Have received the cane and numerous other implements, but now wishing to either buy a crop/ quirt and go Dom , or seek someone who has these and would use them on me.
What are your thoughts about these implements
I was caned once several years ago. I want to test my threshold for pain. I was able to take 15 strokes before I could not take anymore. First strokes are not bad, it gets real bad when she hit the same spot twice and pulled a large clump of skin…. Had trouble sitting for a while and had to use antibiotic salve….. The best way to describe the first swats are "stings"…..
Both the crop and the cane have good bites to them. Very lasting stinging sensation.
I have a crop with a narrow popper on the end which prevents the kind of damage that the tip of a cane would inflict, but still bites a little more than a crop with a wide popper. Visually, the crop is a much more interesting object to focus on ... the grip is better and it's texture can be used to caress and probe a person's body all over (including intimate places) without ever having to inflict an actual stroke ... the veiled threat of its possibilities don't even have to be discussed ... very erotic as far as I am concerned
Canes are not what I want to experience. If you've seen the marks they leave you'll know why. A crop is definitely my choice especially on my pussy and nipples.
Mashie's description is pretty accurate.
There is no comparison between the two.
One is a toy to get your attention, the other is weapon.
Canes are much too much for me. A crop w/ a nice wide leather popper on the end makes a sound that you just can't ignore & hurts just right. A bat ( the kind of stick a jockey would use) has a much narrower, stiffer leather popper, doesn't make nearly as much sound, hurts more & leaves marks faster in my limited experience
Buy both. A riding crop is cheap: $10-15 at your local horse & tack supply. Online canes are under $20 for 3. I use 3/8-1/4" bamboo sticks from the nursery supply. A 4 foot stick swung hard really hurts for a long time, like Mashie says. Other cheap spankers: 5-gallon paint can stirrer for the butt, and the small gallon can stirrer for the penis.
To be blunt the difference between a cane and a crop are like a fart. The cane is silent but deadly, the crop is noisy but not too painful. And again, this is just my opinion here from my own experiences. The cane is like a white hot searing pain that lasts and lasts. A crop is a stinging sort of a bite. Yes, it can be painful but in a few seconds the pain from the crop is gone more or less. When I got the ONE swat from the cane I was sore for a good 5 days. When it landed it hurt so bad it made my knees buckle and it took my breath away. Needless to say, once was enough for me, never again. The crop however is something that I highly enjoy and highly recommend. It makes a fantastic noise and gives you that amount of pain that is both pleasant and tollerable. Go and buy one, they are not expensive.
Hope this helps some.
Crops are designed to get attention and the bite tends to be direct and painful. I find them less painful than a cane but more difficult to ignore.
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