Phyisical exam checklist

Since I have been unable to find a doc around here I have created my own physical exam checklist to take to a real Dr. Problem is getting them to do everything on the list or more to the point how to get them to go the extra steps and make it a very detailed exam and that they take the time to get up close and personal. So my question is does anyone out there have a good checklist to take to the exam.. or does anyone have something or a believable story that one could use to take in to get a exam. And for me it would be pelvic related, but please list anything you may like as well as I am sure there are others that would like the same thing.

I'd be surprised if anyone on this site would provide a "checklist" or make up a story which would assist you in wasting the time of professional medical personnel just to satisfy your desire.

You should concentrate your efforts on finding a play doc where your fantasies could be realised.

Your feigning some illness and going for an exam to a real physician to satisfy your prurient desires is not something my ethics or checkbook approves of. 😡

Somehow I don't see you going and paying cash for your exam which based on your desire to be a "detailed exam" would cost hundreds of dollars, which means my insurance premiums are subsidizing your kink and I don't like that and neither will anyone else who pays for insurance.

Id suggest you take a physical exam form to have completed. Tell them you need it done. Id send you the form..,

Your feigning some illness and going for an exam to a real physician to satisfy your prurient desires is not something my ethics or checkbook approves of. 😡

Somehow I don't see you going and paying cash for your exam which based on your desire to be a "detailed exam" would cost hundreds of dollars, which means my insurance premiums are subsidizing your kink and I don't like that and neither will anyone else who pays for insurance.

I have to agree with Switchablesusie. I would NEVER fake an illness just to satisfy my own selfish desires and my insurance paying for someone else to do it would be just as wrong. Sometimes you really do need to be patient when looking for a play doc. It can take months or even years to find one that is suitable for you and the needs that you have. Instead of looking for a way to get a real doctor to meet those desires why don't you put a little more time into finding the right play doc for you.

Do not confuse real exam and real doctor with play exam and playdoc.

If you have a fantasy about medfet you can talk with many playdoc and you'll find what you want.

Faking serious illness just to procure a fantasy during a medical exam is very extreme. However, my wife always loves to have her breasts palpated during her exam. She will continously ask did you feel the lump here after her doctor is finished with one breast and have her go back over her breast. Even in a different position. Maybe the answer is not to fake an illness but to ask if the doctor seems somthing during the exam that you have noticed before and just want to be completely sure everything is fine.

Agree with Rockdoc- we should not waste genuine professional time with our medfet.... look hard enough at the right places and you will find someone willing to cater for your FANTASIES

I agree with most everything said here. But if I am going inform my yearly physical I would just like them to do a full exam and not just do a few simple things like listing to my heart and lungs and watching me walk. I have had a lot of issues and surgerys so the more in depth the better.I have had cancer 3 times.. and its difficult getting a Dr. to take a good look. I thought a good and complete checklist would help. I also do not want to waist time or money.. I guess I will keep looking on the site and I am sure sooner or later will find something.

Dermatiologists (skin doctors) are interested in looking at skin anywhere on your body which may be abnormal. Moles, discolorations, lumps in the skin (epidermis) can sometimes lead to Cancer and that they want to prevent.

It is not unreasonable to ask a Dermatologist to examine your entire body, "privates" perineum, breasts, face, ears, toes or anything else you wish. No specifics are required of you to have this done. YOU are paying the doctor and he OR SHE--(your choice, regardless of your gender) has an obligation to examine you according to any general, (or specific,) reasonable request. All of us have some features on our skin we can mention, but it is entirely OK to ask for a full body exam and leave it at that. If you are asked about any areas of special concern, you can answer "nothing specific" or list anything you may want special attention to.

You can study the conditions which cause dark spots and other skin difficulties by searching for "Human Skin Cancer" or Skin conditions - Dermatology" on line. You may learn of some extreme examples, but know they are rare.

Dermatologists are specialists, and generally do not deal with problems UNDER the skin unless the skin itself is affected. Dentists can often deal with tissue or "skin" conditions inside the mouth.

Very many Dermatologists have another person in the room while doing the exam. Usually this is a female assistant, probably not a nurse (to keep the doctor's payroll costs down>😉 This person will perhaps take notes as the doctor cites some location and condition seen.

And this assistant will frequently of not always need to be watching the exam in case some patient should allege inappropriate action by the doctor. Occasionally, a mirror in the room will be angled so this person can see you, but you (maybe because of where the doctor is standing) cannot see that person.

The common treatment for skin areas which MIGHT become Cancerous is a nitrogen, or "freeze gun" which can be a bit painful briefly.

If you want to avoid skin problems, minimize your exposure to the sun. A tan may be beautiful now and yet long exposure over the years--most commonly to the face, arms and hands--can mean many trips to the Dermatologist, and increased risk of Cancer.

Has anyone had a very complete exam from a dermatologist? Mine have always been quick. Guess I need to find a better one. My exam is usually done in 2 minutes or less.

Why don't you jut be patient and wait for the right play doc to come along,going to a real doc like you are suggesting with a list in your head of what you want and having to make things up to get what you want,surley that would ruin the whole play dynamic,With a play doc if u can find one you can trust you can talk about what u both want first and know if you are both on same page or not.Believe me I am no expert have just been lucky finding such a nice play doc so soon,As I have said I think you realy need to be a bit more patient and it could work out better for you,Good luck with it all I think you have come to the right place to find what you are looking for.

Has anyone had a very complete exam from a dermatologist? Mine have always been quick. Guess I need to find a better one. My exam is usually done in 2 minutes or less.

SIERRA1982

Are you seeking an exam from an actual professional dermatologist in regard to a potential medical problem, or are you looking for a role play scenario?

If you have concerns regarding an actual medical condition these boards are not the correct place to be looking. Find professional medical help.

If it's role play you are looking for then Zity Biz is certainly the right place.

As Caz said, you have to be patient if you'll excuse the pun.

Sierra,

STOP raising my health insurance premium and everyone elses health insurance premiums! STOP waisting the time of medical professionals, physicians! STOP doing it even if you are paying cash! Are you aware of how you can be marked in the system for doing this??? As everyone has said, you need to find yourself a playdoc and be patient in finding the right one to live out your fantasy. I agree with all the counsel that has been directed to you regarding this. Skin cancer... one of the most easily prevented cancers. If you notice something wrong or amiss in your skin, point it out. Yes, yes dermotologists take skin cancer very seriously. You wasting their time is a selfish, narcisistic behavior directed at them, their staff and their patients, especially those patients who have skin cancer, family or friends with skin cancer. I take personal offense to this! I am very high risk for melanoma. It has killed many in my family. It also killed my Mom.

If you feel so strongly about wasting the precious time of real medical physicians and medical professionals, perhaps you should check yourself into some psychotherapy. They are the correct professionals to treat you for this behavior. Be careful they don't worry to strongly about you and deem you unstable enough to commit you. Though I am guessing you would also enjoy the consequences of being committed against your will.

~Just my humble opinion and thoughts~

And for me it would be pelvic related, but please list anything you may like as well as I am sure there are others that would like the same thing.

Sierra, your profile and an ad that you posted indicate that you're male. How could it be "pelvic related"?

That aside, If you are truly doing for your annual physical and you simply want to make sure you get a thorough exam, you should ask for one. That starts when you book the appointment, make sure you tell them that you want a thorough, head-to-toe physical exam, or complete checkup, or whatever terminology you wish to use. Ask them how much time they've allocated for the appointment and how long you should expect to be there. If it's just 10 minutes, they haven't gotten the message. When you arrive for your physical and are talking with the nurse, make sure you tell them why you're there and that you expected to receive a full physical. If the nurse doesn't have you undress or change into a gown, you're not about to receive a proper exam. During the actual physical, voice any real concerns to your doctor. For example, if you are concerned about testicular cancer, mention that as a suggestion to the doctor. If you have prostate cancer in your immediate family, make sure you mention that.

After all that, if you receive a less than complete exam, find another doctor.

I agree with the other posts here that your insurance will probably not like to pay for you to continually rush to the doctor just to get your kicks. That's not going to happen. However, it is commonly accepted that you should have a periodic physical, depending on your age and circumstances. And my feeling is that when you do that, you should expect one that is thorough. Otherwise you're putting your health at risk that they won't catch something. But it should be for the proper reason -- to monitor or discover any real health issues -- not to get your rocks off. At the same time, if you just happen to enjoy physical exams, then there's no reason that you can't enjoy the experience while you're there. But just make sure you're doing it for the right reasons in the first place.

I agree with what almost everyone says about your posts here Sierra.

To waste a doctors time with false symptoms, whether you pay for it or not, is not being responsible - for a number of reasons.

A check list? Yes of course you should make a note of what you are worried about in order that you don't forget to report something - But wanting a 'believable story' to tell smacks to me as someone wanting to, as JimmyJohnson says, 'get their rocks off'.

My concern about what you seem to be seeking would be your swing from 'pelvic related' to 'dermatology' and back to 'a full exam'. As to the content of an examination then that is surely for the doctor to decide. Perhaps you unwittingly reveal your true reason for going to the doctors - he takes the money he is due for time spent - and moves you out of his office?

So now you must make your mind up - either find a playdoc who will indulge you - or risk a kick up the ass from a genuine MD.

And JimmyJohnson said:-

Sierra, your profile and an ad that you posted indicate that you're male. How could it be "pelvic related"?

Sorry Jimmy, but we males have a pelvis too!

And JimmyJohnson said😧orry Jimmy, but we males have a pelvis too!

I stand corrected. But usually when you hear the word pelvic, it is related to a female exam. I have never gone to a doctor that announced "OK, I'm going to do your pelvic exam now." It's either, "I'm going to check your genitals now" or "let's have a look at your testicles". In my personal experience, it's never called "pelvic". But maybe I've just lived a sheltered life. 😃

I take some offence to some of the comments made. I have had skin cancer 3 times as well as skin graphs. My grandfather lost most of his face to it. So I go to the dr. For a real and legitimate reason. If you read down in the posts I was not the one who suggested the skin check. I just commented on how mine is not very complete. I got that from other post on this site. I have also had an abdomen tumor as well as bladder cancer. Not to mention Barretts disease along with many other medical issues. So although I do enjoy the dr. Visit I also have a very good reason to expect a very through exam. And from a lot of the post on this site I don't think I am getting that. I only go to the Dr. When I have a real issue, and I am not wasting any ones money. A play doc would be great and may help find other issues I may have. Some of which, like my abdomen tumor that I complained about for over 8 years to my GI Dr. And was told it was nothing... Boy were they wrong.... so please do not think the worst of people. Its not always what you think. I have never said I want to make something up! I have never faked a condition or illness. Just looking for a way to get a better & more complete exam.. sure wish I would of gotten the tumor out 8 years ago. Would of done a lot less damage. But year after year I just got the same answer. Then by accident they found it..