Obviously unprofessional exam

Have you ever visited a (Real) doctor, and had to lower your underwear, for obviously non professional medical reasons?

A friend of mine told me he was actually fondled by a doctor during a physical exam. He had mixed feelings, since he considered the doctor quite attractive, and felt complimented, yet he was in a relationship.

Have you seen it happening, how did you feel and react?

No.

Never professionally, off duty is a whole other thing.

I doubt this happens often, at least here in the US. I'd imagine a medical professional would lose their license very quickly if they ever did that sort of thing.

Only thing I can relate to is my school Dr at age 7 made me strip completly right from the off. While he checked my gait etc

Yes, when I was young, 16 or 17 years old. From one of the nurses and then the doctor. Both seemed to really enjoy my being nude without a gown.

I wonder what he meant by "fondling?"

Never happened to me that I can think of, but then again, what a layman might think is "fondling" may be the doctor checking his testicles, penis, etc.

I have heard my significant other hint at such things in her recounting a college sports physical, but I will have to investigate further..

Nope. If anything, my doctors have kept their checks of private areas rather brief and try to minimize exposure.

I've had to get naked on many occasions, but I don't think any of them were totally unneccessary.

I've been weighted in the nude, but that was just part of a physical when I'd have to undress anyway, so I don't really count that as unnessary... I suppose at worst I've just been naked for longer than I needed to have been.

Once, several years ago, o visited a f provider for the first *and last* time. For the genital check, she reached around me. Odd how I didn't see much of her name in practice very long after that. We didn't have them dropped longer, but the poisition... Well,..

During a pre-employment physical, the male doc insisted a genito-urinary exam and rectal exam were required, though the room wasn't set up for it- no stirrups, speculum, hemocult test, etc. I questioned him, but eventually gave in to his request to remove my panties and draw my knees up to my chest and spread apart. He examined and palpated my external genitalia, did a bi-manual exam, and a rectal exam in this position.

Sleepless,

Did you receive a form from your employer that listed what the exam should consist of? If so, was there a place for the examiner to check off or record observations about the genital or rectal area? I'm guessing the attractive women received the most thorough exams. The way that you were examined seems reminiscent of how genitals are examined as a teenager. Was it more embarrassing for you to be examined in this fashion?

Sensei1980

Sensai,

I didn't have a copy of the form- HR directed me to go to a corporate health/doc-in-a-box type facilities that perform drug tests, physicals, worker's comp type exams. When you check in, they pull up what you need to do based on what the employer ordered, so I never got to see for myself what the form entailed.

I think I was humiliated 1. because I wasn't expecting a detailed exam- thought it would be a listen to your heart and vital signs type of appointment, so I was surprised to even be in a gown, let alone asked to take my panties off, 2. the fact that it seemed like he was making it up because the room wasn't set up for a proper pelvic and rectal exam was suspicious, 3. he had the "creepy" vibe- much more humiliating to me to be exposed to an older man than a younger female, and 4. yes, the positioning felt like something I was subject to as a kid...it didn't feel like a professional exam, but more a spread your legs and let me cop a feel type of experience. The doctor really inspected and palpated my genitals thoroughly- much more so than my GYN has ever done, and the fact he did a bi-manual without a pap and a rectal without a hemocult made me feel like he was looking for an excuse to insert his fingers in me. I left feeling pretty violated and humilated, as opposed to the regular embarrasment of a GYN exam.

In that situation, I would have required a chaperone in the room.

When I was a teenager my doctor gave me what I thought was normal genital and anal exams but turned out after talking to friends years later that he was fondling me. I would always be told to strip to my briefs and wait for the doctor. He would begin feeling my body all over starting at the neck and moving down and the feet up the legs. He then to my further embarassment lift the band of my bries and look in at first then take his hand and feel my penis and balls for quite a long time. He would massage my balls and feel my penis until it became erect. He then would slide my briefs off and continue then move to an anal exam then back to my balls and penis. It was embarassing at first but I began to look forward to them. Things progressed as I got older in my teen years with each visit, until at a certain age I went to a GP for adults.

How did they progress, if it wouldn't bother you to tell your story? And didn't the doctor even listen to your heart and lungs at some point?

An older company doctor will get his jollies if the young lady or man are nice looking. The better looking you are the more over examined you will be. After you leave think what he may do in private as he reflects upon your examination.

An older company doctor will get his jollies if the young lady or man are nice looking. The better looking you are the more over examined you will be. After you leave think what he may do in private as he reflects upon your examination.

You have quite an imagination.

They get about as excited doing an exam as you do feeling a piece of fruit in the food store.