Booked my session, Now What?

Hello all, I am new to Medfet and was looking for some good ideas... Going for first MedFet session next week. Very excited

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Hello all, I am new to Medfet and was looking for some good ideas... Going for first MedFet session next week. Very excited

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She will almost certainly give you an opportunity to discuss the proposed scene with her. Just be careful though what you ask for and agree to, or, as has been said many times on these boards, you might just get it!!!!

Welcome to the playground! My advice is to take it slow and be very specific about what you would like and what you don't, and what is in between. There is an entire buffet out there, but you don't have to sample all of it your first time out of the gate. Decide on a safe word, something that is meaningful to you but that you're unlikely to say under the circumstances unless it's to stop the action. If your playmate gives the impression that he or she doesn,t understand what you want, or that he or she isn't respecting your boundaries, the party ends.

Just a few words of advice. Other than that, go have a great time, and let us know how it went. Enquiring minds want to knw.

Thank you for the responses, will let you know how it goes. Anything fun I should ask for or try?

If you don't know, let her just do you.

Ask for what You like, start slow, don't try to get every kink and fantasy in your first session. Have fun!

Have fun with it.

I certainly hope you're not going into this without some idea of what you want. A professional session can't be inexpensive and I would hate to make the investment and come out less than satisfied. What's your biggest fantasy, have you seen a video clip or read a story that rocks your world? It's your money, a professional should be able to accommodate you, within limits.

Don,

Listen to Big K and Lady, they are probably much better versed in this than I am and have given you great advice so far.

My suggestions to you are the following. From what I understand, and I have only viewed a few websites, but according to the two that I looked at, if it's your first session or even your first few the Mistress might want to have an "interview" with you first. This allows the both of you to get a feel for each other. During this time she will ask you exactly what it is you are looking for, what your wants and desires are, and what it is you want to get out of a session from her. Remember, this probably won't be her first time doing this, so she will have or should have some sort of ability to help you and understand what it is you are asking.

I am a list maker, so this might not apply to you. Chances are, you are going to be nervous and your mind will be running 50 miles an hour just trying to process what you are seeing, and 100 miles an hour once you start talking, or she does. So if you have a list of what you want, might like to try, interests or the like, you will be less likely to forget something, which might also leave you feeling the experience isn't all you wanted it to be. And at the price you will be paying, that would be very sad indeed. Plus with a list, you can give that to her as a reference, or guide as it were and from that list she will be able to give you a session that you want, instead of what she thinks you might like.

You need to look into yourself. Ask yourself the hard questions. What Do I want from the session? What am I expecting to happen? What will my safe word be? That is also a good thing to put on your list. What triggers your fetish, is it enemas, spanking, injections, rectal temps, all of the above? What do you want her to wear. In your dreams is she a nurse, a mistress, a Dom in all black? She may have an outfit to fit your wishes, but you have to let her know.

Another point to ponder that you must discuss with her prior is your pain tollerence. Is pain something you are willing to endure or not at all? Maybe you don't want your limits pushed at all. That is fine too, but you have to tell her what your limits are. Another good thing to put on your list. Also, if you don't know what you want, then tell her and be honest about it. She has had tons of people doing this sort of thing for their first time. Ask her to toss out a typical session, or give you some ideas. But, again, if you do this YOU still need to be the one to say what you are willing to do and what you are not. She will understand.

Remember, YOU are hiring her for a job, and that job is to fulfill your dreams, desires, wants and needs.

We have given you the answers, now all you have to do is look within yourself. Good luck!

Mashie

Don:

You've gotten some very good advice here.

If you don't care about your Dom being a man or woman, I know one way you can save yourself a lot of money.

Go to a major metropolitan airport. Get in line with the passengers. Have a bunch of road flares taped together beneath a coat or sweater, maybe with wires inserted in each one. Yell "hijack" as loud as you can and try to dodge going through the scanner.

For free, you'll get to be handcuffed, maybe even having ankle chains put on you.

I can guarantee that they will interview you 24/7, just to get a feel for you and what you want.

You will never again see anyone undress you so quickly. If you like it rough, now's your big opportunity. If you're an exhibitionist, I promise you that you'll get to stand in front of a large group of people Wearing only handcuffs, if not actually bound up and tied to some fixtures. If you're lucky, they'll have photographic souvenirs of your experience for you to take home.

Anal play will definitely be used to violate you.

If you get lucky enough, you might get heavily-tattooed cellmates who will gladly accomodate any desire you might have to be buggered.

If you want to try some first-rate pharmacuetical products, when they ask you what your motivation was for the road flares, shouting hijack and all that, tell them the truth: you just wanted to get a sampler of BDSM at no charge. I promise you that someone, sometime, will bare your bum and shoot you full of sedatives or tranquilizers.

They'll feed you nothing but cheese sandwiches and give you little to drink. In a day or two, you'll be so constipated that they'll gladly give you several enemas.

Everywhere you go, people are willing to give it to you rough. You want stern-faced people yelling at you, giving you orders, bosing you around every second of the day? Here's where you'll find the very best at being stern task masters and discipliarians.

About the only thing I can't promise you is that you'll have a smile on your face afterwards. So I guess that you're really paying for that smile, when it comes right down to it. Maybe going to a Mistress will be less of a drive, too.

On second thought, the airport experience is something you'll only get to experience once or twice.

Go see the mistress.

I wanted to follow-up and let everyone know how my session went. I ended up with a amazing mistress at DOIAZ here in AZ. They had a medical room and my fantasy was played out. The "nurse" was a gorgous blond who was dressed in a garter and corset. They had me strip down and put on a gown then we discussed the session. Since this was my first time I asked to be gental and for small objects.

The session began with me being on a medical table with my legs up in stir-ups. This was the first time i was put into this position and it was very erotic. The nurse started out with an enima and this was new to me. She had filled me up and when I could not hold it anymore I quickly walked to the bathroom and.....

Next I was back into the stir-ups and the fun began. She started with a small egg shaped vibrator and inserted it into me. The sensation was very stimulating. Next she began using different size vibrators and dildos and then began milking me. This was the first time I had my prostate milked and it was a different experience. I always thought that milking would make me cum but it was a whole different type of ejaculation or not even a ejaculation at all.

After that the nurse moved onto "sound" (think that was it). Was terribly scared of things being inserted into my penis but it was actually erotic. She did end up going a little to big but overall great experience.

Since this was a legal den, no touching of the mistress was allowed so that was very difficult. However she did finish me off with a icecream cone looking device (magic wand?) and after all the anal med play the explotion was amazing.

To sum it up I was sore the next morning but fully enjoyed the hour session and my first attempt at Medfet. I would repeat at the DOIAZ and recomend it to anyone.

Great time and hope you enjoy my experience.

MedFet? MedFet? is that what you think you got?

Does having a dominant female dressed as a nurse, your being in an exam gown, and being put into stirrups constitute a "MedFet" scenario?

Was there any "examination"? Were any real medical instruments used?

I think you had a dom/anal session . . . and, if you had fun, OK.

NotForMee, apparently you get the true meaning of med fet, but not everone does. It's like the difference between having a medical fetish and liking medical porn. The differences between both things in comparison is vast, but not everyone knows the difference.

Mashie

I've never had a Medfet session, but if I did, I would want it to be as realistic as possible. I wouldn't want a nurse wearing garters or being put in stirrups (as a male). To me, those things fall in the realm of fantasy or domination, which are fine, but not really medical in nature.

You are a good man jimmysquest. I'm giving you your first karmic bump. 0 >1

Mashie

Thanks, Mashie. For me, the appeal of Medfet is that it has aspects of humiliation and embarrassment, but takes place in a very vanilla setting. Once you start introducing fantasy elements into the scene, the whole balance changes. In my mind, a more realistic setting is much more exciting than a fantasy scene. Of course, everyone is different....

No, I completely agree. It is my opinion that people with a true medical fetish like to keep it as real as possible, that is the entire point. It all boils down to again what I call having a medical fetish and liking medical porn. There is a huge difference.

Mashie

It seems to me, if it is not realistic it is not MedFet, but just an excuse or cover for ordinary sex play.

I've never had a session either, but I actually would want it to be mainly realistic, just with some light fantasy elements in it. Now I'm not saying I want to just jump into medical porn, and have the doctor get naked, jump on the table, and have sex with me, but I like to have things done that a real doctor usually wouldn't do. For example, being naked from start to finish, having my temperature taken rectally, a more lengthy rectal and genital exam. Now chances are a real doctor wouldn't do things like that, but those are much more realistic procedures than what you would see in a medical porno.

For me it's all about logic, instead of telling me to get naked from the start, tell me what most doctors would say "strip to your underwear" but hey, I forgot I had a physical today and I'm not wearing any. Don't say "well there's only one way we take temperatures in this office" that way too unrealistic, maybe the oral thermometer broke and all you have is a rectal. Do you guys understand what I'm saying? Some elements of fantasy make it fun, while still keeping it somewhat realistic medfet.

Allways discuss what you are looking for sometimes easier in an email before hand.

The more realistic the better i think. Still looking for a Medfet Doc in the Uk to examine me.