Every now and then, my husband needs an attitude adjustment. This involves me taking him over my knee even though he is quite a bit taller than me and outweighs me by 60 lbs. He is spanked on his bare buns until they are red. If he has been particularly "bad", he is paddled as well. We have a safe word but he had never used it. After which he will be given a two part enema series the first being soapy water and then followed with a warm water rinse. This has been very effective way for us to deal with a bad attitude and after the spanking and enema series, there are some very close moments between us in the bedroom.