Do girls look at themselves or other girls' vulvas?

Guys get a chance to look at their penis several times a day when going to pee. And also have many opportunities to compare to other males from school locker room experience or sometimes a quick peek in a public restroom. Thus I am very familiar with every nook and cranny of my equipment and a good understanding my comparison to other males.

However, due to anatomy, girls don't get the same opportunities to look.

Question for the girls; when, how often and in what detail have you examined your own vulva's? Have you been able to compare vulva's with other females? What can you report?

I would have thought this might have been an interesting discussion from the females here. I understand males are more physically/genetialia focused maybe for the reasons I noted but I thought there would be a few similarly focused females, if not for only their medfet interest. Am I talking out of school?

Well for me, I spent most of my life too fat to even see my naughty bits. But I do remember sitting on the pot after I had lost 100 pounds and was able to see what I really looked like for the first time. I have to admit, I was quit fascinated by the whole thing, and even after 3 years now, I still am.

Now as a nurse I see all different kinds of naughty bit, both men and women, and everyone's is different in some way or another. Which I find quite iteresting actually. I can't tell you how many women I have gone to cath and found that they have been circumcised. But for lack of better terms, our "flowers" are all different in each of our own ways.

Now, when it came to us being younger and say, having to take showers together after gym class, at that age I don't think any of us shaved yet, so we really couldn't see anything anyway, not that we had the tme to look.

As adults, I can tell you that almost all women have one lip bigger than the other. Some of us have dark lips, while others have very light pink lips like myself. I have heard that has something to do with childbirth, but I have had two kids and mine are still virgin pink, so I am not so sure that urban legend is true?

But, that's all I can really report on this topic. Hope it helped in so way with what you were looking for?

Mashie

Very well said Mashie as always... I haven't had the opportunity to see & smell all the "Flowers" but I try very hard to!

Cheers

Skybear

Sometimes ya just gotta stop and smell the flowers 😃

I was always one to look, although until maybe ten years ago, trimmed, but not shaved was the rule. Trimmed is still the norm in my area, although many more are shaved than in the past. Even when I was in high school, everyone trimmed.

I was always fascinated by the differences in vulvas.

Well, since I turned 10 I was quite curious about the stuff down there and I did look quite regularly.. I got the idea from being first time examined down there when I was 10 and after that I wanted to know how did I actually look like when the doctor looked there 😉 I used to put a large mirror on the floor or at the end of my bed and then got naked and went on my back and had a look.. Well, you do see a lot that way 😉 I only did this when there was nobody home, getting caught like that did not feel like a good idea.. I remeber the first times felt quite odd to look at myself from that angle and I just remeber I was very pink 😉

I also got interested in 'comparing' with other girls but that mainly happened just in showers after gym so it was mainly about when did other girls start growing hair and how developed they were compared to me. I was one of the last ones starting to develop so was of course quite curious about what happened to others.

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Some of us have dark lips, while others have very light pink lips like myself. I have heard that has something to do with childbirth, but I have had two kids and mine are still virgin pink, so I am not so sure that urban legend is true? [/quote]I always thought that childbirth would maybe extend the labia minora out further, but not change its color.

The labia do change color somewhat during the menstrual cycle and pregnancy. Most notable in pregnancy they become browner or bluer pink. There is also a linea alba, which becomes the linea nigra during pregnancy from the belly button to vulva, which converts back to the linea alba several months after pregnancy. Other skin color changes take place over the body during and after pregnancy.

Some vulva information

http://www.youtube.com/watch?NR=1&v=yW-xaGjVGmg

I have always been very interested in other girls bodies. I remember the thrills of "truth or dare" "Strip spin the bottle" "Strip poker" and other such games at slumber parties.

To this day I still enjoy the company of mature women from time to time and find it very exciting to see them slowly expose their most private parts or do it for them. I am convinced that no two labias or vaginas are alike, and I don't remember ever seeing one of either that was not interesting and exciting. I also find the locker roooms and dressing areas at my gym and country club to be very erotic and good places to pussy and titty watch. Of course I also enjoy showing off my unique female parts to any and all who care to look. If I notice another girl looking me over, she is sure to at the very least leave only after witnessing an extended performance. Hopfully with a smile on her face and a wet pair of panties.

When I was 13, me and another girl I went to school with were talking and I convinced her we should undress and compare. I was not nervous to let her see me, and she was just as curious. We compared breast size, touched each other, then we took turns laying on her bed to look at vaginas. I wanted to ask her to play doctor but was too nervous.

When I was a teen, by best friend and myself inquisitive as teens are, checked out each other, including boobs and vagina (brief internal)

I did it to several of my friends.

My favourite game was -no surprise there- playing doctor. Mostly I played it with my female cousin who I was really close with. When we were alone in her or my room we always ended up playing doctor, taking turns for being the doctor/patient. We did vanilla stuff like feeling our tummies which for me was exciting already. But we were interested in our genital areas the most. I spread everything I could to see how it looked, I was really curious. I also slowly put the tip of my finger inside but I don't think I realized it could have gone much deeper as I didn't know the anatomy back then. She did similar things to me when I was in the role of the patient. And we always finished each other with the massage for the "treatment". We didn't know anything about sexual stuff back then, we let our curiosity lead us and did what felt good to each other. When we were teenagers we knew much more but we weren't any less curious. Then we "massaged" each other on purpose knowing what an orgasm was an all that. Everything still started as a doctor exam but we knew it was actually a sexual play. We kind of did internals too, but it was more like fingering with two fingers inside and at the same time massaging inner lips and clitoris which we then knew what and where it was. We never touched our rectums because we thought it was kind of dirty since the poop came out of there, lol. But thinking back I wish we had got ourselves a pair of latex gloves and tried some of that too.

I compared with my sister and my best friend.

I guess I have done this a couple times in my life the first was with 2 of my girlfriends in high school we were having a sleep over and we were getting ready for bed and we were in my room and we compared our breast sizes to each other first and then we were all talking about our boyfriends and we all got a little hot and the we started to play and kiss each other. Doing this play we compared our vaginas and enjoyed this greatly. Now as I have grown up one of these girlfriend is my lover who we share great intimate times together.

When I was a little girl I saw my vulva from the front very often when I was in front of my mum's full length mirror at home. I saw my mum's vulva often too and because she had a thick stripe of dark hair that went right under and she is an outie, I knew she was different to me. When I looked at it I wondered if I would look like that when I grew up.

But when I was 9 years old, the school swimming lessons started and none of the girls talked about it and we did not do anything odd like taking close looks but we could all see that then we really all looked the same between our legs when we could see from the front.

When I was about 11 I got more curious about what I really looked like underneath so I looked at myself with a hand mirror. I used to keep doing that often when I was developing and I still do it for self examination now. So I know my own vulva very well and by the time I was 14 years old I really looked just like my mum down there.

I think there was a bit more quiet comparing happening when I was about 12 and at school we had showers after playing sports. A lot of the girls tried to cover themselves a bit but we still knew that some girls had more pubic hair than other ones. I had bigger boobs and more pubic hair than all the other girls right through when we were developing and when I was 14 I really had the body of a woman. I know I looked different to most of the other girls so it is no wonder that they looked at me some times. There was a bit of rare talk about boob sizes (and our pubic hair too was talked about about twice I think) but I do not really remember us talking about the detail of what our labia were like.

When I was really little not really. I had a general knowledge but I didn't really look. When I was a little older I started playing doctor with a girl cousin and it did include pants being pulled down but the focus was more on 'shots in the bum' and maybe a rectal temp than on 'fronts'. Also I was way more often the patient than the doctor (even then) so I had much less exposure. I honestly didn't know I had something other than a pee hole there until 12 when I found out rather abruptly at the doctor's.

I knew it felt good to touch myself there from waaay back but I really didn't do much exploring other than humping pillows when I could get away with it.

I had a boyfriend at 14 with whom I was sexual (not intercourse) and I learned a WHOLE lot more from him. He was pretty talented (quite a bit older at 17).

As for checking out girls in the shower etc, well we all had full bushes, we tried to skip showering after gym as much as possible and we had individual shower stalls anyway so there wasn't a ton of opportunity. I did like looking at girl parts in pornography - still do. They're prettier than man parts.

My step-brother and I would examine each other when growing up and he would help me see myself by giving me a hand-mirror and holding my lips open while I checked inside. But I never got to compare myself in detail with an older woman until I was 18. I got involved with her and she showed me hers, and I showed her mine. It was a bit shocking compared to mine when she opened herself up. Hers was big both inside and out, darker, and to me somewhat ugly. She told me she had a baby, and all I could think of was that I don’t ever want to have a baby if that is what happens.

I have so many experiences with this, many of which occurred when I was a lot younger.

Growing up, my mom wasn’t modest at all. When she had to pee or poop, she had no problem leaving the door open while she was on the toilet. Same with showers or getting changed. I remember thinking that her vulva looked different than mine, because she had pubic hair while I was obviously bald, she had an outie while I had an innie, etc. but I do remember being pretty interested in looking at her vulva when I was little. When we were out and using public bathrooms, we would be in the same stall and take turns using the toilet. I recall always trying to sneak a peak between her legs. She would stand up and flush the toilet before pulling her pants up, which gave me more time to look.

Around the age of 9, I had a best friend. We frequently looked at each other’s vulvas. Whenever we were in my room alone we’d pull down our pants and show each other, and whenever she came over to go swimming we would both change in the bathroom and look at each other then. I also remember taking baths with her and stuff.

My cousin, who is a bit older than me, and I used to play doctor too. I was really young, probably around 4 or 5, and we’d play doctor together. I’d take off my pants, lay on her bed, spread my legs and have her look. Then she’d do the same for me.

As for looking at my own, I do that occasionally. I’ll look at everything down there

During swim team changing, I would check out certain girls a bit, but you can't see much... just like, how much pubic hair, breast size. But with my bff we did a lot of exploration of one another, like everything, we very much Played Doctor. Fascinating and so so so exciting.