I do not include the first time and the reason why is explained in the cavity search section.
What I think of the first proper time when I was at uni. 2 girls and a boy from my town had gone there, and in church when we were pre-teens we had promised to all a virginity pledge which meant we could not even kiss or hold hands, so we were very naïve about the opposite sex.
Studying biology I planned to pick out some samples in the hills and the boy from church went as a chaperone. We had walked for hours and we were getting hot and sweaty, so when we were walking back and found a pond we took our shoes and socks off and waded in.
After a while the guy asked if I fancied a swim and I said no because I did not want to get my undies wet. He told me that we could skinny dip and that he would go in first and he would not watch as I went in. I turned my back when he undressed and went in and he did the same for me. It was fantastic. When we started to get cold, we were about to leave before it dawned on us that we would have to get out together as we did not have anything to dry ourselves with except for out clothes. Very reluctantly I got out and sat down before laying down to dry quicker.
Up until this time, I had imagined that had been seen naked by anyone other than my husband, I would freak out, but being naked under the sun with another human being without being the slightest bit embarrassed was something I will never forget.
That afternoon we exorcized a lot of our demons and then this is where is got really surreal.
When we got back to uni, being co-ed he followed me into my room to dump my rucksack and we worked out that because you never knew was in pond water we better have a shower. We had never been near each other in the shower room, but I threw him a spare towel and without thinking we striped off, wrapped the towel around his waist and my body and we trotted off to the showers. Instead of each going into the individual showers with a curtain, we headed straight for the big shower where we showered with other men and women.
After that we showered together as I have just described, and when we were in each others rooms were often naked, but two things I cannot explain. Even though we were so intimate as friends (he was the first male to see my string), apart from a cuddle when either of us were down we never ever had any sexual contact, and I had come from the most repressive sexual background you would every find, but being nude in front of others never ever caused me the slightest twinge of embarrassment.