My husband and I enjoy several scenarios. Each one is only done a couple of times a year so they don't become mundane and tiresome.
The first one we started using was for me to act the part of the nurse, Miss Ryner, that gave him several enemas in the hospital.
Here is what we do:
There are three "Miss Ryner" enema scenarios named after the nurse who, when Marvin was 9-years old and in the hospital recovering from an emergency appendectomy, gave him 8 0f 11 enemas over 14-days. He fought the first enema given by another nurse tooth and nail and it took two nurses and an aid to hold him through it. Miss Ryner gave him the second and the third. The second enema, given by Miss Ryner, started with a struggle requiring another nurse and an aid to assist till part way through it he gave up and just took it crying and whimpering realizing at the end it had not been too bad. His third enema resulted in a climatic sexual experience for him and the remaining 6 she gave him resulted in near or actual (dry) climaxes.
The scenarios have developed over the years the first after we had been married for five years, the second about 6-years later and the third on the 20th anniversary of our first mutual enema session, which we also always celebrate. The first scenario is clinical, there is no sexual interaction between us and it follows as closely as possible to what he has told me about the experience. Of course there are some changes since he's no longer 9 and in a hospital. The other two scenarios are progressively more erotic. All three are given during one day far enough apart for him to be able to recover and experience satisfaction.
For now I will only describe the first scenario.
So that he experiences the same sensations of fullness, rather than the 990-ml (1-quart) enema he got when he was 9-yo, the enema is 2,000-ml. I also make up a reserve 2-quarts of enema in an insulated pitcher in case he hasn't achieved orgasm after taking the first 2. The combined feeling of the colon tube insertion and the enema volume in his colon has to reach a certain level to push him over the top, and he always has before he's taken 3,000-ml but I make up two for a total of 4 anyway. Also a bedpan isn't used, they are difficult to use without making a mess, nor do we have a bedside commode chair. When finished he gets up and I help him to the toilet just as if he were a little boy. He didn't know the size of the colon tube used but the one I use a 24-inch, F40, provides the feeling in his anus as he recalls it.
I dress like Miss Ryner did. White short sleeve nurses uniform with the hem line just below my knee, white panty hose although they were not around in 1959 when he had the experience but that doesn't matter since he never saw her dress pulled up. A white wing style nurses cap with a blue stripe, white low heel shoes, a gold graduation pin on the uniform collar, a pin on gold watch above my right breast and a white name tag with "E. Ryner" in black letters. And since I'm blond, an auburn shoulder length wig, the same hair color and length she had.
The equipment is a white 2000-ml Volrath can with an amber color rubber hose attached and a simple open or closed metal clamp. The can is marked on the inside in ounces and ml's. The delivery end of the hose has a glass connector inserted and attached to that is a 24-inch F-40 red colon tube with an opening on the end and on the side. Unlike in the hospital the tube is marked with India ink every 4-inches. Lubricant is Vaseline; Marvin remembers that there was usually a glob of lubricant put on the tip of the colon tube. I use squares of white cotton gauze to apply lubrication. Digital anal lubrication is not done. The can is always held up, never hung.
The enema is soapsuds with more soap then we use for regular soapsuds enemas to assure inducing cramping as he remembers it, I mix it in carefully making the water milky but not sudsy. Marvin admits that during the original enema the cramping wasn't really too bad but they did happen and to make the scenario as realistic as possible cramping needs to be assured so extra soap and if needed pressure via can elevation are used. A white enamel male urinal is also part of the scenario.
The enema is always a surprise event for him and usually takes place on a Saturday or Sunday morning. The night before I give him a good cleansing enema to assure that all the Miss Ryner enema will be taken. He does not know that the next morning Miss Ryner will enema him. Since we give recreational enemas to each other on a fairly regular basis the pre-enema doesn't announce what will be happening the next morning.
So much for the preliminaries.
I get up early without waking him, dress in the costume and take the urinal can into the bedroom, wake him, give him the urinal to use and tell him to use it if he has to and that it's time for his enema. Then I step into the bathroom and he can hear me preparing his enema. When it's ready I take it into the room along with a jar of Vaseline and a box of application gauze and put them on the bedside table, the hose is coiled around the can and he can see the colon tube. As I take the urinal from him I speak sternly to him and ask if he will take his enema without the fuss and resistance he put up the last two times or will I need to have another nurse and an aid to help hold him like we did then. He tells me that the last time the enema wasn't too bad and that he'll try to be good but to please not let it hurt. I ask him if it hurt yesterday and he tells me that it didn't too much only a little bit. I tell him that if he relaxes and does everything I tell him to that it shouldn't be too uncomfortable and he says he'll try.
I start by helping him into the "true" Simms position first by having him lie on his tummy then having him bring his right leg 2/3 of the way up to his chest, then I have him bend his left knee slightly, this turns his body slightly upward and far enough that I can clearly see his penis and scrotum. Their appearance, Penis erect or not erect and Scrotum contracted, along with his vocalization will be the indicators his enema is going as it should. (The object is to bring him to orgasm at the end just as he did the first time.) In the true Simms position his right arm is behind him.
I take a piece of white gauze put a glob of Vaseline on it, raise his right butt cheek and rub it on his anus, when I do he always gives a little gasp. Then I pick up the colon tube and as he watches me as I lube it to the first 4-inch mark and put a big glob of Vaseline on the tip, raising his right butt cheek again I put the tip of the tube against his anus rube it back and forth slightly a few times and tell him to take a deep breath, as he does I slowly push the first 4-inches of the tube into him with a twisting motion. He always comes out with a long moan and I ask; "Marvin does this hurt" and he says; "No Miss Ryner, no it doesn't." And, if it hasn't yet, I can see his penis starting to become erect. While holding the tube in him with my hand against his butt I lift the hose so he can see it and he watches me open the clamp, then I pick up the can and raise it about a foot and a half and watch the level go down as I tell him to take long deep breaths which he does. When it lowers about 600-ml, (about 20-ounces) if he hasn't cramped, I want him to cramp so I raise the can higher till he does and tells me it hurts. I close the clamp and as I put down the can I tell him to pant real fast like a puppy does and to tell me then the cramp goes away. As he does I put more lube on the gauze and lube the next 4 inches of tube. He tells me when the cramp passes and I tell him to take long slow breaths again, open the clamp, raise the can 2-feet and tell him that this should help keep cramps away as with a twisting motion I push 4 more inches of the tube into him. By this time he has become fully erect. When the enema has lowered to about 1,000-ml, (1-quart) because of the strong soap he usually cramps again, if not I raise the can higher so he will, and when he does I stop the flow, put down the can, tell him to puppy pant and lube another 4-inches of tube. When the cramp passes I resume the enema and push 4 more inches of tube into him and he always softly moans and begins squirming and gasping with pleasure, he has taken half or more of the enema and has a little over half the tube in him at this point. And his Penis is as ridged as when we were on our honeymoon.
(When I first started giving him these enemas, at this point he'd make a grab for his penis to masturbate and I'd slap his butt severely and tell him to stop that because if he came too soon he wouldn't want to take any more enema and he knew that he'd have to take it all and he'd stop. Eventually he learned to not attempt it anymore and just hold back till the end.)
When he's taken 1500-ml, (1.5-quarts) cramp or no cramp, I stop the enema, lube another 4 inches of tube as I'm telling him he's being such a good boy and how well he's doing, and to be sure he takes all of his enema this will help him, then I start the flow again and push 4 more inches into him. I do the same when he's taken 1800-ml with only 200 to go and then the tube is all the way in. He then reaches back and put his hand on mine and can feel the connector and asks if all the tube is in him and I tell him yes and that he only has a little more enema to go and he must take all of it like a good boy and I begin putting the last 200-ml into him. As I do he brings his left leg up beside his right one trapping his penis between his thighs and begins to flex masturbate. I raise the can as high as it can go to empty so he can hear it go Shhhuuuupppp. (This is an important part of the scenario.) And usually, his whole body stiffens and his thighs are rapidly flexing on his penis as he comes out with a long deep moan and "cumms." If he can't go over the top, I fill the can with the reserve enema solution and keep giving and coaching his breathing as he flex masturbates to orgasm.
As I mentioned at the beginning of the description the first Miss Ryner enema scenario is basically a clinical enema activity. The next two are progressively more erotic.
We will post the other Miss Ryner’s, and other’s we also enjoy in time but my intent is not a thread of just our activities but to provide a place for others to post their activities with a partner be it a mixed couple like Marvin and I or alike couples like Carlotta and I or two males or any number of people as long as the activities are real and not just fantasies.