entire exam.

In my medfet fantasies I am always tied down, sometimes gagged, sometimes placed in a sound isolated operating room. The point is to be totally helpless and totally under the control of my doctor/surgeon and fully at his/hers mercy. For me it`s really exciting to know that only the doctor has to decide what have to be done with your body and how much it will hurt. The full control over my body as a patient is a very special feeling.

Medfet and BDSM work beautifully together. In addition to being a Dominant doc, I utilize hypnosis before / during an exam in a couple of ways. Presupposing I've developed good communication / trust with my patient, I trance her deeply before the exam to completely fully take on the persona / behaviors / responses of a "good & obedient submissive patient" (i.e., temporarily / SAFELY leaving their normal waking persona behind). In addition a patient in a deep trance is much more physically relaxed as well, so it's possible to "open her up" much more completely than she even thought possible while still keeping her safe. In addition, one's subconscious energy can be "redirected" towards results like mind blowing orgasms, or any other desired outcomes / feelings.

Oh yes I definitely think they can work well together! Just depends if you like the exam to be more clinical and realistic or a little more creative and kinky! 😃

The line between the two is very fuzzy.

I have a roleplay that I've tried several times where I've been sent to a nurse friend of my wife to have my butthole stretched because she doesn't think its big enough. There's inevitably some punishment for not being fully cooperative :-)

Metfet and bdsm in my world are meshed. Love the control of bding restrained for medical procedures to my favorite areas. Discipline goes with it too. But metfet bdsm does not have to be cruel. It can be sensous with the partner whispering and stroking you while the pain increases and builds resulting in an explosive climax

Very well said, @toshe63!

I totally agre with kinkylove2 and toshe on this one ..a nice mix of bdsm with medical play....but nice sensual play

Bondage and gags help the doctor put me in a excepting exposed place. Where I can relax... or try to and just except that the doctor is doing what’s best for me even if it painful or gross at the time. It also allows for surprises. If the doctor wants to do something different or let another nurse/orderly into the space, I am stuck just letting go and excepting it.

Without bondage during the exam I’d feel like I have too much control, and therefore harder to let go when ask to do something by the doctor.

Absolutely, especially if I'm squirming too much or objecting to a procedure, then I would expect the doctor to restrain or gag me so he can do what needs to be done

What a perfect scenario especially if it used as a disciplinary measure as well

I would definately like it to be part of any scene I may do or want to do

I love the idea of being in bondage during an exam!

I've had several medical exams that have bordered on including BDSM

Being restrained for part of it is a huge turn-on as is being gagged

On the odd occasion I've also been caned

Mandatory shaving also does it for me