Why are you here.

I recently posted a comment about exams in another topic post and it has really confused me. I posted about GTA's And MUTA's. I also have read many posts here about many topics especially about medfet which is why I made it to this Board. Here is what is confusing me. This site is about a fetish for medical exams ie being turned on about being examined or examining a "patient." I then make a comment about exactly that and I get 2 replies that basically are calling me out on exactly that. So I guess what I am asking is why are you people here? Because the replies seem contradictory to the place this is or I thought this was. Now let me go on by saying maybe I took the replies wrong and the people were trying to protect what they thought were my intentions. In that place I apologize to anyone I have offended.

Well I'm turned on about the mere thought of being gynaecology examined in every detail and every way. So I do not understand why people would be offended.

No one needs to comment about the MUTA/GTA part as I just posted a thank you to 2 members in another post for enlightening me. If you want to post why you are here I would love to hear it. HeHe. I am still turned on by gyn exams though and the thought of being examined by a women "doctor."

Quite simple for me. I am erotically excited by most topics found on Zity. Rectal temps, enemas, suppositories, spanking and a few others. I have been fascinated by these topics most of my life. And here they are discussed, I hear stories and ideas from like minded persons, and mostly don't feel like the only person in the world who is interested by these things that most vanilla types think are bizarre. And I meet others just like me. Zity is a terrific site. Thanks, All. Not difficult at all.

I'm here because I'm aroused reading the real-life medical experiences of other people, as well as the numerous medfet fantasies and stories that are posted here. I also enjoy sharing my own experiences, as well as posting the fantasy stories that I've written.

Could not agree more, Jimmy!

I am here because it is the best site on the net.

Where I have met and chatted to many wonderful people.

Peace Caz

Why I am here? Well, I have chatted with some fantastic people from around the world who go beyond what many people are afraid to explore. Medically related topics, procedures and sexual enhancements to name a few are discussed without embarrassment or criticism. We all have sexual triggers to enjoyment and Zity lets us explore in fantasy or reality. Making special friends is great and I thoroughly enjoy all of you. My life is richer because of all of you. Thank you!

I'm here to share experience, phantasy, ideas, points of view... about auscultation, stethoscopes, heartbeats...

And to arouse others and to become aroused by writing and reading about these subjects. I'm a 100% Stethoscope and Heartbeat fetishist, and here, I find contact to other people who are alike. And that's a great thing !!!

I want to thank all other Stethoscope and Heartbeat fans for their contributions and I want to encourage them to carry on. The only pitty is, that so few German speaking people are interessted in Auscultation and Stethoscopes :-(

Regards:

RedStethGuy

Seriousman, I read all of your other posts and was getting ready to comment as to why some others "schooled" you. I think you are a fantastic member here and I am glad you are here. A lot of people would have been mad and left and what not but you read it and understood exactly what they were saying and why. I can't even begin to tell you how impressed I am with your maturity. Thank you so much for that. I also respect you because of how you handled yourself the last week or so. You Rock!

Now, to answer your question Seriousman. I came here almost 8 years ago now. I came from another site called UKGyn that is also a medical fetish site. It was getting really stale and not many were posting and it would be days between a new post. So a friend of mine directed me here. At the tail end of the other site and at the very start of me coming here I met my Doc. I am a real nurse, he is a real doctor, we are both kinky as hell, we fuck like rabbits all day and all night, and as of Jan 9th, we have been together for 8 years. We love each other more and more each day, but that's another story.

Originally I came here because while I am a real nurse I didn't understand fully what medical kink was. It had only been maybe 4-5 months that I even knew my feelings had a name and that I wasn't alone. So I came here to learn. I needed to learn almost everything. Growing up in an Amish community I was not exposed to anything growing up. Even after I got married I still led a very sheltered life and wasn't ever exposed to anything like this.

So as a professional nurse I had the skill set to do everything, but as we have well established in this site, work is work and play is play and they never mix. I specialize in patients with vents and trachs, also people in rehab. So I am a very no nonsense type of a nurse because if I wasn't then my patients would either die or they would never recover enough to leave and go home. But being a no nonsense nurse wasn't what most people were looking for, or so I thought, lol.

I can't even begin to tell you how much I have learned here over the 8 years. Everything from my fetish and all it entails to things I had never heard of or had ever imagined like adult babies. I have probably read just about every single post on here and continue to do so almost on a daily basis still. I am still learning every single day, and I have a ton still left to learn, I will never know it all and I'm happy that I will always be able to learn something.

After about 4 months I was asked to be a moderator here. I really didn't feel qualified to do so as I was such a newbie. After giving it some thought I remembered one of the first and most important things we learned in nursing school, that it was our duty to teach others. So I decided to take the job so that even though I was and am still learning qd that I had something I could contribute here. So that is what I try to do. That is why I am here. Besides that, I have some really good friends here, so this is my version of my "Bridge Club". LOL.

Mashie

I'm here because I always wanted to be a nurse even went to college for it , but I got sick and had to drop out six months shy of my degree. And then Later on went back to take a course and found out my credits had been espunged. So I never went back again. But if I had graduated I could have taken my RN boards and became a RN.

I am here because I want to understand why we behave the way we do, what motivates people to do certain things, what their beliefs are. I am ultimately trying to get to know myself better. I did not know there were websites like this one and I came across ZB accidentally while doing a search on a topic that was of interest to me. I wanted to see if there were people in this world that ever thought about it also...

To Mashie: I want to thank you for your wonderful comment and I appreciate your nice words.

To everyone: I came here because over the last several months I began to realize how I felt about examining and being examined. I have watched as many well women exams as I can and they are arousing at times, but I also find myself learning so much. I often find myself listening intently to the doctor or nurse explain things. I have never known so much about the female anatomy. The different glandular structures like the Bartholin's glands. I just find that pretty neat. The whole female anatomy is just simply amazing to me. I imagine a lot of us here both male or female feel the same way. I hope I can explain myself further over other posts.

I'm here because of my unique interest. Or as it is generalized - my fetish. I find that others here are the same as I. Maybe not the "same" interest for I have a dental one, so we are few and far between. But the same as in we all have our very own interest. Some the same and yet different - just as we all are in life. But yet in a vanilla world, our interests or fetishes, we are probably seen as different. So I'm here to be close to people who are just like me. The same - yet unique, and different in our very own way.

Also for some who like me wish to step out of their normal roles in life, and role play. Just for a time - be somewhere else. Be something else, fulfill oneself and one another's wants and desires.

Those are my thoughts. This was a good question and topic. One that i think about frequently. thanks for the opportunity to reflect.

Drm

I'm here because I enjoy reading these forums and I have friends on here that I enjoy chatting with and because I want to be here and can lol

I'm here because I enjoy writing about, reading about and discussing all forms of intimate medical examinations; real and imagined. I have real stories as well as fantasies to share and I enjoy reading the real stories and fantasies that others post here. I think this is a wonderful outlet for like-minded people to get together and express their feeling about a fetish that still (mostly) exists in the shadows. No one thinks twice about sharing a fantasy about a threesome or screwing a celebrity on a beach. So I come here to anonymously talk about and read about prostate exams, speculums, stirrups, stethoscopes, etc.

I am here because I enjoy sharing my infatuation with CFNM. My annual physicals with our female family doctor provide me one avenue to enjoy this scenario.

I am here because of my strong interests in exams and medfet, and this is one outlet for sharing those thoughts with other like minded people and indulging in my fetish in a safe way. I've also discovered it is a place where I can explore, learn and be exposed to new things, and often things that I hadn't ever thought about or considered.

I am here because of my peculiar medical fetish for buttock injections.

When I came to Zity, I was a very nervous gal with a medical fetish who had never told, talked to, or played with anyone about it. I came to zity as "nervouspt" the first time, thought the site was great... but scared myself away after 3 months. I closed my acct here and swore I'd not return. That lasted all of a couple months, lol!

Being on Zity has helped me see who I am. I cannot deny this part of myself, this part that loves medical exams, loves medicine, loves the potential sensuousness of it. I have learned about other kinks, and while I don't share the same opinion about several, I have learned how better to relate to and respond to those who share a difference of affection.

I also stay with Zity because I have developed a network of friends here. Being polite, respecting boundaries (even kinky ones!), learning to navigate this world that is Zity... it's not hard to make friends, be friends, and have a good kinky time. Being rude, consistently posting things in the wrong spots, or hijacking threads... you'll get called out real quick.

Anyway, this kinky gal has made her reply.

Demure

Just like most of the replies , I joined the site because of my medfet interest and to meet and interact with people with the same or similar interest . I must say that I have enjoyed being a member of zity and have developed a few close friendships. As stated by Jill2doctor , its a place where you can , explore, learn, share ideas and give or provide useful and pertinent information ( about condition, procedure etc), as well as being warned about potentially dangerous play.

As demure has said:

I also stay with Zity because I have developed a network of friends here. Being polite, respecting boundaries (even kinky ones!), learning to navigate this world that is Zity... it's not hard to make friends, be friends, and have a good kinky time. Being rude, consistently posting things in the wrong spots, or hijacking threads... you'll get called out real quick.

Being polite and respectful is the key to making and sustaining friends of any sex , people on zity are friendly and enjoy interacting and communicating about their medical fetish for the most part. Being rude, crude, annoying and harassing someone will only get you notice by the moderation team and possibly banned temporarily or permanently.

I'm here purely to read about and enjoy the real medical examination experiences people have.

I don't enjoy fiction, BDSM, enemas, diapers, etc. and that's ok! This community is large enough where you find exactly the topics you enjoy and go into as much or a little detail about them as you like.

I definitely like to read about other's experiences. Especially when people go into great details about their examination. Some of the things I read are definitely new to me, and it's interesting to read their accounts.

I was turned on (get it, get it?) to the site by a dear friend who has helped me explore the topic of medfet more deeply than I had previously allowed myself to. I enjoy reading everyone's experiences (both the ones I can relate to and those I surely can not!)

I am here because I've found a forum that is full of discussions posted on by people who have a medical fetish. Just like me, and for a long time I thought I was the only one who felt like that. I enjoy reading the topics and there are plenty of interesting discussions that are not medical fetish as well. I think I can learn a lot from this site. I am still learning where everything is though and there is so much to read that I know I'll have plenty of kinky posts to read for a long time to come.

Everybody seems very friendly too.

The earliest fantasies I can remember revolved around medical play and some of my earliest, most positive sexual experiences I've had were doc/patient role plays. It's still something I think about--but, as other folks have similarly mentioned, felt like I was in the minority of people interested in this. It's a means to talk about this interest with people who are operating on the same wavelength and I don't have to worry about raised eyebrows. And I also think that people on here are well mannered and not predatory on here--and given that some discussions can get very sexual in nature, that's a rare and welcome combination.

This is a safe place where I quickly learned that my medical fetish was not mine alone. As a young boy, I was immediately "hooked" whenever a doctor would ask me to remove my shirt. To this day, auscultation remains my favorite part of an exam... this is closely followed by an EKG. As I matured and my body developed, displaying my body hair also was tied into the auscultation intensity. Not knowing what to expect and the display of my naked body before a male doctor also plays a pivotal part of my fetish. The likelihood of an erection and leakage of precum also play an intensity that feeds my fetish. This place lets me know that I am not alone and that my fetish is not uniquely mine.

I came here wanting to find more info on enemas. I'm not into medfet at all; but, I'm into enemas, anal play and golden showers. There's plenty of posts on those topics to keep me quite happy. Also, since coming here I've discovered I like wearing diapers; and, there is no shortage of discussions on that topic, either.

To share my love of medfet with others.

To read others thoughts on medfet and taking comfort in knowing that I'm not alone.

To chat with and meet potential playmates.

To see pictures and read stories that help fuel my fantasies.

To get answers to questions I have about things like e-stim and prostate toys.

I am really hoping to find a role play scenario in Missouri or Kansas related to medfet.