@Miss_Raven and I have a new friend that we have lots in common with (games, movies, doll collecting, etc). We both suspect that she might have a touch of a kinky side to her. For example, we suspect she may be an ABDL and possibly into some BDSM. We have hinted around, a little bit, to see if she is into it (not that we would ever "play" with her). She isn't the sharpest tool in the shed, if you know what I mean, but she is witty enough to "not know about kinky stuff". We totally think she is faking the not knowing. However, we live in a small, small town in the middle of the Bible Belt, so she may be afraid to let on she is curious. People here are very churchy and concerned about what others would think. SO IF we were better friends with her, knew her longer (at this point we have only known her a few months), we might be more open about MedFet and all the rest. She acted shocked once when we mentioned some people are into pain and shots. We shall see what all she shares with us as time goes by.
We don't just share with anyone, what we are into, just so you know. Not everyone understands it. Not everyone is accepting to a kinky side. I don't know, maybe in a few years people will be more tolerable to what they will accept. The world is changing. For now, unless someone openly gives me a hint about their kinky interests, I will keep mine to myself. I had a cousin that I could confide in, but he recently passed away (AIDS). He was openly gay and shared WAY more with me than I every wanted him to, lol. I don't think I told him about the MedFet, but he knew of my interests in some BDSM. I may have talked to another cousin or two (I literally have hundreds of them!) about it, but not like I did Jimmy. I guess my point is, if you find some sort of opening to talk to someone about it, then go for it.
Breazey