Flirtarious / Dodgy FEMALE Medical Professionals

These days, the media is flooded with accounts of male doctors, nurses, and PAs behaving inappropriately with female patients. However- I'm wondering how many cases there have been where the shoe was on the other foot.

Have any of you, regardless of your own gender, even had an encounter with a dodgy female doctor, nurse, or PA- one who acted clearly flirtarious or provocative, or seemed to like her job a bit too much? Or heard / read stories from others?

An interesting question. I'm sure this happens regularly but just seems to be disregarded and considered acceptable / not worthy of consideration because it is the woman doctor abusing her position of power over a male patient. I would also be interested to hear of any experiences of this.

I have fostered and nutured a very good relationship with my doctor for the past several years. Occasionally ( in a good natured manner ) she has called me Studley or has gently rubbed my shoulders when I have been feeling tense. Some would say she may have crossed the line but we have developed a real bond over the years. I respect the balance of her kind nature and professionalism.

That's real cool Turkent. I wish I had a relationship like that with one of MY female doctors.

My ER physician for a severe acid reflux attack I suffered a couple years back was an attractive brunette in her late 40s. She was quite touchy-feely, albeit in a non-flirty way, ensuring my comfort. My attractive east indian female dentist, before she left that dental group, WAS very flirty, as well as being quite hands-on, though not overtly sexual.

What pisses me off is when once in a great while, a dude encounters a female medical staffer who shows him a little extra love and what does the dumbfuck do? He blabs about it all over the place. There was a case in the UK several years back where a guy was messing around with his attractive nurse, and they continued the relationship even after he was discharged. After she broke up with him a year later, he reports her to the medical board purely out of spite. The poor gal lost both her job and her license, and ended up committing suicide.

I hereby solemnly swear that if any woman medical staffer wants to get "fresh" with me, it'll be our little secret, and ours alone 😃 .

Nope. It's only us men who are the disgusting pigs. Women would never do such a thing!

/sarcasm

I guess it's just one of those things where the same behavior is viewed differently when it's coming from a man or from a woman. Sort of the way a woman can look beautiful and sexy while wearing a men's dress shirt but a man will only look ridiculous wearing any article of women's clothing... or... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=15uO8Za5Wc4

I used to go to a female physician, internal medicine, about my own age... we were both in our mid to late 40s. First time I was really nervous and my BP was way high. She had me strip-down to my birthday suit for the entire exam and afterwards re-took my BP and found it normal. After than, each year she began by having me strip and sort of made a game of the exam. And each year she would ask more and more questions about my sex life and performance. And incresed the time she spent with her hands on my body. Yes flirtatious!

Damn, dude... sounds like you hit the jackpot there. So what happened? Why is she no longer your physician?

Regarding post #6 are you sure it happened that way? I have a very hard time believing that it did. No poetic license ? In fact I have a hard time believing any of your posts. The intern said you had a nice penis? The lady doc measured your gonads? Right. Dream on. My BS meter was just pinned like Jds's avatar picture is.

Damn, dude... sounds like you hit the jackpot there. So what happened? Why is she no longer your physician?

Inappropriate behaviour towards a patient perhaps? If it really happened, that is.

It is very curious that inappropriate behavior appears to happen over and over to the same person .

Once I had a female dentist that was very flirtatious, she was very pretty too, blonde tall, but I knew she had a bf, another dentist so I didn't give too much ground to flirt

I've visited many female doctors with great personalities and none of them ever acted unprofessionally towards me.

No, never

It is an interesting question. I have a couple of thoughts on this:

Firstly women are much better at communication in general and have a much more hands on approach when conveying support, reassurance etc. So what you may interpret as "touchy feely" may not be the case at all. Men are always bad at interpreting women's non verbal forms of communication so you could always misinterpret friendly and caring for flirtatious ( we were taught to use the therapeutic touch, smile, eye contact etc) . Although that said I know a few nurses who are a bit flirtatious when they want an uncooperative patient to do what they want lol.

Secondly I will add that traditionally boys and men have always been offered less modesty than girls and women in a medical setting. So male modesty has always been an issue,so in some situations enforced nudity is seemed as the norm rather than the exception and less effort is made to preserve male modesty.

Thirdly I will say that some doctors are more thorough in the exams than others so if a female doctor takes a bit longer examining your genitals than a male doctor, it may be just that they are more thorough and conscientious ensuring that nothing is missed.

That said as with all professions there are individual both male and female that will be exhibit inappropriate behavior or "seemed to like her job a bit too much". Thought I think that men are less likely to report any untoward incident.

Every female medical professional that I've encountered has been totally professional in their conduct. It is their business, it is what they do for a living. Friendly and courteous are part of that too. And they should be able to expect and get the same from me as a patient.

I used to go to a female physician, internal medicine, about my own age... we were both in our mid to late 40s. First time I was really nervous and my BP was way high. She had me strip-down to my birthday suit for the entire exam and afterwards re-took my BP and found it normal. After than, each year she began by having me strip and sort of made a game of the exam. And each year she would ask more and more questions about my sex life and performance. And incresed the time she spent with her hands on my body. Yes flirtatious!

Did you find your doctor via Penthouse Letters?

I'm with you Quincy. Every one I've seen has been kind, professional and not in the least seductive. Men can be so naive.

Liquidsky, put another way, the average dork ain't got nothin' they want.

They might want the fee I guess but not the hassle. Any female doc I know would have the heebee jeebees dealing with such a patient and would rather pass it up.

My female doctor has always been completely professional. During one annual exam however, she was wearing a V-neck type blouse that really showed off her cleavage. I was very conflicted wanting to look, but at the same time, not wanting to sport an erection. I do not think she was intentionally trying to be provocative that day, just more as if that was the only item she found in her closet that day. All the other visits, she was more modestly dressed. Even though she is a bit older than me, she is a very attractive woman.

For reasons i wont get in to here i didnt first see any medical professional from my memory until well in to my teen years and i was also in a country were i didnt feel were i belonged at the time and my third ever exam was a nurse practitioner and she was absolutely enjoying having power over me and while it was not close to rape in my mind she abused me without question

My doctors, male and female, have always conducted themselves professionally. I wouldn't expect anything otherwise... that is their job.

I once asked a nurse if she enjoyed giving me injections in my bottom and she replied, "We're not supposed to admit it!".

I was told I have nice legs as my female doing my physical let her hands linger on them😃 I would call that flirtatious but not naughty😉