Does a doctor know if you play with anal toys?

Does a Doctor know if you play with anal toys or have been with a gay man when you have a rectal exam for any reason?

I guess if you want to try to convince the Doctor you have not had anal sex, you could exclaim, "Wow I've never felt that before!"

On the other hand, if you are trying to let the Doctor know you do, you could say, "Gosh, that always feels so good!"

If you have a loose sphincter or possible scarring inside the rectum, then perhaps the examining doctor might think along those lines. But even if he does, what business is it of his how you find sexual pleasure?

I doubt any physician would voice displeasure in an overt manner, or I would sincerely hope he wouldn't, for that would constitute quite an unprofessional demeanor to say the least.

That said, when I was young - 21 - my girlfriend and then later wife, once injured me by using an untrimmed finger in my backside. At the time we were busy enjoying ourselves, I didn't feel anything, but the next morning when I awoke it was like a red hot iron was stuck up my behind. But naively I thought it was due to hemorrhoids. When I got the examining doctor and told him my problem, he examined me and then with a (somewhat disapproving) smirk on his face, told me I had been injured internally. His demeanor revealed he thought I had been engaged in gay sex - back when it was not much accepted.

So what I mean is, even if you have outward signs of vigorous anal pleasuring, it still doesn't point to anything specific that a doctor should concern himself with and certainly not morally.

Watch out, he or she may come on to you... EVERY ONE has their kink. Luckily the zity family can come out into the open.

Cheers, have a great weekend

Skybear, loves to have my ass played with...

Yup, my Uro does know. That's because I mention it during each annual exam.

I think that enables him to give me the best available advice.

If your sphincter isn't destroyed, your Doctor can't notice anything.

But the question is: you like or dislike reveal this to your doctor?

Happy E.

Aquaman

Thanks for the information. I have always wondered about it, especially when i went for a prostate exam or lower gi. flent

Flent, also consider basic body language, doctors being observers. If you demonstrate a blankness about his or her positioning request or show extreme discomfort he or she would likely read that differently than receptive positioning with no prompting.

No, my doctor doesn't know that I play with anal toys. I will never tell her and she will never know.

My doctor doesn't know I play with anal toys and I see no reason why I should tell him.

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My doctor doesn't know I play with anal toys and I see no reason why I should tell him.

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Like susiejnes says there is no reason for a doctor know that and no real doctor will ever ask for that. Concerning the anal sphynters tone, a weekness may be felt at rectal touch though.