Humilating the school boys

Back in my middle school days when us girls started learning about how male physicals were done we would try to embarrass the boys. One time in study hall several of us sat near a group of boys and started randomly coughing. Some boys showed signs of embarrassment others appeared to enjoy that we know and would start telling us even more.

Picking on a group or targeting someone who wants the attention is fine. Doing the same to an individual who is quiet and shy is not proper. This guy told us about this boy who was not giving a proper cough and the doctor kept telling him to cough again. Me being an attention grabbing wise ass teen asked what his name was. What my friend and I did to that kid was so cruel reenacting the story we were told.

I am not sure where you are going with this. So you embarassed and mocked an awkward and shy teen boy. Are you feeling guilty about your actions? Is this some kind of confession? Are you seeking redemption? If there is a point to this please elaborate.

I knew of some girls in high school that would ask guys about their physicals. Their primary targets were usually the popular & shy guys. Usually comments started as we waited in line to see the doctor. Some girls would ask you some things like the following to embarrass you. I guess it made you feel better about yourselves.

1. do you really have to pull your pants/underwear down for the doctor.?

2. Do you like it when the doctor feels your "dick and balls"? Do/did you get hard?

3. Or when they would see you they just go "cough, cough"

4. My brother/ boyfriend says the doctor also does _________ (blank) . )Example: foreskin, pee-hole or look at you butt hole.)

I never understood why some girls thought It was so funny . I'm pretty sure if I or my friends asked you about your exam it would NOT be so funny.

. . . . Picking on a group or targeting someone who wants the attention is fine. Doing the same to an individual who is quiet and shy is not proper. This guy told us about this boy who was not giving a proper cough and the doctor kept telling him to cough again. Me being an attention grabbing wise ass teen asked what his name was. What my friend and I did to that kid was so cruel reenacting the story we were told.

. . . .so, you're telling us you were/are a bitch to an innocent, shy, quiet boy and you want some sort of recognition for it???????

Picking on a group or targeting someone who wants the attention is fine. Doing the same to an individual who is quiet and shy is not proper.

What my friend and I did to that kid was so cruel reenacting the story we were told.

Obviously, the author demonstrates a sense of compunction for her past transgressions.

I am saying I regret what I did as a immature young teen from about age 12 to 14 I dealt with a lot of peer pressure to fit in.

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Sadly we can not turn the clock back And yes I do feel compunction. I am speaking of the distant past not the present. The important part is I matured out of it.

My man says I should spend my spare time in a more constructive fashion perhaps he is correct. Will stick to the candy coated fluff as I do under my real name.

When you open yourself up to others you are placing yourself into a vulnerable state. And that is what I did here unintentionally. 😞

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Reminds me of a joke 30 year old guy goes for a job interview the employer pulls out his elementary school records. "See you were blowing spit balls in 5th grade we do not tolerate that behavior in our office" 😮

Reminds me of a joke 30 year old guy goes for a job interview the employer pulls out his elementary school records. "See you were blowing spit balls in 5th grade we do not tolerate that behavior in our office" 😮

You think that's a joke? Apparently you have never been subjected to a Defense Department security clearance investigation. ?

Not in junior high but as a freshman in high school, I remember high school girls who knew that the guys had group physicals for sports before school started and had to talk about it to embarrass us. These were older girls, not freshman girls, and they got a kick out of asking freshman boys in the cafeteria or homeroom some embarrassing question about their physicals. They seem to know a lot about what went on so they probably had older brothers who had told them or there were always a few girls who had to wait outside the gym while the physicals went on. Some of those waiting probably got a peek through the gym doors as boys arrived and left the exams. There was always a crude angle to their questions to us. Anything from being asked whether we liked it when the doctor handled our dick and balls to whether we got hard in front of the other boys during the exams. One mean girl suggested that no freshman boy really needs a jockstrap yet and embarrassed the hell out of a friend of mine by asking him in homeroom whether his balls had dropped yet.

I had a female friend in elementary school and high school who was VERY curious about boys' medical experiences. Her name was Tammy. My school had a notoriously detailed and comprehensive physical exam between 6th and 7th grade and then again between 9th and 10th that was even more involved for kids who were in sports. Tammy had an older brother who had already been through it and she had a lot of fun bringing it up, mixing truth with quasi-truth with wholly fictional ideas she had in her head about what was going to be done to the boys (for example, she talked about mandatory undressing, which was true but also insisted that the doctors "put a stick in your wiener" which was an exaggeration of the STD swab they did with us in HS. And then she swore it was true that we would get needles in all body parts, not true. Just regular shots and blood work). But she literally talked about it all the time in 6th grade and her ramblings about it would include which boys already had pubic hair and how that would be seen, etc. It was embarrassing but also kind of exciting because I was already aware that doctor stuff was an interest of mine.

When I was young I had to take an army physical. This entailed having testicles felt, apparently to check there were two of them. The doctor was a female. I was a college student at the time, and it was known among male students that this was how it was done, at least at that barracks. Some girls smiled at the thought.

I told the story on another post, somewhere on here, about a sports physical in high school where us guys had to undress to our underwear, (I was wearing briefs in those days,) and wait for our turn with the doctor. About 4-6 guys standing around in this small room, just in our shorts.

While my physical was being done, a couple of my female classmates came in to the nurse's outer office which was adjacent to the exam room. They were there for Tylenol, and the door was left ajar several inches by the last guy who left. I think the girls glanced through the door and could see the guys standing there in the back room, but I could just see the girls slightly from the side as I sat on the exam table. About this point, the doctor had me stand in front of him and he pulled my briefs down to about my knees, to do the hernia check. The girls stepped back from the nurse's desk while she went to get the Tylenol for them. I suspected they could see into the exam room, but this was just when the doctor turned me around and had me bend over the exam table and he did a visual check of my anus. He didn't insert anything into me, just a quick spread and check. Then he told me I could pull my briefs back up and go get dressed again. As I was walking to the back room I could hear the girls thanking the nurse for the Tylenol, then leaving.

In the back room, I found all the other guys kind of trying to scrunch into one corner to be as out of view from the doorway as possible! I got dressed, and when I was walking out of the nurse's office I found the two girls still standing there in the hallway, whispering to each other. Any uncertainty I had about whether they had seen me was answered when they looked at me and burst into giggles.

Although they did continue to giggle when they'd look at me in class for a few days after that, I don't believe they told anyone else. This surprised me, as these two weren't otherwise known for their discretion.

Will stick to the candy coated fluff as I do under my real name. When you open yourself up to others you are placing yourself into a vulnerable state. And that is what I did here unintentionally. 😞

@Mizz Lenka, i would hope that you would remain open to sharing sensitive issues & not be discouraged by responses from others. I think it influences others to be open in what they share as well, which i think contributes to make this a better site. Though most of the folks on here are typically non-judgmental and they don't label, I can certainly understand & relate to where you are coming from, when you read a response that kind of makes you regret an attempt to open yourself up to others.

I had a female friend in elementary school and high school who was VERY curious about boys' medical experiences.

When you come to think of that, and also the questions Surf12's post mentions that girls have asked, THOSE are the girls we should have hit on for dates, because they're already curious & thinking about male anatomy.

They were there for Tylenol....., As I was walking to the back room I could hear the girls thanking the nurse for the Tylenol, then leaving.

Do we think they were REALLY there for the Tylenol, or were they aware that was the day there was something going on they were curious about, and wanted an excuse to be nearby at the right time......

Again, THOSE were the girls we should have asked out........

I can only agree. I had a few medical exams in school. and some girls were really curious about the boys exams. maybe this was also the case because of the double standards: the boys were examined fully naked each time including a genital check (single exams) while the girls were allowed to keep their underwear on. they were really curious and asked questions like "did you really have to strip everything off?", "how long have you been naked?", "does the doc examine you down there?", "did he/she say anything?", etc.

This was in high school. Even worse was it when I was 17 years old. At that time we still had military service in germany and all boys age 17/18 had to undergo a compulsory draft physical exam. While the girls were just curious about the school exam, they were even more curious about this military exam (called Musterung). Some just were curious and asked questions, some had compassion with us boys but were happy not to undergo such an exam, but some were really schadenfroh, asked questions and made comments. These girls thought it was funny, that we had to undergo an exam strip completely and have a compulsory genital exam.

I can fully agree to Jan-Germany. In my school time at grammar school i got so often embarrassing and humiliating questions and comments about my exams; I got those questions every year when we had our yearly school exams, mostly I was asked why I was so long in the exam room, because my exam was mostly the longest of all, and if I had to undress everything and was examined fully naked, too, how I was examined down there, also what the doctor did and say then, and I always got the questions about the letter what I always got after the school exam every year, in which my mom was ordered to go to other doctors for further more intense exams because of several diagnosis. Some girls were laughing about my exam, others were pity about me and few appreciated that I was examined so thoroughly and long; they said "it´s no wonder, you are so often ill", "you look so ill" and "no wonder, with your sick stomach and conspicuous outie-navel" and some other comments, what depressed me always.

It was nearly the same, when I missed at school because my mom took me often to other doctors and exams by the paediatrician, the dermatologist (full body mole exams), to the gastroenterologist (at the clinic because of my often abdominal problems).and later the urologist (because of lost or late puberty), to which I had to undergo regularly. Mostly the girls wanted to know the next days, why I was there, how the exam went, if I was completely naked again, how long, and what happened and what the doctors said. I thought about that when I was still lying on the exam table, that my class members would ask me the next day. It was so humiliating and embarrassing! So, what I hated most was, when my mom picked me up from the school during a school lesson to bring me to an exam, because everybody in my class asked and knew then to which doctor and exam I had to go now. I was always embarrassed by leaving the class room, when some said "all the best" and "we think about you"...!

So, what I hated most was, when my mom picked me up from the school during a school lesson to bring me to an exam, because everybody in my class asked and knew then to which doctor and exam I had to go now. I was always embarrassed by leaving the class room, when some said "all the best" and "we think about you"...!

The pity was worse than the disdain I guess ...

But just out of naughty curiosity on my part - wouldn't all of the questioning really been a good starting point for more intimacies with the girls? I guess at that young age I wouldn't have thought of it back then, but now, if female friends seemed so curious I'd interpret that as an interest of a certain kind that could lead to much more ...

The pity was worse than the disdain I guess ...

But just out of naughty curiosity on my part - wouldn't all of the questioning really been a good starting point for more intimacies with the girls? I guess at that young age I wouldn't have thought of it back then, but now, if female friends seemed so curious I'd interpret that as an interest of a certain kind that could lead to much more ...

Of course, my pity was endless at that time, so that all questioning in my teenage time was not the starting point for more intimacies with girls, I was much too shy! But later during my nursing education, I learned to deal with all that questions, because I was the only male class member and my illness history was interesting to most others and I was often "the patient" in the lessons. And I was often asked more and more in the student rooming house by the girls and sometimes had to show more...

"Jan Germany"

I am surprised that you have found strange that your girl's classmates were interested by your physical examinations for military service what was called in Germany Musterung.

Of course they knew that you had to go to a medical center for a thorough medical exam as a draftee during your last year of high school and that it was performed naked

It was the same in France , it was well known in all families, so by men as well as by women and girls ( sisters, classmates girls, female cousins and so on) , that a male teenager was called to report in front of a draft board commission for military service until 1966 as soon as he was 18 age or in a military pre-induction center after 1966.

It was not all a secret, sometimes there was a talk about it in a family lunch or dinner, so every male teenager knew what would happen to him during the physical examination ( the nudity in group was the rule for years) and that the neighbors and members of family or classmates knew it also ( of course it was different for me because I was in a boys only high school that if I would have been in a mixed high school like it is today) so there could be an embarrassment but not a surprise.

"Jan Germany

I am not surprised by the interest of your girl's classmates when you were at high school for your compulsory draft physical examinations for military service at the age of 17/18, what was called in Germany Musterung.

Of course they knew that you had to go to a medical center for a thorough medical exam as a draftee during your year of high school when you had between 17 and 18 age ( in France we were called to report at a compulsory draft physical examination only after we had reached 18 age) and they knew that it was performed naked, which was a good reason to be interested..

It was the same in France, it was well known in all families, so by men and boys as well as by women and girls ( sisters, classmates girls, female cousins and so on) , that a male teenager was called to report in front of a draft board commission for military service until 1966 as soon as he was 18 age or in a military pre-induction center after 1966 until the end of military service in the last 90's.

It was not all a secret, sometimes there was a talk about it in a family lunch or dinner, so every male teenager knew what would happen to him during the physical examination ( the nudity in group was the rule for years) and that the neighbors and members of family or classmates knew it also ( of course it was different for me because I was in a boys only high school than if I would have been in a mixed gender high school like it is today), so there could be an embarrassment but not a surprise.

You said that the girls were even much more curious about these examinations than about those performed at schools. I can understand that because the girls knew that they would never be submitted to such examinations for military service on the reverse of boys who had to undergo them. It was a real avantage given to girls.

The different attitude or feeling of the girls were logical : simple curiosity for some of them who asked questions, compassion for others even if they were glad to be never submitted to such examinations where the boys had to strip naked and had a genital examination, and constant taunts for others who liked to joke about the boys, who were mischievous and made comments about the way in which the boys were treated, finding funny that they were naked and had a genital inspection. They could be gloating in that situation since they knew that they would never be submitted to these naked examinations and they could be happy of what could be considered as a real double standard.

But it had been the reverse, do you think really that the boys would have thought differently?

And if the boys had refused to answer to questions, they would have not known much about the examinations. I understand that the boys who were shy and modest and not comfortable with girls were very embarrassed by these questions but the better attitude was to to ignore them.

As regards the school examination, I am not sure that the curiosity of girls about the examination of boys was higher than that of boys about the girls examination, why would it be different ?

And normally except if the boy's students liked to relate their examination to their girl's classmates, I don't think that they knew much about these examinations, except may be that the boys were naked unlike them, but certainly not how the doctor was performing the genital check which was a regular part of each of your school examination.

You talk of a double standard for the school examinations, it was common several years ago, so it was very possible that the girls knew that the boys were forced to strip completely to be fully naked while they were allowed to keep their underwear. I don't agree with that double standard but it was so wide spread in many countries.

It was why the examination of boys were so interesting for girls.

May be the girls knew it because of family talks before and after the physical examination for those who had brothers or it was because of rumors and gossips inside the school.

But I doubt that the school staff or the medical staff had talked about it.

So it was logical that the girls wanted to know more about the boys exams, especially how long time they stayed naked, or what said the doctor or how was performed the check of their genitals and it was for them a reason to giggle in front of boys but the reverse would have been so true.

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We got the same from the girls but it was worse because our school medical were performed by the school nurse. This was not too bad in the first three years because the nurse was in her 50's. but that changed for the last two years. The new nurse was in her 20's and a right cracker. She made many of the boys get excited when she did the cough and drop test.

All the girls teased the boys after she had examined them!

Did any other guys turn the tables by asking the girls if the doctor played with their boobs?

I posted earlier in this link, about school / sports physical in high school. It was amusing the double standards between the girls and guys physicals. The exams were done during September, usually the were girls first then the guys.

The girls physical: A day would come where all the guys would have P.E. alone because the girls had "testing". The translation -their physicals were being done in the smaller gym. The only thing the girls would tell you that changed into their P.E. clothes. Once in the gym they would be topless for the doctor.

The guys physical: Totally different everyone knew between the letters, an announcements made the guys exams would be one theses dates. Our exam were always done in the nurse office. A line would form in the hallway and about 5 -10 guys would enter the room at a time. The school employed 3 nurses, but they needed helpers for the exams 2 to 3 female classmates. The one side of the room you're on. basic exam- weight, height, vision, hearing and BP. The "helpers" would just smile sometime laugh almost every time when they heard the "turn and cough" The other side you would lineup to see the doctor sitting behind a privacy screen. Normally, we remain in our school clothes some change into their P.E. clothes. While waiting in line the nurse instructions included: shirts ( either unbutton or shirtless), undo your belt, unfasten and unzip your pants. The nurse would check your pants were undone and your underwear was exposed. Next, even more smiles and giggles from the "helpers" when the nurse told us the doctor would check our "privates an turn and cough." Every guy tried to keep their pants up until it was time with the doctor. My last year they bought a new privacy screen which turned out it was not that private if in the right light. When you saw the doctor you stood on these "x marks" on the floor to keep your legs separated. The time came for the the doc. said "drop your pants, turn and cough". Well, this one year ( my last) the way they arranged the privacy screen and the check out desk the girls had a perfect view of every guy. The light coming in from the window provided a nice silhouette while you behind the screen . They basically saw the doctor looking at your penis, feel your balls and the hernia exam.

As I wrote before, a lot of girls already knew or heard rumors of what happened during a guys physical. But this just added to the comments and jokes for a few days .