How to tell your wife you want to give her a medical exam

I have no clue how to even bring it up with my girlfriend

My wife has no interest gets embarrassed anytime it comes up

Tell her you want to"look at her" spread her legs,lips,lick her a bit.She will enjoy bwing watched. Rub her clit and make it hard first, then start to examine

Easier said than done. in many marriages i believe that kind of dialogue just IS NOT going to take place...and yet each partner may be capable of having the MOST intimate sort of dialogue with a different partner. its not simple and the key is to find a like minded person with whom one has good vibrations...otherwise it just cant be legislated...i have no desire to say something like....roll over or spread your legs....etc....to some potential partners....and yet, i cant catch my breath thinking of having that convo with certain other women....go figure, eh