Speaking as someone who doesn't have one, I've always been intrigued with the pleasurable sensations men get from prostate massage.
I'd love to hear, or rather read, members who enjoy prostate exams describe what they feel like.
To me it feels amazing. I bought a massager a few years back and have worn it out! Once you get over the fear and the feeling of 'this is wrong' and get used to it, then it becomes amazing.
It is much better then just masturbation. Especially if you have waited quite a few days and built yourself up, using the prostate massager means it is all over very quickly and gets very messy!
You can see more about how it works in the graphic on this page: http://www.manstuffworld.com/male-prostate-massagers-good/638/
Well worth trying it out.
Digital stimulation with a finger is heavenly as long as fingernails are trimmed. A glove can aid in the process. Fingers can provide varying degrees of pressure both outside the anus and then with penetration. I find that anticipation builds with circular teasing before actual penetration. One drawback is that a finger may not reach far enough into the anal canal to provide direct massage to the prostate and all the surrounding tissues. This is where a dildo, douche nozzle, or similar instrument can be helpful.
Movement over and around the prostate gland provides wonderful sensations, and sometimes, some strong direct pressure enhances the build up of energy preceding orgasm.
I have found that I am quite sensitive from the head of my penis all the way down to the perineum where the muscles of the penis can be felt before turning inward and into the anal cavity. While I'm not as well endowed as many, I believe the total length of my penis includes that entire network of muscle and tissue between the prostate and head of my penis.
While many only consider stimulating the traditional protruding aspect of the penis, attention to the entire complex can enhance and trigger far more explosive orgasm/ejaculation. This added attention and stimulation requires time and patience and doesn't work if a "quickie" is the only desire.
There is some psychology involved also. Much as many women desire cuddling, kissing, and other types of foreplay, a good dose of attention to these other areas of the total sexual complex, can really provide a profound experience that gives the prostate the chance to empty fully. This may be where the fetishistic aspects of enema or medfet play become closely entertwined for many of us. For me, the nurse or masseuse is sure to provide the utmost in care, especially if she knows how to give a good enema along with other treatments. I suppose that others find some degree of stimulation with a doctor, mom, disciplinarian, or other type of figure.
Prostate massage may just be a well guarded secret that deprives many women from an ability to establish absolute control over their male partners and counterparts. It's hard to imagine that any guy could resist that most intimate of pleasures. If women mastered the art and employed it on a regular basis, many of us guys would be loathe to explore sexuality much further.
That being said, my affection for enemas is inextricably tied to the pleasures of prostate stimulation. I learned a great deal as a small boy, that the enema nozzle and the gradual increase in pressure, create sensations and tingles that were difficult to duplicate. While my fetish is likely more centered around enema and feminine hygiene equipment, the enemas produced sensations that had a profound effect on my body in terms of pleasure, relaxation, and a general sense of well being. Those sensations were directly tied to stimulation of my prostate.
Orgasm or ejaculation was significantly enhanced when direct prostate stimulation occurred. Any orgasm or ejaculation is fueled by the prostate, along with input from the psyche. Both heads have something to do with it. The one containing the brain is the control center and likely increases adrenaline or endorphins that affect heart rate and respiratory function.
Direct prostate stimulation may be a bit uncomfortable for some, if a degree of sexual arousal hasn't already been triggered. I suppose the same is true for G-spot stimulation in women. A gradual build up is most enjoyable. The movie that demonstrates massage and anal stimulation, along with an enema, would be the ultimate in my book. It works for the gals in the movie, and would rock my world to have someone incorporate all 3 aspects.
An enema or douche nozzle is a convenient implement, especially if attached to a bag full of water. Warm or cold produces a variety of sensations. A willing and enthusiastic partner or therapist allows for relaxation on the part of the recipient. Absent a desire for enema play, any dildo or prostate massager is great also. Different sizes work for different preferences. A good massage and clean playground, can set the stage for a great experience.
I have read a lot on this forum where guys are getting a prostate massage from female therapist? How do these women know where to find your prostate when they don't have one? As a rule of thumb prostate massage can be but does not have to be sexual. For the most part it is therapeutic. I see a lot of guys on here and it is all about the woman getting them off lol! As a massage therapist of 17 years I can say prostate massages are great and can be performed by either sex. Example: Just like you go to either doctor "man or woman" you should view prostate health the same way. Ok keeping it real we know it is the male G spot but when it comes to your health why make is sexual? Example: Men usually master hair-cutting, cooking(chiefs), concierges, and massage therapy. Take care of your prostate Therapeutically by all mean possible. Wrestler I do have to agree with you from a sexual stand point but from a therapeutic stance this could create shock in many guys. LOL! Wickedrub
I love having my prostate serviced by my woman.she has got the magic touch.i love getting up on all fours and having my ass up in the air for her to finger asshole to get to my prostate while at the same time she is stroking my cock and massaging my balls.its such a turn on that she was having her way with my ass, prostate and my cock.then it felt like heaven when i started to cum.cum was just pouring out of my dick.i really love have having my prostate and my asshole serviced.its a great feeling.
When my wife massages my prostate, I'll occasionally get an incredible sensation of her finger being 'inside' my penis. I know it's crazy, she's not even touching my penis, but the feeling is there. It's an amazingly wonderful sensation, but not strong enough to bring me to orgasm.
I have or should say we have discovered that a prolonged prostate massage also increases the amount of ejaculate that is produced during the orgasm. When stimulated several times during sex it seems the build up of intensity is also a buildup of fluids I dont know why this is but the force of the orgas is stronger as is the hardnes of my penis as well as the voulume of fluids.
Can't comment on what it feels like to receive obviously, but having given a prostate massage, I found it from the female perspective to be very arousing, not only the actual massage, but to see the Male recipient respond and enjoy it was just as exciting for me.
I experienced my first prostate massage a couple of years ago. I had read about them for some time, and then I happened to see an ad in a local newspaper for this Asian "holisitc" massage clinic that specialized in tantric and prostate massage. So I decided what the hell, you only live once, and made an appointment.
I had the most amazing massage therapist! And it must be true what they say, that "the smaller the chili pepper, the hotter the flavor", because she couldn't have been over 4'6" or weighed more than 70 lbs., but WOW, was she GOOD!!! She had me disrobe and cover myself with a towel, lying on my stomach. She began the session by giving me the most incredible back massage ever, then she had me turn over onto my back, as she proceeded to massage the front of my body as well as my legs and feet.
Just when I thought that it couldn't get any better, she removed the towel that had been covering me, noticed that I had become VERY "AROUSED", and asked me if I was ready for the tantric/prostate portion of the massage session. I somehow managed to formulate the words to signal that I was ready and she then asked me to spread my legs for her. I could then hear her putting on a pair of latex exam gloves, which she lubricated with K/Y.
Next thing I know, she has my penis in one hand and her finger from her other hand pressing against my anus. She tells me to get ready, take a deep breath in through my nose and out through my mouth a couple of times, and then she told me to "bear down" as if I were having a BM. I had no sooner started "pushing" when she inserted her finger all the way. At first I really thought it felt weird and maybe this had been a mistake, but then she struck oil! The very second she found my prostate and began gently massaging and pressing on it, my erection went from rock hard to a friggin' titanium rod!!! I didn't know that it was possible to have an erection that large without bursting blood vessels all over the place. And then came the moment when I had the most amazing and powerful orgasm EVER. I swear that the earth's rotational axis had momentarily shifted.
It was absolutely amazing and heart stopping. Absolutely the most intense orgasm/ejaculation of my life.
(Sorry that this story is so lengthy, folks! I just hope, for anyone who may be on the fence about trying this out, that after reading some positive reviews, that you decide to give it a shot. I promise, you will not be disappointed!!!)
It can be a bit uncomfortable until they get the hang of giving me the right amount of pressure in the correct spots.
When That happens, my orgasm is usually only a minute or two away and is so powerful as to be painful in some respects.
All good explinations. Here's mine to the ladies - - It's a combination of anal, along with prostate massage that makes it so intense for me. I'm getting the idea from personal experiences with ladies, as well as what I have read here, that anal area for both sexes is similar or the same. So now, when you add the prostate, I think it would be similar to adding the woman's G-Spot or clitoris. (Ladies, don't you wish you had three hands? LOL!)
It would be interesting to switch bodies with a woman for a few days to see first-hand (pun) what is the best thing to do for them! I suppose the first thing I would do in a woman's body is cuss while trying to get a bra on and then go find a lesbian!
I have a female family doctor.
When she checks my prostrate.......feels like a small lightning bolt is tickling the head of my penis.
Wished she would do it for a few minutes and I would go over the edge!
For me, all the above, plus when the prostate is massaged just so, I feel exquisite sensations "inside" my penis, like behind the frenulum. Sometimes I can get this feeling from my Aneros, but most frequently when my wife massages my prostate. It's really mind blowing the first time, but intensely pleasurable. At that point, I have to rub my penis & get an incredible strong orgasm.
If you insert a well lubricated index finger just a couple inches up his rectum and gently press toward his testicles in a come hither motion you'll find it. It's firm and oblong, and about the size of a walnut, depending on his health. He'll definately let you know when you hit it because guys are very sensitive back there. You can actually make him ejaculate by just massaging the prostate vigorously. Because if done right, a prostate massage is extremely pleasurable. It's also a very good preventive measure to health problems because it forces out stagnant built up fluids and toxins. Be sure to trim those nails or done an exam glove with a cotton ball in the end before sticking your finger up his behind. You don't want to cut or tear him up there.
The reason I still feel that male tops should experience prostate massage at some point to be better tops is that, for male on male sex, there is more than inserting a penis up the anus. If the top aims for the bladder, the bottom gets the sensation noted above of an urge to pee. If the top hits the sides of the rectum, the bottom gets the urge to defecate. The trick, quite simply achieved, is to reach the prostate and by watching a partner, it's obvious when the connection is being made. My way of describing what it feels like is simple: proof that male on male sex is natural because this is the best way for the partners to both have orgasms.
here is pic ... http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/a/a1/Prostatelead.jpg
darling gyno, you need to insert your dominant-side index finger inside his anus with him in gyno position and you looking at him as your gynecologist looks at you when he performs bimanual exam (that i hope to explore one day with you)--then you feel your way inside the (hopefully) empty cavity of his rectum and, about 6 centimeters inside, you push forward, towards his balls, from the inside of his rectum, and try to feel a bump that has the touch of a walnut--you need to rub a little around the anterior wall of the rectum as if he is younger than 40 this is a very small bump indeed--hope this helps and would love to play with you, you sound like a lot of fun and great spirit JA
just inside the anal canal.
also you can feel it between the ballsack and the anus.
When he's lying on his back, lube and insert your finger into his rectum and start curling it up toward his penis. The prostate is a firm, walnut-sized lump a couple inches in, behind the "wall" between the rectum and penis.
where exactly is the prostate gland in a male's bottom .
front near his genital area or ferther up .
im really not sure about how to find it .
nor know exactly what to feel for .
can some body please explain this to me please.
I love giving my man a prostate massage. When I find that spot with my finger, it's like it short circuits his brain. His eyes roll back and his mouth drops open. I start out slowly and gradually increase the speed and pressure as he gets closer. When he's about to come, his asshole clamps down hard on my finger.
Is the oozing of precum a "good sign" of me doing the right thing?I've tried to make my girlfriend find my prostate with her fingers, but i doesnt seem to make precum or get the same sensation out of it :(
Is the oozing of precum a "good sign" of me doing the right thing?
I've tried to make my girlfriend find my prostate with her fingers, but i doesnt seem to make precum or get the same sensation out of it :(
I think the amount of pre-cum depends on the individual. My bf doesn't produce much, period, but I've been with other guys who virtually gush the stuff. If you're not feeling anything when your gf fingers you, she probably isn't rubbing the prostate. It should feel like a large, hard button to the massage giver, and while I can't tell you from first-hand experience what it should feel like to you, it seems like you should definitely be feeling something. Whether the sensation is pleasant to you or not is also an individual thing, but you should feel something.
Should prostate-massaging be slow or fast?
I've managed to ooze ALOT of precum by playing with a specific rilled dildo, but i needed to use it very fast...
Should i just keep going? Will i then succeed in a sort of climax?
Nothing on this earth feels as good as a prostate massage....if she does it right. My girl blows my mind everytime she does it to me. I guess it feels so good because the prostate and anal canal is such a sensitive spot with lots of nerve endings. Then there's the equally effective psychological factor. It's extremely erotic to submit to rectal penetration by a pretty female. And the whole time she's doing the deed she's face to face with you giving you those gorgeous, sultry looks. I'm telling you, it fucks with your head having this done. I've never experienced nothing else like it!
"I had a prostate check about 20 years ago....."
It hard for me to believe the number of guys who do not have this check done regularly along with a PSA. Prostate cancer is curable when cought early. The DRE is uncomfortable but, does not hurt.
I have read about a prostate massage for years, and I have a prostate check every year in the course of my annual physical and the doctor pronounce everythig to be fine. However, over these many years I have never been able to feel the "walnut" (and don't want to discuss it with the doc) and thus, I guess, have missed out on some great times. Suggestions welcome - LOL.
I had a prostate check about 20 years ago and I remember it was not a comfortable feeling and it made me squirm.
I was glad when it was over but I would like to try it again to see if it gets any better.
Done correctly, it is the best experience a guy can have...Makes you come really hard
I have had now my 3rd one from my female practitioner. First I am very embarressed as the nursse gets me ready by putting me feet in stirrups. The doctor (female) then takes oil and rubs all around my penis, but not the penis itself. She then inserts eventually 2 fingers and massages around my perineum and sides of my groin. The nurse hands gloves etc to the doctor and eventually presses down on my pubic hair and massages my lower groin area. Maybe 10 minutes later I feel a continuous pain like a burning sensation that continues and gets more severe as the semen is being pushed up the urethra. She then releases the amount of pressure as prostate fluid begins to exit. I feel like I want to really have an orgasm but since there is no penis play, it is something that never really is accomplished.
My female alternative physician has me get a prostate massage every 4 months. It takes 30 minutes, in stirrups. She starts with rectal and internal anal exam. Very thorough prostate exam, 2 finger exam. Then she begins the massage process with her one, two and then sometimes three fingers. Depending on the impact, she sometimes sticks in a medical device that vibrates while she presses on my pubic hair and the area between my scrotum and anus. She does NOT stop until she gets a continuous secretion from my penis
I feel some deep pain as the semen is pushed up the urethra. The pain stays for several minutes until she is satisfied with the amount expelled from my prostate. I feel like masturbating but am afraid to ask.
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