Doctor's finger in your rectum

I'm not expecting her to find anything wrong so no fear. I've had 3 different ones check me in the last year. One of them had rather short fingers I guess as she kind of jammed her finger in several times like she was trying to reach it. That felt pretty good. 😃

@moliere I agree wholeheartedly. In another thread, the question was what's your favorite part of a physician's exam? I didn't have to ponder the question too long. The egress from the office hopefully with a good report.

I have to agree with this 100%. Getting older always ends up with the dreaded DRE which my old Doc saved for last and did pretty quick. Hands on knees slightly bent over and bam, done. I currently have a new Doc that I am still breaking in so we'll have to see how that goes with him. He's a lot younger than I am so it should be interesting.

Have a hot doctor, yet she doesn't ever do that kind of exam, or anything else that could be considered "fun". Guess I need to change providers!

There’s a lot of debate over the need/reliability of the DRE. Some docs rely on it some don’t. I read somewhere there is a 59% false-positive reading that leads to unnecessary biopsies. My urologist in Dallas did a DRE every year. My current doc says unless my PSA jumps up - or there is some other indication - or I want it checked - it isn’t necessary. Don’t know how to copy and paste links here on my iPhone - google “are DRE’s necessary“

at some age you have to weigh what will kill you first - prostate cancer or old age.

My urologist has told me about all the issues with a DRE and with a PSA. I told her that I still wanted both and she does both exams.

at some age you have to weigh what will kill you first - prostate cancer or old age.

That is true. My old man had prostate cancer and old age did kill him first. It depends on the type as well though. There are aggressive and there are slow growing. It depends on what type you have.

That is true. My old man had prostate cancer and old age did kill him first. It depends on the type as well though. There are aggressive and there are slow growing. It depends on what type you have.

I read somewhere that more men die with prostate cancer than from it.

I feel violated.

I feel violated.

Why? When you go to a doctor, you agree that he puts a finger in your rectum.

I feel violated.

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Why? When you go to a doctor, you agree that he puts a finger in your rectum.

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No, you do not. You agree to an examination. If you don't want a rectal exam or any other part of a "complete" exam, they cannot force it upon you. Exceptions would be things like the armed forces or if you are arrested.

No, you do not. You agree to an examination. If you don't want a rectal exam or any other part of a "complete" exam, they cannot force it upon you. Exceptions would be things like the armed forces or if you are arrested.

OK, you can refuse this exam, but I thought that @tigersinzoo had accepted it when he said that he felt violated, or he would have to give us more details, tell us under what circumstances that happened who could explain this feeling.

I had rectal exam once in my life so far. It was when I was student nurse, second year I believe.

It was done as part of college physical exam. It was not very comfortable, but since I am medical professional I know that is very important to get checked.

I could not tell too many details, as I was not trying to remember how does it feel, all I wanted to get it done and be over. I was trying to do as we say to our patients when are about to receive DRE: take deep breath, think about something nice, it only takes 10-15 seconds.

Sometime I do not understand guys who are moaning about getting their DRE in front of me, I am medic, I have seein it being done quite few times, no big deal.

I do feel different if naked versus having my briefs lowered to knees for genital and DRE. When totally bare, I am much more aware about how my penis is either retracted or hanging softly. I also feel more aware of spreading my legs shoulder width as he examines testicles and penis then does hernia check. When told to lean onto the table, I feel very self conscious. For whatever reasons having my briefs at my thighs gives a false sense of security. It is totally psychological. Not sure how others feel comparing briefs being lowered versus standing there naked!

For my first one it was a combo of excitement and anticipation/ nervousness. But for the rest of them (I've had them every year sometimes twice with my Gyn.), i sort of enjoy it. I get into this mindset that i must be checked, it's for my own good, and i get most excited . The pressure of her large finger quickly sliding into me and filling me. Then when it's done i feel all chilly and exposed down there in the stirrups, bc there is so much gel and prob my own wetness.

Had my first rectal exam done before going off to college. After the genital exam was told to bend over the table. Not expecting the exam given my age.

As a man I've only been in stirrups once, for a urodynamic test. Male doctor did not do a rectal but did insert the probe in my anus, then the female nurse monitored it as the doctor watched the screen and she removed it at the end of the test and wiped the lube off me.

About rectal exams I find male doctors a bit rough. The two female doctors who have inserted their fingers in my rectum were gentle by comparison.

The first rectal exam I received was at the age of 6 at the Pediatrician office. It was because I would only eat junk food. I was severely constipated mom took me to the doctors. The whole ride there I was fairly quiet because I was in pain and did not know what was going to happen once we got to the doctors. We arrived and sat in the waiting room when I was called into the back by the nurse. It was vitals height weight and asked why I was there. Mom said she dealing with constipation. The nurse left the room. Soon the doctor walked in and greeted like always. Hollie back again what for this time. Mom said constipated this time. Doctor checked my stomach pushed on it which really hurt so much. He listened to my stomach for bowel sounds. He said Hollie I need you to roll over on your left side and I am.going to lower your jeans and underwear. I was like doctor why. he said I need to do a rectal exam to see how blocked you are. I was so scared never had one done before. I remember him putting on gloves and lubing his finger with lube and saying relax and take a nice deep breath. Man when he inserted his finger I about jumped off the table. After he checked my rectum for stool. I was impacted so he gave me an enema at the office. Once he was done he talked.to my mom and.said.to.give me another enema at home. So the whole way home I was in tears crying because my bum was so sore from the doctor doing the rectal exam. But now when I go and have rectal exams it's nothing. I know what to expect.

The first time the doctors finger went into my bottom. I cried. She asked me to relax several times. There was no relaxing. I may have hurt her finger by clinching lol

Now? I’m still some how embarrassed by it. It’s uncomfortable. It doesn’t hurt. The finger is probably only in there for ten seconds but it feels like a month.

Not expecting the exam given my age. At my first DRE: Moments of being embarrassed. Instructed to lower pants and shorts, to bend over the long side of the table, hearing doctor pulling gloves out of the box and lubing his finger with KY. He then ordered me to relax and i could feel the cols sesnation onto my anus. Then his finger goes in. A strange feeling. Few moments of little burnng. He then turns his finger around, first on the left then to the right. Afterwards he checked my prostate. Tickling on the tip of my penis... Then he rapidly pulls his finger out. The most unpleasant moment for me.

My first time I had rectal exam/doctor's finger in my rectum was when I had to get my college full physical exam to start nurse studies. I was 18, just after finished school. Of course I knew about such exams, as I was reading quite a lot of medical books in my last few years in school, so it did not come as complete surprise. As a medical nurse I know what there are lot of unpleasant/uncomfortable medical exams/procedures, but they are important.

How did I feel during my first rectal exam?

Somehow uncomfortable, but I knew it was important and that it be quick. It was an interesting sensation when finger was moved in circle around my anus to relax it and then was pushed in fully. My anus felt full and somehow cold, as the Vaseline was cold. New sensation came again when doctor was rotating finger inside and then it was over...

Cannot say that one can get too much pleasure from such a sort of experience!

It's pure enjoyment. I like the feeling of being exposed and the doctor doing what they need to know. I just control myselt not to show I'm enjoying it LOL

Well, if I'm being at the doctor for real, I tend to tense up at that stage... I'm still bare and I can feel the "End" of the examination being close and wish it all was over. Probably there is a mixed feeling... because I like it and I don't want the doctor to see how much I'm enjoying, or simply because I'm tense from the start... not sure which.

During a play exam... I like to tense up a bit... enjoying the last sensation and going with the flow. If the "game" has been a good one, then I'm probably enjoying it, being bare and open to be seen... as my reaction can be "true". I mean I don't have to try and refrain if I am liking what I feel during that time. I also like to be helped down from the stirrup and made to bend over the table for the rectal... or both. First on the stirrups and then turned and bend down for a good "comparison".

I do feel different if naked versus having my briefs lowered to knees for genital and DRE. When totally bare, I am much more aware about how my penis is either retracted or hanging softly. For whatever reasons having my briefs at my thighs gives a false sense of security. It is totally psychological. Not sure how others feel comparing briefs being lowered versus standing there naked!

It is totally psychological because the doctor is going to see your genitals and your anus regardless of whether it is done with pants and shorts or just shorts pulled down versus completely naked. I take the opposite view in that I find it increases the embarrassment when shorts are down just below the genitals or buttocks they provide a frame for the part being examined. This underscores the fact that it is the genitals or buttocks are being exposed for inspection and examination. This is the main reason I enjoy masturbating with my briefs on but pulled down to imitate the look I give the doctor during examinations.

It's definitely a mix of several feelings and it also depends a lot on the doctor and how he or she did the exam. I have had some that were fairly quick and comfortable and some that were much longer than I expected and not so comfortable. The doctor at the private boys school I went to would do the longest and most uncomfortably stimulating prostate examinations I have ever had and most guys never get that when they are 13 to 18 like we did. I remember the feeling the first time he did the exam, I definitely was glad it was over

Not expecting the exam given my age. At my first DRE: Moments of being embarrassed. Instructed to lower pants and shorts, to bend over the long side of the table, hearing doctor pulling gloves out of the box and lubing his finger with KY. He then ordered me to relax and i could feel the cols sesnation onto my anus. Then his finger goes in. A strange feeling. Few moments of little burnng. He then turns his finger around, first on the left then to the right. Afterwards he checked my prostate. Tickling on the tip of my penis... Then he rapidly pulls his finger out. The most unpleasant moment for me.

Was him pulling finger out the most moment for you or you mean doctor finger in your ass?

If doctor was female would that been different?

At the end of my last physical i was expecting the usual prostate DRE but she didn't do it.

she has been my doctor for over 20 years and knows a lot about my kinky history .

i am very open with her.

we were finishing up and i said, "i have to ask a question i really don't want to ask but why no DRE?"

"I usually don't do that routinely because the blood test is such a good indicator but i can do it if you WANT me to!" and she laughed.

i laughingly declined but if there was a problem i would have told her. like the time i had felt something inside my anus in the shower and said,

"doc, i have to say something no man likes to say to his doctor but i need you to check something i felt inside my rectum."

she is a wonderful doctor and i am not on a fetish level with her in my mind. i admire and respect her and trust her totally.

she is everything a doctor could hope to be.

At least one person here said their doctor used two fingers for the rectal exam.

Can any medical professionals here explain why a two finger DRE is done? Does it achieve something that one finger cannot do?

At least one person here said their doctor used two fingers for the rectal exam.

Can any medical professionals here explain why a two finger DRE is done? Does it achieve something that one finger cannot do?

Was that for a real exam or a play exam?

@gwhap If I recall one post correct, it was the person's real doctor using two fingers for her rectal exam.

Personally I've probably had 8 or 9 DREs in my life and all were one finger, or at least I assume they were because when I've had a girlfriend put 2 fingers in there it felt a whole lot different than one.

Only had that done to me once and my feet were not in stirrups i was laying on my side,only lasted about 15 seconds,dont know what i felt about it really.